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BB幾大先同菲傭/印傭訓? [複製鏈接]

nausica

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發表於 04-6-25 21:41 |只看該作者

BB幾大先同菲傭/印傭訓?

我個B年尾先出世, 諗住請個工人幫手湊,
我見大家的post里好多時BB都同工人訓工人房?!
想問大家BB出世後幾多個月大家先捨得佢同個工人訓?

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kent哥

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Re: BB幾大先同菲傭/印傭訓?

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JJ9198

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發表於 04-6-26 11:50 |只看該作者

Re: BB幾大先同菲傭/印傭訓?

I think BB does not need to sleep with domestic helper, unless there is no room for the helper to stay by herself.

I never let my BB sleep with anyone because I am afraid that she will be addicted to sleep with adult and can never become independent. I took care of her at night since she was born (now she is 4), she sleeps next door to us and I open both bedroom doors at night so that I can hear her. Until lately because I was pregnant and suffered from threatened abortion sometimes ago. My doctor advised me to rest more and therefore when my daughter need a "wee-wee" occasionally in the midnight, I told her to ask the helper to help her. Still I does not let them stay in the same room.

There is another reason, although I don't mind my BB feels close to my helper but not too attached to her though, because I am afraid that one day she might have to leave us and go back home for good. If my daughter is used to sleep with the helper, she will feel more lonely at night and there will bound to be a big fuzz.

And by the way, if the helper has to take care of the BB throughout the night, how can she possibility waken enough to take care of the household + BB in the day time?

10/03/05 - 16.7Kg - 107.5cm 15/11/05 - 17.5Kg - 112.2cm 25/01/06 - 17.3Kg - 113.0cm

30/10/04 - 3.49Kg - 49cm 01/12/04 - 4.73Kg - 54.5cm 05/01/05 - 6Kg - 55.5cm 08/03/05 - 7.47Kg - 60.5cm 04/05/05 - 8.3Kg - 65cm 27/06/05 - 8.9Kg - 66cm 16/07/05 - 9.09Kg 10/09/05 - 9.38Kg - 67cm 20/10/05 - 9.4Kg - 70cm 09/11/05 - 9.5Kg - 72cm 25/01/06 - 9.8Kg - 73cm

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Almaz

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Re: BB幾大先同菲傭/印傭訓?

我一向都沒有讓女兒跟工人瞓.女兒BB的時候就瞓BB床,但下午奶奶就同BB瞓同一張床,所以女兒晚上就一定要跟大人瞓,因為習慣了人氣.所以現在女兒(15個月)都跟我和老公一張床.以前四呎床好鬼迫,現在換了5呎床就舒服D.因為最初沒有經驗,不知道原來BB跟開大人瞓,以後就唔肯自己瞓床仔,弄得如此下塲.不過,無論如何,我都不會讓女兒跟工人瞓.她每天日間都對著工人,就連晚上都對著工人,我不如送了女兒給工人?

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Carson_mum

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發表於 04-6-26 20:36 |只看該作者

Re: BB幾大先同菲傭/印傭訓?

My bb was stay at the same bedroom with 印印 since he was 4 days old. :-P

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birdbird

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發表於 04-6-28 09:13 |只看該作者

Re: BB幾大先同菲傭/印傭訓?

我個仔出世出院之後, 同工人訓o左幾晚　(訓bb床).
之後又入院照燈, 出院之後, 就跟番我訓 (訓搖搖椅).
訓到3個月大, 我放完產假返工為止, 才跟番工人訓, 因為自己唔想夜晚起身湊b第2朝返工冇精神.
阿仔而家8個月, 我房夜晚開冷氣, 阿仔又跟番我訓, (訓網床). 而家佢少o左半夜喊醒, 我就有覺好訓.