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himhim媽咪

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我99一向當自己老佛爺，叫又不應，問又不搭。我一直有叫99,but99不應我。我昨日终于冇叫。點知隻9向62投訴，62同c6講，c6又同我講叫我乖。隻9冇尊重我，又要所有人都尊重她。如果我屈服，隻9以後會食住我。如果我企硬，隻9會行動升級。我62成日想家和萬事興。所以62被99‘刮’都冇出聲。我c6都知隻9d野，不過可以不出聲都會不出聲。c6怕被人乱槍掃射死。我不想被人成世食住，但我又不想62同c6難做。點算?請各位新抱教教我。

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Please tell us more.....such as do you work? do you like with your 62 99? How about the other daughter in law (if any)?

原文章由 himhim媽咪 於 08-8-14 19:54 發表
我99一向當自己老佛爺，叫又不應，問又不搭。我一直有叫99,but99不應我。我昨日终于冇叫。點知隻9向62投訴，62同c6講，c6又同我講叫我乖。隻9冇尊重我，又要所有人都尊重她。如果我屈服，隻9以後會食住我。如果我企硬，隻9會行動升 ...

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I am a new full time mum. My son is two months. I and 99 are not living together. But we are having dinner about four times a week. Tonight, I have to see her but I really don't want to call her.
She has a 不問世事的second son living in other city. My 62 is nice and friendly, but he is very 怕老婆. How can I do? Helpppppppppp.

原文章由 ac321 於 08-8-14 19:56 發表
Please tell us more.....such as do you work? do you like with your 62 99? How about the other daughter in law (if any)?

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長幼有序, 叫99除咗係尊重長輩, 亦表示尊重自己. 佢唔應係佢冇禮貌, 但你唔好同佢一般見識.

不過叫還叫, 只限於「入屋叫人」, 淨係入門口果下大大聲叫佢(目的是全屋人都聽到), 之後同屋內其他人談笑風生, 傾得越開心越好, 但唔係同99喎!

佢想答咀? no way!

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如果我企硬，隻9會行動升 => what will she do then?
May be you can call her in 'very low and small' sound so that she can't hear it. However, make sure you stand close to your C6/62 so that only they can hear that.
When your 99 complain you, then ask her to do the body check as other hear you 有叫99.
If she don't complain you, then 叫99 with smaller and smaller sound.........just like talk to yourself!

I don't know is it work or not.
My 99 also have a big nose. However, I am a 'hard' woman. I 叫99 loudly everytime (shout out). If she haven't give me any response, I will stand in front of her (like want to fight with her), face to face , look at her and 叫99 again. Then she will give me response such as : ok, I get it.....don't be so rude!
I: I worry that your body get something wrong and you can't here me ma!

原文章由 himhim媽咪 於 08-8-14 19:54 發表
我99一向當自己老佛爺，叫又不應，問又不搭。我一直有叫99,but99不應我。我昨日终于冇叫。點知隻9向62投訴，62同c6講，c6又同我講叫我乖。隻9冇尊重我，又要所有人都尊重她。如果我屈服，隻9以後會食住我。如果我企硬，隻9會行動升 ...

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It is a funny suggestion. However, I don't think it works as my 62 and c6 would know I am 玩野。
我99份人，用母老虎，潑婦都不够來形容。如果我企硬，隻9會發癫。不斷向我62c6施壓。結果，我62c6左右做人難。Or 我99會講説話我聽。Or 向我太奶奶complain.

原文章由 ac321 於 08-8-14 20:25 發表
如果我企硬，隻9會行動升 => what will she do then?
May be you can call her in 'very low and small' sound so that she can't hear it. However, make sure you stand close to your C6/62 so that only they can ...

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叫未叫囉..叫有好多種嘛!

你仲要大大聲叫佢添呀! 叫完未當佢透明囉!

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記得我當年都係咁, 只限 "入屋叫人" 式叫聲99....其他?! 冇嘢好講!! 我有我同我老公傾計, 99講嘢, 我就即時間歇性啞咗.....有咩事都老公解決, 問我意見, 我只會笑一笑, 但一句聲都唔出, 一係我就會踢返個波比老公 (費事比人話 "男家嘅事關你鬼事" 亦防止有咩手尾要跟, 事後衰咗我咪死得仲快), 大大聲一句 "你話事啦!" that's all......想搵位插我........都幾難

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好好好, 仲要大聲到個個都望住你, 如你99嘈, 或其他人問你做乜咁大聲, 你咪話驚99聽唔到你叫佢, 以為你唔尊重佢, 所以咪大聲啲. 再者"大聲唔等如冇禮貌"

原文章由 方麗娟 於 08-8-14 20:20 發表
只限於「入屋叫人」, 淨係入門口果下大大聲叫佢(目的是全屋人都聽到), 之後同屋內其他人談笑風生, 傾得越開 ...

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My 99 also like 母老虎.......she will 'bite' all the families when she is 發癫. I 玩野 with her before. Then, she 不斷向我c6施壓, 結果，我c6 don't want to go to her flat and have dinner with her. Finally, she find that her son 'don't' miss her anymore as she 不斷施壓.
We visit her once a month now. If she want us to visit her, she will call me (not her son) as she know that her son won't answer her call.......... Now, she talk to me in polite words!

原文章由 himhim媽咪 於 08-8-14 21:24 發表
It is a funny suggestion. However, I don't think it works as my 62 and c6 would know I am 玩野。
我99份人，用母老虎，潑婦都不够來形容。如果我企硬，隻9會發癫。不斷向我62c6施壓。結果，我62c6左右做人難。Or 我99 ...

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一入屋, 大大聲聲叫99,等全屋人聽到, 如果佢唔應你, 你行埋佢身邊, 再大聲Ｄ叫99, 佢再唔睬你, 咪扮個好可憐的表情, 望住老公, 再大聲問下99:聽唔聽到我叫你呀, 我驚你聽唔到呀!

等你老公親眼睇下你個99有乜反應law.

Ｄ死佬淨係想送Ｄ老婆去比佢阿媽糟質, 自己就置身事外:;pppp:

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原文章由 shalala1997 於 08-8-14 22:04 發表
一入屋, 大大聲聲叫99,等全屋人聽到, 如果佢唔應你, 你行埋佢身邊, 再大聲Ｄ叫99, 佢再唔睬你, 咪扮個好可憐的表情, 望住老公, 再大聲問下99:聽唔聽到我叫你呀, 我驚你聽唔到呀!

等你老公親眼睇下你個99有乜反應law.: ...

個方法我十分同意呀~~我地做細既.就算幾咁唔鍾意都好表面野一定要做足俾其他人睇..唔係人地就只會以為係你唔岩..所以有時做既野要尃登係你老公或者其他人面前做..咁自己就唔會有野俾人講啦~

lee D已經係好少事啦...可以講係岩岩開始~~

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樓主, 我都有差不多的問題, 但對手唔係奶奶(我奶奶係100分好人),

果隻老野(62)2個月前有次我地返去食飯, 我一入屋就大大聲叫左佢, 佢無應我我就由得佢,點知佢成晚黑口黑面,單單打打, 到我地走啦我女兒(4歲) 話要將自己手袋裡面d糖一人一粒分享,佢攞左一粒糖走去我62面前比佢, 佢推開我個女話:唔食唔食, 等你比粒糖我食,就死啦.我當時哀左都唔知佢發咩神經, 我老公即時抱開個女& 鬧佢:你有咩唔高興就同大人講, 唔好攞個細路黎出氣,我好慶所以我就同個女走先,我奶奶即時追出黎叫我唔好慶, 果個死老野就同我老公講, 因為你老婆入屋唔叫我, 唔尊重我.

我老公,姑奶,姑仔,叔仔兩公婆同時話, 唔係呀,有呀我地都聽到, 隻野即時拍枱話:我聽唔到,凡話無就無, 我老公話:錦即係無野講啦,講咩都無用跟住即走.

所以個pk已經2個月無見個仔, 抵佢死全屋無一個人幫佢.

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禮貌上入屋叫人都好應該嘅, 佢冇禮貌你唔洗理, 你做足自己本份就得啦. 不過, 可以同c6講, 返少d去99度食飯, c6扮ot又好, 唔舒服又好, 總之少見少煩.

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樓主，我忍唔住又要呻下。我由17歲同c6一起時都有叫auntie,点知佢個friend死老嘢話我冇叫佢，咁99就話我。嗰時細，笑下say hi都話我，咁愈話我咪愈唔叫，(但我有叫99 auntie)跟住同99關係開始唔好。因這事煩了好耐。到我就近30歲時,叫佢另一個friend又唔應，咪唔叫，又比佢friend 話,咁99又話我。我咪同99講係佢friend唔應我先唔叫,而且我都咁大個,邊個應叫,邊個唔應叫，我識分。我唔再係小孩子了。

到我c6細佬結緍個日,人地老婆叫99,阿媽飲茶，点知99哭住叫佢叫99。我同c6在旁勁偷笑，因我地知99為人人地叫佢媽係想親切d,比足面哪，死要人叫99,賴巴閉。

仲好,叫唔落佢做阿媽。到我結緍個日，佢d姑姐走去叫我媽叫我叫99時要大声d，佢地唔講我都識做,点解要煩我媽，係咪話我媽冇教我？自己要新抱叫99又要管個仔点叫外母，話唔好叫我媽做媽，叫外母好d。好在我c6叫我媽做媽,但我冇聽c6叫99媽。我99仲同我媽講話將最好個仔比了你,我媽O咀。

到我有了bb,佢打比我媽話我媽生女都唔係好幸福，因我都冇理我媽。我好嬲佢咁給我媽。哪時我住上海,回HK生bb時冇叫佢99,just say hi,佢又發佬脾,我又忍唔住打電話同佢傾。佢話入屋叫人,入廟拜神。我話我一直有叫人，但佢就成日話我唔叫人,如果佢屋企咁注重禮貌,点解佢d仔唔叫人？c6兩個細佬都冇叫我大嫂,你屋企d人唔叫人就得,我叫佢教好自己d仔先管其它人,佢講唔過我cut我線。因叫人問題所以煩十幾年，痴線！

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回覆 #16 qqbby 的文章

咦~你個CASE同我有DDDD似!
嗰時我同老公拍拖冇耐就同居,因為佢阿媽間屋係喺老公間屋樓下隔兩層,咁我晚晚都會同老公落去佢媽度食飯~
我次次一入屋都有叫佢auntie+叫62世伯,而佢次次都有笑笑口點頭應我!
點知有一日老公同我講番,話佢阿媽問佢,我見到佢有冇叫佢!
我嗰時幾鬼嬲,好彩老公次次都聽到啫!
個死八婆想老屈我話我冇叫佢,佢明明次次都有笑住點頭應番我,竟然話我冇叫佢!正一死八婆!!

自此之後我就知呢隻野唔簡單!
到左而家,嘿!見到佢叫完一聲99之後就零交流!
呢個死八婆好鍾意寸人架!早幾日佢先寸完我,我當然反擊不留餘地咁寸番佢啦!跟住咪即刻收晒皮唔出聲囉!:;pppp:

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我62咪又係冇禮貌個隻,叫親佢永遠唔"so"我,係連望都唔望我個隻,之後我試過一排唔叫佢,佢又唔忿氣,係隻99面前話我冇禮貌,唔叫佢woo,真係吹脹,叫佢個陣又扮上棻,唔叫佢,佢條氣又唔順,我心唸,你個女見親你都黑口黑面,又唔見你夠膽出聲話你個女?我唔係你個女woo,對我咁多要求仲乜q?況且係你唔so我先,不知所謂,個次之後我次次見親佢都專登大大聲咁叫佢,費事比佢話,叫完之後咪當睇佢唔到lor,佢走埋黎我個仔到時,我會專登拉個仔行去另一邊,擺到明係唔比佢接近我個仔ga la:;pppp: