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[在職媽媽] 在職而家有工人的妳，會唔會擔心BB跟工人多過跟自己？ [複製鏈接]

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我真係擔心，因為下星期開始我要返工啦，唔可以好似宜家咁全日陪BB。

我個工人幾好，好喜歡同我個BB玩，但反而令我唔自在，因為怕到時BB對住工人多過自己，佢會寧願跟工人唔跟我。好似宜家咁，雖然有工人但我唔俾佢湊BB，因為我想多d我同BB嘅時間...... 至少在我返工前我都希望多d陪BB。

有無媽媽就算有工人，工作時間長又趕，都會堅持某些東西由自己同BB做，如同BB沖涼咁？我班朋友覺得我好傻，明明有工人都要自己攞黎辛苦自己幫佢沖涼。

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原文章由 Freesia_cat 於 08-5-23 08:01 發表
我真係擔心，因為下星期開始我要返工啦，唔可以好似宜家咁全日陪BB。

我個工人幾好，好喜歡同我個BB玩，但反而令我唔自在，因為怕到時BB對住工人多過自己，佢會寧願跟工人唔跟我。好似宜家咁，雖然有工人但我唔俾佢湊BB，因為我想多 ...

我工人對bb幾好, bb好鍾意同佢玩, 我3月頭開始返工, 我放工番到屋企都成8點, 我唔想 bb 咁夜先沖涼, 而且 bb 夜晚8點左右就瞓, 所以都係朝早由工人同佢沖涼.

我好明顯覺得佢越來越跟工人, 我最近抱佢瞓佢都唔肯, 要工人抱............ 但係有咩辦法呢, 我地又要返工!! 不過......你又要諗下如果佢唔跟工人你就驚, 即係工人對佢唔好, 小朋友最直接, 對佢唔好就唔會跟! 難得搵到好工人, 你應該高興.

唔好諗咁多啦! 等佢大d你同佢出街玩, 佢就自然會跟你.

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hi, i have two daughters already (now 4 and 1.75 yrs old), i have been bathing my elder daughter ever since she was born even i have had a maid. but for my young daughter, it was difficult because of work and elder daugther being jealous, my maids took care of younger daugther. if you can, try to bathe her/him for bonding between you and her/him as well as "checking" the body for any bruises and wounds, if any. my younger daughter was "unlucky" coz she had more "accidents" than her elder sister. afterall, the parents are to blame coz i did not have enough time to concentrate on her (but on the elder daughter

but maids, even they appear to be nice when you are there, they are still your "workers", not relatives, the parents are the best for her/him. i now have 2 maids to take care of the kids, but whenever possible, i bathe them both. i try to carry my younger daughter during outing for a bonding time, (but she actually prefers the maid

.) yet, i need to try to do a mom's job. when she starts to be inpatient, i let the maid carry her.

原文章由 Freesia_cat 於 08-5-23 08:01 發表
我真係擔心，因為下星期開始我要返工啦，唔可以好似宜家咁全日陪BB。

我個工人幾好，好喜歡同我個BB玩，但反而令我唔自在，因為怕到時BB對住工人多過自己，佢會寧願跟工人唔跟我。好似宜家咁，雖然有工人但我唔俾佢湊BB，因為我想多 ...

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我同老公商量過，都係決定自己同BB沖涼，反正我個BB跟我地成12:00(mid)左右先瞓。

而且我諗住星期六多d帶佢去街街，多d一齊玩。平日就盡量6:30pm收工返屋企陪BB，希望佢唔會唔跟我啦！我個仔宜家好黏我，我希望KEEP住咁呀！

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hi, 我同你一樣,搵到一個好工人, 好肯同bb玩,但個心好唔舒服,擔心返工之後佢唔跟我,係我放假期間,我真係自己照顧佢,工人只係協助我同做其他家務,到今個月我返工啦,都堅持每晚7時趕返來餵奶,幫佢沖涼,tum 佢瞓覺,雖然好辛苦,但我相信值得ger, so far bb見到我放工返來,都對住我笑,無話淨係認工人

原文章由 Freesia_cat 於 08-5-25 11:52 發表
我同老公商量過，都係決定自己同BB沖涼，反正我個BB跟我地成12:00(mid)左右先瞓。

而且我諗住星期六多d帶佢去街街，多d一齊玩。平日就盡量6:30pm收工返屋企陪BB，希望佢唔會唔跟我啦！我個仔宜家好黏我，我希望KEEP住咁呀！ ...

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我係一月開始番工, 平時都要九點先番到屋企, 但係我都堅持要自己同bb沖涼, 一來係個工人成日都好大意, 怕佢整親bb, 二來我覺得同bb沖涼好開心, 唔想同人share哩一個得自己同bb既開心既時間. 宜家bb如果唔係我同佢沖涼, 佢就會喊, 雖然辛苦, 但係其實都幾開心, 因為覺得佢真係鍾意自己嘛. 另外, bb宜家日間係工人照顧, 所以佢都幾癡工人, 但係我一番到屋企就唔俾工人照顧佢, 一放假就同佢出街, 所以宜家bb都好癡我, 所以你唔洗太擔心, 但係你要辛苦d, 爭取多d照顧bb既時間呀.