i went with a co-worker to a funeral of 舊同事 ( who pass away in dec last yr ) early jan ts yr, her birthday is also in jan ; & she get a major operation in feb, took one month off fr sick leave after operation, and need to stay home thur whole CNY hol.....so either part may not be good ...but all is up to yr own decision.. we also said "多年好朋友, 百無禁忌 " before this happen.....沖吾到自己,沖到人,都吾好!許多老人家都會不喜歡, 自己決定 la..