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第二胎的媽咪一齊傾下

我今次係第二胎. 大囝 04 年 5 月出世. 小 b 預產期係 07 年 5 月 24 號.

你地個小朋友知唔知你肚入面有 bb? 你地有無諗過點樣畀心理準備囝囝/囡囡去迎接 bb 呢?

我一知道自己有左, 就同囝囝講我肚臍下面有個 bb, 佢好快就記得. 我問佢: 媽咪肚臍下面有咩呀? 佢會答: 有 bb.
後來我地諗好左 bb 個名, 就話畀佢知: "媽咪肚入面個 bb 叫 xx", 佢又係好快就記得.
過多個零月左右, 剛剛開始換季. 當我搵到 d 衫好細件, 佢已經唔o岩著, 我就同佢講: "件衫唔o岩著喇, 留番畀 xx 著啦". 後來佢自己會講"呢件留番畀 xx 著."
我又會教佢輕輕伏o係我肚上面, 聽下 bb 有無唱歌. 我問佢: "bb 有無唱歌呀?" 佢答: "無", 我就同佢講: "bb 好細個, 唔識得唱歌. 不如你教佢唱丫". 佢又真係教 bb 唱, 好得意

不過有時我地問佢關於 bb o既野, 例如 "你今日有無同 bb 傾偈呀?", 佢會表現得唔耐煩, 話 "我唔講呀!"
所以我地都唔敢講太多, 多數都係佢主動提起 bb, 我地先會講.

你地個小朋友又點呢? 分享下丫??

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Re: 第二胎的媽咪一齊傾下

Hi Monkichi,

My first BB girl was born in 2004 as well, but in December, and the expected day of my 2nd BB is 25th May, just one day after yours!

I got similar experience too. My girl already knows that there is a lottle baby in my tummy and every night, she will offer to apply cream on my tummy. She will say, "茶BB肚肚". It really is very funny.

In the earlier few days when the weather turned cold, I pulled out some grey socks for her to wear. Perhaps she doesn't like the colour, she said that those socks are for BB, not for her! This really surprised me!

However, when I ask whether she can save some toys for BB, she said no and said those are for her. Haha :lol:

When my girl mentions about BB, I will grab the chance to talk to her about how to take care of BB and stuff... e.g. I told her that she needs to help BB to change diaper, play with BB... Hope to prepare her well for the coming of a new family member.

Is your 1st baby born around end of May as well? Perhaps your 2 kids can have birthday party together!

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Re: 第二胎的媽咪一齊傾下

noelor,
hi, nice to meet you

你囡囡 12 月出世, 咁咪剛剛 2 歲囉. 咁快就明白媽咪肚裡面有 bb, 仲會講"茶BB肚肚", 真係叻囡 !!
我第一次問囝囝肯唔肯留番 d 玩具畀 bb 玩, 佢都係話唔得. 不過隔耐 d 再問, 同埋指明某件玩具(通常係 d 布玩具, 佢已經無玩好耐), 咁佢又肯喎, 佢仲自己搵多件差不多的話留番畀 bb 玩! 你隔耐 d 再問下囡囡, 可能佢都會肯

我囝囝係 16 號出世的, 同小 b 的預產期相差8日.
希望小 b 唔好咁早出世, 等我可以同囝囝一齊過生日.

你覺唔覺得個肚大得快過上一胎 ?

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Re: 第二胎的媽咪一齊傾下

Hi Monkichi,

Yes, my BB just turned 2 years. She is also born on the 16th like your son. You can start to talk to your 2nd baby and tell him or her to come out after big brother's birthday. I believe he/she can hear that.

Oh, by the way, do you know the gender of your 2nd baby yet? I had ultrasonic scan in 17th week and the doctor said it may be a boy, but not 100% sure yet...

I really need to train up my girl to share things. Right now, she always thinks that everything is for her! Hope later on, she can be empathatic as your son.

Yes, I absolutley feel that my tummy gets bigger than my 1st! For my 1st, I didn't realise the bump until 5 months, but for this time, my tummy is so big and obvious. Right now, I am already having back pain... :-( Seems still a long way to go...

Which hospital do you plan to deliver?

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ha ha, my 2 .5 yr old daughter was also born on 16th, but in april! She understands that there is a baby in my tummy, and likes to touch my tummy. I also prepped her by telling her stories on how big sister can help mommy with taking care of little babies.

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Re: 第二胎的媽咪一齊傾下

hi

我今次都係第二胎呀, 陀呢胎係比較辛苦
但個肚都係好細

我大仔依家4歲
開頭我仔仔都唔接受我有左BB
仲成日扭計, 又話唔要BB
開頭真係煩.. 不過依家都好d
有時行街, 佢想買玩具就叫我地買件玩具比bb
真係唔知笑好定嬲好

我細b 預產期同hb生日係同一日(5月29)
hb好想細b響佢生日果日出世

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Re: 第二胎的媽咪一齊傾下

hello,
我都係第二胎, 大女04年3月出世, 細b07年5月11日預產期。我仲未知個b係仔定女, 所以暫時叫佢做"金豬"。

早兩三個星期開始, 我叫阿女摸下我個肚, 教佢講: "金豬乖, 鍚晒汶希家姐..." 點知阿女不單止即刻學識, 仲自己加埋: "... 仲鍚晒媽媽, 同埋爸爸！" :mrgreen:

我問阿女, 金豬係仔定女, 佢會話: "金豬is a girl!" 又或者"妹妹黎架, 唔係弟弟！" 我諗我個女真係好想有個妹妹陪佢。

而家我仲煩緊請新工人既野, 如果而家0個個正常d我都費事搵過個, 但我真係諗唔到而家0個個可以點幫我湊多個bb, 佢做野咁鬼唔上心！

可能我第一胎個肚都現得/大得好快, 我唔覺今胎個肚大得快過上一胎呀！

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Re: 第二胎的媽咪一齊傾下

smallpiggie
你女女好叻呀, 識得叫bb錫埋爸爸媽媽
我仔都係想要弟弟, 唔想要妹妹
(不過我自己就好想生女)
我地誇張到同細b改埋名喇. 不過平日會叫小b做細細

你有無做野架?
我依家都有d擔心一個工人搞唔搞得掂兩個小朋友
我hb想我做full-time mom..但我自己唔係好想
本身我個工人可以響呢幾日黎, 不過依家可能要響christmas後先得
最好佢就快d黎啦. 難得我依家放緊假!

smallpiggie 寫道:
hello,
我都係第二胎, 大女04年3月出世, 細b07年5月11日預產期。我仲未知個b係仔定女, 所以暫時叫佢做"金豬"。

早兩三個星期開始, 我叫阿女摸下我個肚, 教佢講: "金豬乖, 鍚晒汶希家姐..." 點知阿女不單止即刻學識, 仲自己加埋: "... 仲鍚晒媽媽, 同埋爸爸！" :mrgreen:

我問阿女, 金豬係仔定女, 佢會話: "金豬is a girl!" 又或者"妹妹黎架, 唔係弟弟！" 我諗我個女真係好想有個妹妹陪佢。

而家我仲煩緊請新工人既野, 如果而家0個個正常d我都費事搵過個, 但我真係諗唔到而家0個個可以點幫我湊多個bb, 佢做野咁鬼唔上心！

可能我第一胎個肚都現得/大得好快, 我唔覺今胎個肚大得快過上一胎呀！

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Re: 第二胎的媽咪一齊傾下

noelor,
我 12 week 做 oscar 時照過一次, 醫生話似係囡, 不過未可以肯定.
下個月頭會照結構性 u/s, 到時應該會知道 bb 係囝定囡.

我上一胎都係五個月先覺得個肚漲起, 不過今次三個月已經覺得喇.
我12 week 時, 我老板問我係咪已經有 5 個月 ... ...

我會o係威爾斯生, 我上一胎都係o係威院生的.
你呢? 會o係邊度生?

lillymon,
hi, nice to meet you

咁橋你囡囡又係16號出世, 剛剛好大我囝囝一個月

你講咩故事畀囡囡聽? 係咪故事書黎咖?
我都想搵 d 故事書係關於點樣迎接/幫手照顧小 bb 畀我囝囝睇.
你有無介紹?

aloymon,
hi, nice to meet you

你囝囝都好乖呀, 買玩具會預埋畀 bb.
我同老公都諗好左 bb 個名喇 !! 個名比較中性, 男仔女仔都o岩用

smallpiggie,
hi, nice to meet you

你囡囡好叻呀, 會叫 bb 錫埋爸爸媽媽, 你地聽到一定心都甜晒 !
你要唔要返工咖?

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我都屎唔執輸入來報到!

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我年幾前開始變左一個full-time mom, 睇黎有排都唔出得返黎做野！但要我自己一個人湊BB唔請工人, 我又覺得好辛苦, 仲難過我返工加開埋OT！

monkichi,
阿女學校剛剛派左D資料係關於迎接弟妹, 有個reference book list, 你睇下响書局有冇?

- 小小大姊姊 (上誼文化實業股份有限公司)
- 我要一個妹妹 (三之三文化)
- 我希望弟弟是一隻狗 (親親文化事業有限公司)
- 添了小弟弟、不爭吵、你妒忌嗎？ (新雅出版社)
- 第一次上街買東西、佳佳的妹妹不見了 (漢聲精選世最佳兒童圖書)
- Alden R. Carter - 'Big Brother Dustin', Albert Whitman and Compnay Morton Grove, Illinois

而我自己上次咁0岩响學校家長日見到有書攤擺檔, 買左本 "媽媽的肚子變大了 (人類智庫出版集團)" 既台灣書, 呢排都係攞住呢本書同阿女講BB D野。

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Re: 第二胎的媽咪一齊傾下

smallpiggie 寫道:
monkichi,
阿女學校剛剛派左D資料係關於迎接弟妹, 有個reference book list, 你睇下响書局有冇?

- 小小大姊姊 (上誼文化實業股份有限公司)
- 我要一個妹妹 (三之三文化)
- 我希望弟弟是一隻狗 (親親文化事業有限公司)
- 添了小弟弟、不爭吵、你妒忌嗎？ (新雅出版社)
- 第一次上街買東西、佳佳的妹妹不見了 (漢聲精選世最佳兒童圖書)
- Alden R. Carter - 'Big Brother Dustin', Albert Whitman and Compnay Morton Grove, Illinois

而我自己上次咁0岩响學校家長日見到有書攤擺檔, 買左本 "媽媽的肚子變大了 (人類智庫出版集團)" 既台灣書, 呢排都係攞住呢本書同阿女講BB D野。

smallpiggie,
多謝你個 book list

我上網睇過圖書館都有得借, 我會去圖書館借

係呀, 全職湊小朋友無工人幫手, 真係辛苦過返工加開OT咖 !
咁即係話你宜家係全職媽咪 & 有個工人幫你手, 不過個工人做野唔上心, 係咪?
個工人做左幾耐呀, 有你睇住佢, 佢做野都唔上心

咁真係未必幫到你照顧兩個喎 ... ... 你有無話過佢呀?

Mui_Mui,
hello 茉莉媽

(我跟 amy 嗌你做茉莉媽 :mrgreen: :mrgreen:)
知道小 b 係囝定囡未?

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mui_mui

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smallpiggie

你女女學校咁好既, 會派呢d資料
我仔仔的學校無派
唔該哂你你book list呀
我仔仔認中文字較差
可以去試下借呢幾本書練習下睇中文!

我都覺做full-time mom 較返工辛苦
所以我做了full-time mom 幾年
今年終於出返黎做野

之前還可以叫62幫我湊仔仔
不過依家62唔想幫手, 無奈下要請工人..
如果我唔返工,湊2個小朋友..我諗我會癲..

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monkichi,
我而家個工人做左9個月有多, 但都係做野唔上心咁, 已經決定請過個架喇, 不過未請到新之前仲會留佢响度做住先。

aloymom,
你而家做乜野工作架？我都諗緊我唔做野幾年, 到時再出返黎做野可以做乜？但係你一請個工人就要湊兩個, 有冇人可以幫你平時睇住下架？我覺得近年D外傭質素真係每況愈下！

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Hello.

I am going to have my 2nd baby on May-2007 also. As some of you, I gave birth to my 1st baby on Year 2004. And both of my babies are boy - Monkey and Pig!

我大囝Isaac在2004年8月3日出世
我細囝Eton在2007年4月29日出世

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Re: 第二胎的媽咪一齊傾下

ZhuZhuMa,
hello

好多第二任媽咪都係 04 媽咪喎 !
你地個小朋友有無讀 n1?
我囝囝無讀, 所以下年佢除左要適應多左個細佬/細妹之外, 過多幾月個仲要適應返學 ... ... 所以我想搵 d 故事書畀睇, 畀 d 心理準備佢. 希望佢到時適應到啦.

有無一 d 講第一次返學的書可以介紹下呢?

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[size=small]♡monkichi,

照到好似係仔不過未confirm!

[size=small]♡aloymom,ZhuZhuMa,

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[size=small]♡monkichi,
Jasmine有返PN..我諗講返學嘅書一定有,你可以去Page One睇下,果樹應該有類似嘅書,不過我無買過呢類書,我educate個女係靠比佢睇關於First Day to School呀果d圖書同埋Barney VCD,因為佢like呀嘛!

monkichi 寫道:
好多第二任媽咪都係 04 媽咪喎 !
你地個小朋友有無讀 n1?
我囝囝無讀, 所以下年佢除左要適應多左個細佬/細妹之外, 過多幾月個仲要適應返學 ... ... 所以我想搵 d 故事書畀睇, 畀 d 心理準備佢. 希望佢到時適應到啦.

有無一 d 講第一次返學的書可以介紹下呢?

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