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mimocat8

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發表於 07-11-16 02:09 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

Very Angry.....I just had a talk with my bun bun......very very angry and want to share my experience with all of you here:

She had been here with us for 4 months since I hired her directly from Phil. I want her to take care my 2 babies (1.5 months and 14 months) and do all the household works for me as both of us are working. She worked in Phil before as a domestic helper but never worked oversea. She is not good in English - she never understand our instructions (we don't understand what she said as well) and always like she is dreaming. She always forgot what we told her and made a lot of mistakes, she is not careful and in average, she broke one item per month in the past 4 months since she's here. She cannot cook chinese food and she is not a fast learner, so she can only cook 3 or 4 chinese dishes now......

The major problem is her attitude, I feel that she is not honest to us and she is not humble, I got a "

u Yui" here with me for the past 1.5 months after the 2nd baby was born and agreed with the "

u Yui" that she will teach my bun bun how to cook and take care the baby, but my bun bun is not humble at all and did not learn from "

u Yui" seriously, so the "

u Yui" gave up to teach her anything.

I talked to her an hour ago about her performance for more than 2 hours coz I wanted to undertsand more about her thoughts, we stood together in the kitchen at the beginning and talked. Then I sat down when I felt tried and she cried....I didn't shout at her at all and I just talked to her with a soft tone.....so I asked her why she cried, she said because I made her stand in front of me......I was surprised and asked her if she expected me to sit down with her together and talk like a pair of good friends even she made a lot of mistakes, she replied me no but it is not in the contract that I can make her stand in front of me when we talk......I was angry at this point and I told her that her contract didn't mentioned every single thing and even I am not supposed to invite her to eat with us together at the same table if I follow the contract (we let her eat with us together, not in the kitchen)...........

I am planning to fire her anyway, I cannot stand anymore.......just so angry.....but the new maid is not yet arrived....so will need to suffer for one more month.........very very angry and this is the first time I experience someone talk to the boss like that.........

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fion2504

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發表於 07-11-16 02:28 |只看該作者

我今日丙個工人唔跟我指示做,佢都同我講, 你乜都覺得係我錯, 咁樣我係到會做得好唔開心o架, 我立即同佢講我都好唔開心啊. 之後再丙過, 不過後來隔左一陣, 佢都有同我say sorry, 不過無用, 我已經講左新工人, 新來時就炒舊的. 點解佢要係到同我頂左無數次咀, 到一年後才識sorry呢個字呢?-( ?-(

原文章由 mimocat8 於 07-11-16 02:09 發表
Very Angry.....I just had a talk with my bun bun......very very angry and want to share my experience with all of you here:

She had been here with us for 4 months since I hired her directly from Phil ...

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Krymum

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發表於 07-11-16 09:45 |只看該作者

我睇唔明什麼是"u Yui"呀? 你工人咁奇怪, 佢就算企係到, 咁有咩好喊呀? 究竟佢想點? 對住呢d 工人真嘔血.

原文章由 mimocat8 於 07-11-16 02:09 發表
Very Angry.....I just had a talk with my bun bun......very very angry and want to share my experience with all of you here:

She had been here with us for 4 months since I hired her directly from Phil ...

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發表於 07-11-16 11:51 |只看該作者

原文章由 Krymum 於 07-11-16 09:45 發表
我睇唔明什麼是"u Yui"呀? 你工人咁奇怪, 佢就算企係到, 咁有咩好喊呀? 究竟佢想點? 對住呢d 工人真嘔血.

我都諗左好耐 = 陪月

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littlemelody

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發表於 07-11-16 11:55 |只看該作者

No need to waste breath to talk to her
for more than 2 hours. I got the same
experience that the BUN is inexperience
and with poor attitude. I find it is no use
to talk to this kind of people.

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mimocat8

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發表於 07-11-16 12:05 |只看該作者

Oh, I mean "

u Yui"....the aunt to take care new born baby and the mom.

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Krymum

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發表於 07-11-16 12:18 |只看該作者

OH, I see:lol:

原文章由 hinhinmummy 於 07-11-16 11:51 發表

我都諗左好耐 = 陪月

:-P

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sisilui

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發表於 07-11-16 12:31 |只看該作者

i've got the same experience. this kind of people really no need to "waste time" on her. She won't understand her problem and she will not think what's wrong on her. I understand why you're so angry because we can't believe there will be such kind of person in the world!!

hope your next maid will be good.

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mimocat8

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發表於 07-11-16 12:51 |只看該作者

I have no more "gas" with my bun bun la. This morning, she forgot to clean my hubby's cup and forgot to close the kitchen gate again, I just asked if she forgot or what and then I did it by myself. She always forgot our instruction and do things with her own will, but the problem is that she is not smart and has no common sense. We are the employer but we cannot get the service we pay for.......I plan to ask her to eat inside the kitchen start from today....I really want to treat her good but her attitude............I am not angry anymore, but just give up....so just wait until the new maid is coming. But I am going back to work next week, so only my mom and the maid will be in the house to take care the 2 babies.....so I think she will make my mom angry

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chuenma

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發表於 07-11-16 13:18 |只看該作者

而家D bun係好衰&賤, 動不動就講right, 少少野就同你講according to the contract. 我頂!又唔見contract有寫要佢地耍努力工作, 唔好talkback. Contract 夠無寫佢地可以煲電話同黑面. 我見佢地來港前上堂有一節講佢地d human right, 唔知係唔係政府教佢地right, 所以而家呢批好興講right.

唔好采佢呢, 一於當佢透明, 佢地d政府根本唔鐘意香港人, 點會教得出好人出. 想請好工人要等運到.

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mimocat8

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發表於 07-11-16 13:41 |只看該作者

回覆 #1 chuenma 的文章

is it really hard to get a good helper in HK? I thought direct hired is better than those already in HK since I can train her on my own way....but still.....so who protects our right as an employer?? Always talk about the maids' right.....If I have other choice, I rather hire local HK people even it is more expensive......but even I don't mind to pay more, it is difficult to find local HK people to be the nanny

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發表於 07-11-16 13:53 |只看該作者

如果講成兩個鐘頭都係你坐佢企,咁真係有d體罰既味道噃.
如果我老板要我企兩粒鐘聽佢訓話,我都會咸架.一方面我覺得我老板玩我,另外一方面,係我疲累到咸.

你自己都話覺得疲累啦,咁工人都會覺得疲累架麻.
佢做得唔好,可以炳,可以炒,但唔好咁體罰人囉.
Sorry,有話直講乍,唔好介意.

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carmenau

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發表於 07-11-16 14:20 |只看該作者

其實請個工人返嚟都係想share一下自己既workload，成日搞到咁勞氣，仲慘過d野自己做番晒啦！不過cooking呢樣野，我由細到大，學極都煮得唔係咁好食，我無expect個工人一嚟到香港，學幾個月就識得煮chinese food wor~ 都係叫佢整下三文治同意粉d西餐野，食想好味chinese food，就寧願返外家或出街食。
有時你地既工人workload係咪太重呢？要做全屋家務、照顧兩個baby同埋cooking，做得多自然出錯率會多d。工作量overload，心情都唔會好得去邊。
我唔係偏幫工人，只係覺得連自己都未必做得perfect既野，點解對人地既要求要咁高。我地公司都係division of labour 啦！如果一間公司要你全部一腳踢，晚晚ot，人工又唔係特別高，老細日日炳你，你會唔會日日都笑住返工呢？
間屋同BB都係自己既，佢真係做得唔夠好，咪慢慢教，自己又做下少少家務 lor~ 一個人點可以finish到咁多野？我地響公司做錯大鑊野，老細同manager都會出手settle啦！真係超唔ok既話，咪炒鬼左佢lor~唔駛成日都勞氣又傷身。