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洋房

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發表於 08-7-29 17:28 |只看該作者
My maid is quite good for taking care of my son. However, may be she knew that she is good, she asked for go back Philippines after 1 year service.

Do you think I should comply with this "extra" request?


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發表於 08-7-29 18:31 |只看該作者
咁咪即係要比兩次機票錢囉!? 因此到佢contract完時,又要再比佢返去。

原文章由 lashiu816 於 08-7-29 17:28 發表
My maid is quite good for taking care of my son. However, may be she knew that she is good, she asked for go back Philippines after 1 year service.

Do you think I should comply with this "extra" req ...


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發表於 08-7-29 18:47 |只看該作者
錢係其次,我會擔心佢返左鄉下後搞大左個肚,到時我要放佢前4後6,平日又唔可以叫佢操勞多d。


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發表於 08-7-29 18:58 |只看該作者
佢要自己比機票bor
而且得7日假咋

不過我62當時都唔比個賓賓返去

我坐完台北【一個無腳的的士司機】之分享! (有圖)

http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/thread-2442319-1-1.html


洋房

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發表於 08-7-29 22:42 |只看該作者
原文章由 朝日太太 於 08-7-29 18:58 發表
佢要自己比機票bor
而且得7日假咋

不過我62當時都唔比個賓賓返去


If she's pregnant after come back, I need to offer 10 weeks holiday? Wow, I cannot let her back la.


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發表於 08-7-29 22:57 |只看該作者
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洋房

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發表於 08-7-29 23:06 |只看該作者
原文章由 Tiff123s456 於 08-7-29 22:57 發表
how about find out why she want to go back "sin" la? may be something important. if 怕佢pregnant, 叫佢打針先。佢講到出口, 如果唔放佢會唔會無乜心機做野?


She said it's because of her daugther's graduation (only 5~6 years old). When she asked me, she afraid to have eye contact with me and also she said it's because she just want to share everything with me (it's a request from me from beginning). If it's not OK, it's fine!

What do you think?


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發表於 08-7-29 23:58 |只看該作者
我唔會俾佢返去law. 做壞晒規矩, 會唔會越整越差呀?


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發表於 08-7-30 00:52 |只看該作者
我聽過唔好咁手鬆, 但既然佢做得好, 佢又係一個媽媽, 咁都唔俾佢返去又好似不近人情喎....


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發表於 08-7-30 09:04 |只看該作者
我知好多人2年換maid(不理之前的好唔好),就係因為怕佢放假返屋企時搞大左個肚。如果真係懷孕,你係要按香港法例放10星期假給她,就好似我地HK mums咁,唔放就犯法。而且如果你知佢大肚,你都唔敢俾咩粗重嘢佢做啦,一陣佢唔知咩事小產你點賠?

至於要求佢打避孕針等,只可要求但唔可以迫佢打,所以好多人都覺得唔係保障方法。

我覺得要靠你對佢為人的信任,因為如果佢係有老公,而且仲young(我想個女得5-6歲唔會老得去邊),真係好可能會搞大個肚返來。如果你覺得佢信得過嘛放佢囉,但如果怕佢真係大肚等(或有d case係工人一去不返,又係麻煩),你係有權唔放佢。


洋房

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發表於 08-7-30 11:12 |只看該作者
For me, I will not let her going back. I have a good agent who always teach me how to handle the maid. She requested me to bring my maid to her office before go back to Philippines after 2 years service. I think she want to warn her something not to do. There may have something happened you cannot expect.
You can tell your maid that you can't find other people to take care your son.

原文章由 lashiu816 於 08-7-29 17:28 發表
My maid is quite good for taking care of my son. However, may be she knew that she is good, she asked for go back Philippines after 1 year service.

Do you think I should comply with this "extra" req ...
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發表於 08-7-31 00:04 |只看該作者
Thanks for all sister's comment. If I don't let her go back, I afraid she will angry and pay it back to my son. So frustrated!


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發表於 08-7-31 09:27 |只看該作者
lashiu816:

平日係咪只有你個工人同BB在家?

我明白你的擔憂,因為我諗好多媽媽都好怕個工人會欺負自己個BB,最慘係我地個BB都太細未識投訴...... 所以我一定要個工人在我父母家,一定要我爸睇住個工人,盡量唔好俾只有個工人同我仔一齊!

其實我覺得你可以好聲好氣咁問佢想exactly幾時放,等你考慮下先,而且要睇下有無人可以代你照顧BB(但要面有難色咁)...... 不過當然最後係話搞唔掂,真係sorry放唔到佢...... 我諗你如果好聲好氣,早d俾佢知你真係考慮過但唔ok,佢都唔會嬲嘅!


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發表於 08-7-31 12:45 |只看該作者
原文章由 lashiu816 於 08-7-31 00:04 發表
Thanks for all sister's comment. If I don't let her go back, I afraid she will angry and pay it back to my son. So frustrated!



um... it's really difficuit but if I were you I won't let her back. Some maids even don't come back after going back to Philippine. Has you talked to your agent? What did they say? May be you can ask your agent to talk to your maid...


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發表於 08-7-31 13:56 |只看該作者
My previous maid... after working for me for a few months, she begged me to let her go back to Philipine for Christmas cos' she miss her kids and wants to see them so badly. Me... being a new mother at that time, understand how it feels being seperated from your own kids, so I was too generous and let her back... and when time was up, she called and said she wants to stay for another week... I said she couldn't, she said she must be there for another week otherwise there would be big problem between her and her husband... there was nothing I could do, so I waited for another week... and then she said she can't come back anymore... and then she didn't even answer my call anymore... after that... I swear to myself, I can't treat them too nice... cos' they won't do the same thing to you!!!


原文章由 lashiu816 於 08-7-29 17:28 發表
My maid is quite good for taking care of my son. However, may be she knew that she is good, she asked for go back Philippines after 1 year service.

Do you think I should comply with this "extra" req ...


洋房

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發表於 08-7-31 22:51 |只看該作者
原文章由 marathon 於 08-7-31 13:56 發表
My previous maid... after working for me for a few months, she begged me to let her go back to Philipine for Christmas cos' she miss her kids and wants to see them so badly. Me... being a new mother ...


Wow! What a bad experience! As there's still some more months to go. Will wait and see!

Freesia Cat, I have already told her that March is busy month for me and I need to check whether I can apply annual leave. If not, may be she cannot go back.

By the way, my agent told me to terminate the contract to gain the $400 allowance, how about yours?


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發表於 08-8-1 10:02 |只看該作者
我聽我d firend 講, in worst case, 佢真大左肚返黎, 其實, 個agent都可以幫倒你. 唔通佢真係想以後唔黎hk 做野咩.

或者, 你同agent 傾下, 睇下佢地有乜suggestion? 如果你o係驚佢返左去, 會大左肚返黎.

我都覺得如果你唔比佢返去, 佢又冇心機做野, 又唔開心. 咁好似唔係幾好lor.
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發表於 08-8-1 13:36 |只看該作者
我個工人今年4月尾先請,如果宜家terminate又再請返,有排搞!

而且我真係需要個工人在我父母家幫手,唔可以無人。

所以雖然係咁唔公平,但我都唔會terminate個工人再請過。


洋房

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發表於 08-8-2 09:35 |只看該作者
Me too. After compared the total cost saving by this termination, it's not really significant. Thus, I will not proceed la.


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發表於 08-8-3 00:12 |只看該作者
  如果而家同工人終止合約,之前交左既僱傭稅唔係就無得退番咩?點解你個agent會叫你同個工人終止合約既?我七月頭交左$2400,賓賓7月尾先到 其實我諗住睇下一月時d僱主會唔會罷交僱傭稅先再作打算呀~~不過我諗我唔會貿貿然同工人終止合約架喇,因為計落無著數呀!

原文章由 lashiu816 於 08-7-31 22:51 發表
By the way, my agent told me to terminate the contract to gain the $400 allowance, how about yours?

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