During my pregnancy last year, both of me and my husband decided to give my baby to my "milk milk" to take care after 3 months(I also need to work), but when bb born on Nov, and finally we decided not to give my "milk mik" to take care!! coz 1. me and my husband want to see bb every night 2. my milk milk's method to take care of bb is totally diff, and I also cried many times (even not yet give to her and just imagine myself), and my husband want to prevent any argue between me and milk milk in the future, we deicide to take care the baby ourseleves. So finally we employed a maid and I really think if possible, u should take care of your bb at night, because she will be more stick to you ga~~~ Now she is 6 months and when I come home, she laugh and laugh~~
I also give my daugther to my mother in-law take care. At the first (after two months), I really don't want to give her to take care coz she doesn't have experience. She only have my husband, so already forgot 30 years how to take care BB.
Then, my husband said if you employ Phillipine maid is not so good. You also very worry about this and your daughter is her son-daughter.
She will not caused by anything.
Altough her method is too old, but sometimes, she will listen my suggestion.
Thus, we will not outbreak.
So far until now (2.6mths) her outlook is OK.
Please try to talk with her.