首先,我係在職媽媽,收入唔多,沒有做錯任何事,對家已盡全責,家中所有開支由我負責(供樓,工人salary除外),management fee,electricity, gas, water , daily expenses of the family, marketing, bb所布支出,奶粉,diapper,打針,工人所有什費等等,仲有自己交通費,保險費... i didn't waste a bug ( i can't afford to waste a bug), because my salary cannot cover all the expenses that i need to pay. i ask for my husband's help, he earned 4-5 times more than me per month. His expenses is only the mortgage and the bun bun's salary, his insurance and his mother's 家用. He refuses to help me, he said that is my responsiblity, i should handle it myself, he said he won't give me a bug. i know he doesn't has financial problem, he bought a new camera lately, it's about $3000, i request him to help me or support me some of the expenses, he refuses...
供樓會用左幾錢左右? around $15000, only about 1/3 of his salary
he knows my salary is not enough to cover
before we get married, we promised to share the expenses, because the salary of my previous job is more than the present job, i quitted the job because he requested me to do so or he will get divorced. later, i was pregnant, he asked me to stay at home until bb is born, but he didn't give me any 家用, i only used my saving to survive, but i need to go to marketing, share the expenses, but he is willing to give 家用to his mother, who had a work at that time.
after bb is born, i find i must find a job to survive, he knew that i got a job, request me to share more with him, but my salary is far less than the previous one, can't cover the expenses lor ,he still refuses to help me lor
he asked me to stay at home until bb is born, but he didn't give me any 家用, i only used my saving to survive, but i need to go to marketing, share the expenses, but he is willing to give 家用to his mother, who had a work at that time.
after bb is born, i find i must find a job to survive, he knew that i got a job, request me to share more with him