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發表於 08-7-30 11:44 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

my son started hitting people this week..... anyone has same problem, pls share.

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發表於 08-7-30 13:55 |只看該作者

same same

Bryan will hug mui mui, v sweet, but the next second he hits her.
My helper told he hit a kid with a story book in the pg which we didn't do that before.
I never said 打打 to him.

原文章由 swongsk 於 08-7-30 11:44 發表
my son started hitting people this week..... anyone has same problem, pls share.

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發表於 08-7-30 15:14 |只看該作者

joanhui - thx for your dvds, now i punish him using naughty chair, when he hit people, have asked my maid to do the same thing. hope he will learn before he goes to PN next week!! i can't imagine if he starts hitting teachers or classmates??!!! no eye see!!

原文章由 JOANHUI 於 08-7-30 13:55 發表
same same

Bryan will hug mui mui, v sweet, but the next second he hits her.
My helper told he hit a kid with a story book in the pg which we didn't do that before.
I never said 打打 to him.

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發表於 08-7-30 15:28 |只看該作者

our babies are in the stage of "terrible 2"
sometimes i feel tired to teach bryan, as he always challenge my bottom line. i haven't punished bryan by using "naughty corner" for a while, but he hits charmain or takes away mui mui's toys. want to draw attention esp when i am around.
last night, i couldn't control myself & punish him "stand facing to the wall". he kept on crying and shouting until i released him. tired to struggle with him. this morning, b4 i left hm, i told him he would be a gd boy if he doesn't hit charmain & take away charmain's toy except she wants to change toy with him. hope i hv gd news tonight.

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發表於 08-7-31 14:49 |只看該作者

yes.. enoch started to have bad temper lately........ and he would hit others, too.... and I found that my 99 said 打打 to the object which he bumped himself onto....... we stopped saying '打打' for a long time once we suspected it cause enoch to hit otherse.................. just never expect my 99 will say that agian to him..

And since 99 will give anything he asked for.. now, he will cry and get upset when we didn't give him whatever he asked for...........

sigh.. very trouble.

原文章由 JOANHUI 於 08-7-30 13:55 發表
same same

Bryan will hug mui mui, v sweet, but the next second he hits her.
My helper told he hit a kid with a story book in the pg which we didn't do that before.
I never said 打打 to him.

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發表於 08-7-31 18:24 |只看該作者

my son is rare to hit me, but always hit "mui mui". i think he knows that is not a right behaviour. as soon as he hits mui mui, he smiles to me. is he challenging my bottom line?

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發表於 08-7-31 22:03 |只看該作者

joanhui,

my son will 'hor' me back after that.. so, i guess he knows this is not a right behavior........ but somehow he might think it's fun to do so?? or he thinks it's a way to show off his power?

for your case.. seems he might think "mui mui" is easier to 'hub'? or maybe he can get more of your attention when he hits 'mui mui'??

原文章由 JOANHUI 於 08-7-31 18:24 發表
my son is rare to hit me, but always hit "mui mui". i think he knows that is not a right behaviour. as soon as he hits mui mui, he smiles to me. is he challenging my bottom line?

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發表於 08-8-1 18:44 |只看該作者

my bb doesn't hit others, but he has a bad temper now. always screaming to get sth he wants. i'm the bad "figure" at home, that's why he doesn't really "Like" me. i feel soo hurt!

but if i don't pretend to be the bad figure, sure he will be spoiled!! what can i do? he seems to like my bun bun more than me. i am such a failure!

原文章由 eshiro 於 08-7-31 14:49 發表
yes.. enoch started to have bad temper lately........ and he would hit others, too.... and I found that my 99 said 打打 to the object which he bumped himself onto....... we stopped saying '打打' for ...

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發表於 08-8-1 22:20 |只看該作者

xogogo - don't worry, you r not the only one. today i was playing hide & seek with lucas, i hid in his favourite spot. he hit me 3 times on my head..... when is this going to end?

原文章由 XOGOGO 於 08-8-1 18:44 發表
my bb doesn't hit others, but he has a bad temper now. always screaming to get sth he wants. i'm the bad "figure" at home, that's why he doesn't really "Like" me. i feel soo hurt! but if i d ...

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發表於 08-8-4 15:00 |只看該作者

My son has a bad temper too...he always hit people. Last Saturday, we go to shopping by MTR. I don't let him walk on the MTR floor, then he hit my face...

I think he know hit people is wrong. Everytime, I ask him "Could you hit others?" he will reply to me "No No No".

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發表於 08-8-6 08:02 |只看該作者

i have similar experience, if i don't give him the toy or remote control etc he wants, sometimes he will get angry & hit my face. i will say to him, "no hitting, that's v naughty". he knows it's bad, but will do it still. my c6 said i need to discipline more. sigh....

原文章由 MLKN 於 08-8-4 15:00 發表
My son has a bad temper too...he always hit people. Last Saturday, we go to shopping by MTR. I don't let him walk on the MTR floor, then he hit my face...

I think he know hit people is wrong. ...

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發表於 08-8-11 12:12 |只看該作者

Just want to share with you all -
My son also had the same behaviour as your boys. On the first day, i was so upset and i thought for the whole night what should i do to curb it from happening again. The second day, i do something else with him to distract his attention of hitting me, like singing some of his favourite songs, instead of telling him no to do this again and say sorry. It works! He seldom hit me now. I think they just want to attract your attention and they like to see you taking this so seriously.

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發表於 08-8-11 16:39 |只看該作者

i think this is getting a little bit more serious. today at playgroup, a few of his classmates tried to get on to his toy car, he hit him them & squeezed back into the car. he has a fiery temper (maybe it's from me

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原文章由 candycwy 於 08-8-11 12:12 發表
Just want to share with you all -
My son also had the same behaviour as your boys. On the first day, i was so upset and i thought for the whole night what should i do to curb it from happening again. ...

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發表於 08-8-11 17:27 |只看該作者

my case is even worst here.
bryan not only split chewed food fm his month, but also always pushes bowls and dishes on dining table during meal time. last night, he split all chewed food. I told him I was angry, but didn't punish him. Suddenly, he pushed all dishes and bowls from the table when he had dinner with his cousins in my 99 house. very angry. i beat his hands heavily in the washroom, even i myself felt pain, but he gave me another hand to beat. eh...... how to teach the "terrible 2" boy?

原文章由 swongsk 於 08-8-11 16:39 發表
i think this is getting a little bit more serious. today at playgroup, a few of his classmates tried to get on to his toy car, he hit him them & squeezed back into the car. he has a fiery temper (mayb ...

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發表於 08-8-11 21:08 |只看該作者

Harold also has such behaviour, when he heard "弟弟" crying, he would said "打打", i think he understands that hitting is one kind of punishments and he likes to get my attention........

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發表於 08-8-11 23:51 |只看該作者

我謙謙呢如果naughty我地都會打佢手板最近佢已經唔洗我地打佢做左衰野自己知衰就自己話自己"naughty 打打" 自己打自己
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不過都明白1-3歲o既小朋友都係會咁所以忍......

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發表於 08-8-15 11:16 |只看該作者

joanhui - i think it's harder for working moms, i asked my maid to put him behind his bedroom gate whenever he's naughty, but i doubt she does it. so whenever i punish him, he will be mad at me, won't look at me lor.....

the hitting improves slightly, no more hitting at school, but still v bad temper, sometimes he will lie on the floor & cry when he doesn't get his way ....

原文章由 JOANHUI 於 08-8-11 17:27 發表
my case is even worst here.
bryan not only split chewed food fm his month, but also always pushes bowls and dishes on dining table during meal time. last night, he split all chewed food. I told him ...

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原文章由 JOANHUI 於 08-8-11 17:27 發表
my case is even worst here.
bryan not only split chewed food fm his month, but also always pushes bowls and dishes on dining table during meal time. last night, he split all chewed food. I told him ...

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