I have been a full time mother for 4 years, at the very beginning, I gave a lot of pressure to myself, I think the most important thing is to be relax, and be patient to your kids and try to reason with them. It is very difficult to be always calm with them when you spend 24 hours together with them but when you feel mad, just try to stay away for a while(for a short moment) and handle the situation when you have calmed down. That will help. As for the schedule, you will know how to work out a suitable one with your child afterall you are the one to know him/her the best.
my company is going to layoff, so I take the chance and become a full-time mom lor. I didn't give myslef any pressure => in case I couldn't manage be a full-time mom, I'll try to find a job again (if I can :b )
Also, I heard from many friends that time flies, money can't buy the bonding with your baby, that's why I'd like to give myself a try as a full-time mom.
Hope we can share more about the life of full-time mom soon lah =)