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大宅

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發表於 05-2-21 23:08 |只看該作者

Consider hiring a 37 old in experience phillipino, is she too old to learn?

Anybody hire Phillipino freshly from Phillipine at this age?

I found one with all criteria meeting my requirement, married with two kids, look sincere, but the only thing is the age, I am afraid she is slow or reluctant to learn, any body has experience with hiring old maid????


男爵府

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發表於 05-2-21 23:28 |只看該作者

Re: Consider hiring a 37 old in experience phillipino, is she too old to learn?

My maid is from Indonesia, she is 39 years-old and had been worked in HK for 6 years, 2 employers. I hired her for 3 months now, I found that although she is old, she is experienced. She knows taking care of baby more than me. She cooks quite good as well. I feel comfortable living with her, one thing that I don't have to worry that she will not get pregnant as she is mature.


侯爵府

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發表於 05-2-21 23:42 |只看該作者

Re: Consider hiring a 37 old in experience phillipino, is she too old to learn?

我之前都試過搵過年紀大 諗住經驗夠d 可以幫/教我點湊bb 但係原來都唔係架 佢就係似住自己夠經驗 唔聽你講架 有時仲比面口我睇 而且個人係好主觀 成日覺得自己個套work 所以我之後都冇用佢啦 好在個時份contract 未生效 我只係計番甘多人工比佢 唔晒蝕張機票 個時我個工人39yrs so 都好睇你彩數 一句講晒 請工人仲難過中20元6 合彩 :-|


複式洋房

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發表於 05-2-22 00:51 |只看該作者

Re: Consider hiring a 37 old in experience phillipino, is she too old to learn?

俾我就唔會請!
年紀大,又冇在香港做過,好難教,咪攪我!


男爵府

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發表於 05-2-22 09:33 |只看該作者

Re: Consider hiring a 37 old in experience phillipino, is she too old to learn?

Don't worry. I have hired on 46 years old to take care for my son for 4 years. She has patient to take care kids.

Just imagine when you were 18 years old. I was so afraid of baby cries. When I am getting older and older, I really think I have more patient. Of course, energy should be worsen than before.

If you are consider a maid to take care for your son. I would recommend to hire her coz her age is reasonable. Moreover, she has kids of her own. However, she should understand the needs of kid. Right??

Teachingwise, I really think how yourself going to take care for her. If you don't teach/tell her and expected her to understand all. I think this is rather hard.

One thing I would like to remind you is her English standard. If she can understands well, I think she should be fine.

Additionally, you MUST tell her all your house rule on the first day she arrives your home. Otherwise, it is hard to touch-up. Habbit is habbit. Agreed.

Good luck.


大宅

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發表於 05-2-22 10:11 |只看該作者

Re: Consider hiring a 37 old in experience phillipino, is she too old to learn?

I spoke with her on the phone and she understand English very well. Her tone is very low though (sound like man)

My husband is afraid that she is too old to learn and he choose one that is 28 years old with only 1 daughter (2 years old), she also speak good English but her work experience is not recent (last job 1997).

Although this age will work more faster, but I am afraid maid at this age will get pregnant again after one contract.

If you were me, which one would you choose.

37 years, married 2 kids (4, 10) DH in Phillipine 2003

28 years, married 1 kid (2 years) DH in phillipine (1997)

Your help is much appreciated.


大宅

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發表於 05-2-22 10:38 |只看該作者

Re: Consider hiring a 37 old in experience phillipino, is she too old to learn?

I will chose the 37 one.

It is because she had bigger financial burden+ her kids are not babies, she will not miss so much ...

The 28 one may have potential to think of having one more baby... you have to think ...

I hire two maid before... one started to work for our family at 38.. She actually worked for us 20 years, just retired. I have another started to work for us when she was 4X, now already 10 years.

Both of them are very nice and considerate, reilable ..

My sister in law did hire young one... they always on the phone to boy friends.. emotional , wasting things , forgetful ....

Honestly , I will not hire any helper younger than 30 and single . ..

You think think ...
Msma


複式洋房

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發表於 05-2-22 10:47 |只看該作者

Re: Consider hiring a 37 old in experience phillipino, is she too old to learn?

elegant,

如果係我就會請28 years, married 1 kid (2 years) DH in phillipine (1997)。因為比較年輕但已婚及已經有個兩歲小朋友,雖然唔多經驗但其實所有工人都要重新教過啦。如果係驚佢再懷孕就兩個都會ga,37歲都仲可以生ga,我姐姐個工人嘅姐姐46歲岩岩先返左去生囝,你話死未!

所以我同你先生一樣perfer 28 years果個


侯爵府

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發表於 05-2-22 10:48 |只看該作者

Re: Consider hiring a 37 old in experience phillipino, is she too old to learn?

我自己有另一套見解, 如果湊bb, 要餵夜奶, 太大年紀, 體力未必支持到, 再講, 年紀大, 越無心機同小朋友玩, 佢地會覺得執玩具好煩, 最好你不好買玩具, 佢就不駛執.

我依家呢個工人21歲, 未結婚, 雖然貪靚, 但我set 左rules, 係屋企不可以化庄, 採指甲油等, 佢都肯.

過年我同佢返大陸玩, 還同我對仔女玩得好開心, 起碼佢enjoy去玩. 如果年紀大, 我相信佢會視為苦差.

起碼, 我依家返到屋企, 見到成屋都係玩具, 佢肯比玩具阿仔玩. 過30的, 我一定不會請.


大宅

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發表於 05-2-22 12:51 |只看該作者

Re: Consider hiring a 37 old in experience phillipino, is she too old to learn?

I have hired 2 Filipino maids, one 34 and the other one 37, several years ago. Both of them were too old to do cleaning work and too slow to learn. Old maids have their own life attitude and is very difficult to change their mind. Both of them were fired eventually. My current maid is 29; she is much better.
我們怕孩子的人生路途滿佈荊棘,與其為孩子在路上舖一層地毯,不如在孩子的腳上穿上一雙鞋。


大宅

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發表於 05-2-22 18:36 |只看該作者

Re: Consider hiring a 37 old in experience phillipino, is she too old to learn?

Thanks for all your comments.

I think I will hire the 28 years old maid. Apart of normal household work and taking care of children, II have a lot of rules and regulations in my house, I think old maid may not be able to handle this.

Once again, thanks all for sharing

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