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keroppi82

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我個bun bun 做咗一個月, 家務同煮餸都ok, 不過佢湊我個new born bb 好似唔好, 我覺得佢唔係唔識湊, 而係無心去湊, 日間就好, 特別係餵夜奶好求其,我見過佢合埋眼,郁都唔郁. 叫佢佢先郁, 完全唔上心, 有時阿b 望住佢, 佢就同阿b對望, 唔同佢講話, 好以啞咁.叫佢同阿b 講吓野, 佢先同佢講. 比佢激死!!!同佢講過好小小, 不過我覺得佢好似好唔開心. 我老公話佢個樣好以好委屈咁!!!!

會唔會係佢掛住佢個b??? 佢有個女1year old??? 思鄉???
係唔係應該請過個? 比你地會點做????

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应该是睹你B思自己个B喇...点讲呢...始终唔系巨亲生...而且凑的时间仲好短...冇咩感情...多D沟通安慰下巨...努力...

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我覺得佢都不喜歡湊bb, 又不識得自動自覺(可能好多都冇), 但如果佢請番來主要是湊b, 又看似沒有愛心, 佢真係不適合喇

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如果請佢返黎主要係湊BB, 但佢一啲HEART都冇, 冇心想同BB建立好關係, 俾佢其他野做得幾好都好, 我唔會用佢。

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原文章由 keroppi82 於 08-7-3 12:45 發表
我個bun bun 做咗一個月, 家務同煮餸都ok, 不過佢湊我個new born bb 好似唔好, 我覺得佢唔係唔識湊, 而係無心去湊, 日間就好, 特別係餵夜奶好求其,我見過佢合埋眼,郁都唔郁. 叫佢佢先郁, 完全唔上心, 有時阿b 望住佢 ...

若果要工人餵埋夜奶, 有時真係唔好要求咁高, 工人都係人佢都會攰嘛, 不過餵奶鍡到合埋眼就唔好, 點知佢有無瞓著嫁?! 佢瞓著阿b未好危險, 所以我生細b個時, 夜晚都係自己親力親為, 唔想工人咁攰, 令願佢早上幫忙就算~

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之前俾家姐工人(有個2歲仔)搝下暗瞓晏教,見佢凝望亞囝嘅眼神好特別..........好似希望透過亞B身上揾到自已仔仔嘅影子.佢啱啱同我家姐請辭要返屋企,做左一年都未夠.

自已都為人亞媽,丟低自已幼兒遠離家郷搝人地BB,其實都幾百般滋味....

既然佢做野ok咁都值得輔導下,問下佢係咪掛住BB? 提醒佢來港都係為BB張來著想,
同佢傾下佢亞B再安撫下佢啦~

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原文章由 keroppi82 於 08-7-3 12:45 發表
我個bun bun 做咗一個月, 家務同煮餸都ok, 不過佢湊我個new born bb 好似唔好, 我覺得佢唔係唔識湊, 而係無心去湊, 日間就好, 特別係餵夜奶好求其,我見過佢合埋眼,郁都唔郁. 叫佢佢先郁, 完全唔上心, 有時阿b 望住佢 ...

What's her working hours? Since you have a newborn, could it be her wokring hours are too long? If she doesn't have enough sleep, she can perform well.

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我嗰印印都幾好,ＢＢ瞓覺食奶都要找佢,同埋成日都同ＢＢ睇卡通和玩玩具,不過清潔就麻麻！

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keroppi82

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我日間有比佢休息, 唔使做野, 大約三點幾左右就無野做. 剩係睇住阿b, 佢手腳快做好d家務,一早就可以休息!!!! 我都唔會比好多野佢做, 剩係做基本清潔!!!!

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maylamj

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發表於 08-7-3 23:26 |只看該作者

我個工人都要餵夜奶,bb己經６個月,可以比多一個月去試,再考慮

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iusiube

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發表於 08-7-4 09:30 |只看該作者

I think you should encourage her more. My Maid is exactly like your maid, but I understadn night feed is very very difficult becasue you don't know how long you can sleep and when you need to wake up. After waking up, u don't know when you can go back to sleeep. What I dow ith my maid is: I give her a lot of freedom. e.g. take afternoon naps as long as she wants, eat whatever she wants to eat, go to bed whenever she needs. Housework, acceptable is ok. Keep talling your maid, her main duty is taking care of bb, others do not matter. That's what I told my mad.

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我個工人揍仔仔又係好唔上心，叫佢用暖水幫仔仔沖涼，佢又唔聽，用 d 凍暖水黎沖，我開佢點解佢就會賴落去我個仔度，叫佢每星期換床單，今個月就只換左一次，咁我比個 daily schedule & note 比佢有咩用呀？我地係屋企睇住仔仔，佢又唔主動搵嘢用﹝如抹 kitchen、洗 toilet﹞，就同我地一樣坐係個廳度，佢只係做左 2 個月都唔做下樣比我地睇，我地又點會用到佢 2 年呀？唔好話做嘢呀，好似 6 月 23 日前佢就應該要去攞張身分證，7 月 1 日就問我點？我話依 d 咁重要嘅嘢點解唔 mark 抵呀，佢連自己嘅嘢都唔上心，我又點放心交個仔比佢揍呀，所以個新工人一到我就會炒佢

我鐘意你同我講 I Love U, I Love U Too！
You are the sunshine of my life. That's why I'll always stay around. You are the apple of my eye. Forever you'll stay in my heart.

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發表於 08-7-4 10:53 |只看該作者

問心, 依家有幾多個工人係因為鐘意bb而湊bb呢, 你請到呢類人就係你既好彩........我自己覺得個工人識湊, 有返湊bb既責任係度(即餵佢飲晒d奶, 照顧bb起居飲食)都已經還得神落架啦, 至於同bb傾計, 玩呢方面, 佢係唔鐘意做你都無佢辦法, 唯有自己用多d時間去同bb玩啦.

你個工人同我之前個工人好似, 佢唔係唔識湊, 但就唔用個心去湊, 因為佢根本唔鐘意小朋友, 返工o個時睇返去, 你見佢個樣日日望天打掛, 阿b自己係度同自己玩, 個心都幾up架, 但當你接受咗佢唔鐘意小朋友呢個事實, 你再望已經有d麻木, 對佢既要求自然降低咗, 只要佢唔好打阿b, 餵佢食飯飲水, 去廁所就算(呢d就係應負既責任)........至於夜奶方面, 我就自己餵返, 所以無呢方面問題, 講真, 你自己起身餵都辛苦啦, 何況佢黎打工, 大家個心態都唔同.

你可以做既係揾d時間同佢傾下, 講出你既要求, 再觀察一段時間, 如果佢越黎越差就再諗換人啦.

原文章由 keroppi82 於 08-7-3 12:45 發表
我個bun bun 做咗一個月, 家務同煮餸都ok, 不過佢湊我個new born bb 好似唔好, 我覺得佢唔係唔識湊, 而係無心去湊, 日間就好, 特別係餵夜奶好求其,我見過佢合埋眼,郁都唔郁. 叫佢佢先郁, 完全唔上心, 有時阿b 望住佢 ...

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maylamj

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我嗰工人都幾喎！每朝早會煲粥仔and開奶茶,之後清潔廁所,抹地做完ＢＢ起身就會有粥仔食跟住同ＢＢ沖凉,下午就同ＢＢ玩或者睇卡通,我返到去就食生果,到6点再沖涼,約10点就同ＢＢ瞓,晚上仲要食奶,如果我老公放假會帶埋佢去街食飯,佢成日話好味同埋好多佢都末食過。

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"睇住阿b" 就唔算休息啦! 就算完全不用做家務, 只係睇住阿b, 都攰架! 你試下自己餵一星期夜奶就明白啦!

原文章由 keroppi82 於 08-7-3 23:24 發表
我日間有比佢休息, 唔使做野, 大約三點幾左右就無野做. 剩係睇住阿b, 佢手腳快做好d家務,一早就可以休息!!!! 我都唔會比好多野佢做, 剩係做基本清潔!!!! ...

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原文章由 emmyfok 於 6/7/2008 12:28 AM 發表
"睇住阿b" 就唔算休息啦! 就算完全不用做家務, 只係睇住阿b, 都攰架! 你試下自己餵一星期夜奶就明白啦!

agree

其實揍bb真係超級辛苦(唔好睇得咁簡單,好多濕碎野做,換片餵奶掃風沖涼洗bb衫清潔奶樽等等),仲要做埋家務、煮飯...你工人要餵夜奶一定訓得唔好,日頭又邊有精神丫,或者你親自餵夜奶,做阿媽一定要付出架啦,唔係話比幾千蚊請工人代替到你呀？

mouth:以前有位bk媽咪講得好岩,佢話：請工人返黎係幫助你處理家務等你多d時間親子,唔係代你親子,唔好本末倒置！

[ 本文章最後由 vic-wing 於 08-7-6 02:26 編輯 ]

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原文章由 vic-wing 於 08-7-6 02:23 發表

agree 其實揍bb真係超級辛苦(唔好睇得咁簡單,好多濕碎野做,換片餵奶掃風沖涼洗bb衫清潔奶樽等等),仲要做埋家務、煮飯...你工人要餵夜奶一定訓得唔好,日頭又邊有精神丫,或者你親自餵夜奶,做阿媽一定要付出 ...

Agree and Support. I also take care my BB myself with the help of my hubby. Don't expect too much for the maid. She is just a maid. How can you expect her to replace you, like take care baby days and nights and act like you to play and talk with BB with a Mummy's heart. The fact is that she is not the Mummy of your baby. We cannot set our expectation too high. Frankly, the standard of Indo maid now is quite low. From BK, you can see a lot of maid even cannot meet an accepatable standard. Be a happy employer, tried to learn well about open an eye only.

I know feeding night milk is very difficult and harsh task. Baby will get rid of night milk soon, (you can start training him after a month but better complete before 3 month). Don't worry.

[ 本文章最後由 DaisyDaisy 於 08-7-6 08:57 編輯 ]