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大宅

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發表於 08-9-2 11:45 |只看該作者
My daugter is taken care by my 99, actually my 99 is really 仲 my daughter. Everytime when it meets my limit , i will talk to my 99 in the hope that she will change. It works..so actually our relationship is not that bad. But the thing is, my 99 is really hard working , since my daughter goes to Kindergarten from 0900-1200 HRS, my 99 finds a part time job , working from 1100-1300 HRS for cleaning . During the summer holiday , as my daughter no need to go to school, so my 99 took her to her workplace, but there were kids (primary school), they taught my daughter study A-Z (sounds was good) but the thing is , they hit my daughter if she couldn't remember , 2 girls held a long ruler , pretending to hit her (that was told by 99) , but my daughter said they actually hit her and not allowed her to leave the room (my 99 was outside the classroom) p.s my daughter was K1 only, now K2!!so i was so 心痛 when i knew that .. actually my girl has a good memory , so i hardly hit her when she couldn't remember...

so yesterday when we had dinner together , we discussed this situation... my 99 was telling me the 2 kids were pretending to hit my daugheter that day .. & i was saying that since your salary was not high (earn from parttime) so i can pay u instead as i don't want my 99 so 辛苦 as well as my daughter was beated by other kids ... (c6+ I pay her around $7K per month already) then she suddenly was "black face' telling me not to say so many things in front of my daughter - (actually i don't understand what she said) , and she left my home (she is not living w us luckily) ...and didn't say goodbye to us....

I was shocked as actually i don't understand why she black face on me .. i was asking myself as well as my c6- did i say something wrong ?

& this morning i saw her - she is still black face.. i talked to her but the answer was only a "single word' ...

pls tell me did i do something wrong here


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發表於 08-9-2 11:58 |只看該作者
會唔會佢唔鍾意你話佢份工搵得唔多..好似有少少睇低佢咁?


大宅

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發表於 08-9-2 12:15 |只看該作者
原文章由 CLK-MB 於 08-9-2 11:58 發表
會唔會佢唔鍾意你話佢份工搵得唔多..好似有少少睇低佢咁?


得 $ 1200!!!你話多唔多 ????


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發表於 08-9-2 12:26 |只看該作者
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珍珠宮

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好媽媽勳章 醒目開學勳章


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發表於 08-9-2 12:35 |只看該作者
原文章由 大眼肥妹 於 08-9-2 12:26 發表
其實我覺得樓主唔好只係睇$1,200既酬勞,而係要從佢覺得你睇少佢呢個角度去諗.有時我地既諗法同老人家唔同,所以有d野言者無心,但聽者有意,佢聽左入耳就麻煩嫁啦. ...

其實我覺得唔係錢嘅問題,可能老人家覺得o個幾個鐘冇野攪好悶,最主要可能係佢覺得你以為佢對你女唔好,因為攪到個小朋友比人蝦,佢個心已經好痛,但你仲要blame 佢,佢咪唔開心 law!佢講比你聽可能係想你諗下有冇方法唔好令佢個乖孫比人蝦,你一黎就好話佢人工低,叫佢唔做 wor,緊有 d 唔開心嘅!

[ 本文章最後由 ChingChing730 於 08-9-2 12:40 編輯 ]


大宅

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發表於 08-9-2 12:52 |只看該作者
原文章由 ChingChing730 於 08-9-2 12:35 發表

其實我覺得唔係錢嘅問題,可能老人家覺得o個幾個鐘冇野攪好悶,最主要可能係佢覺得你以為佢對你女唔好,因為攪到個小朋友比人蝦,佢個心已經好痛,但你仲要blame 佢,佢咪唔開心 law!佢講比你聽可能係想你諗下有冇方法唔好令佢個 ...


其實我99無諗過同我地講, 只不過我weekend 同個女傾計時, 我個女話我知


大宅

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陪月勳章


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發表於 08-9-2 13:10 |只看該作者
妳99出去工作, 某程度上並非為錢....只係打發時間及證明自己仲有工作能力. 對社會, 對家仲有貢獻. 所以當妳叫佢唔好出去工作, 俾多錢佢既時候. 佢會覺得: 妳地有錢大晒呀! 對佢係一種侮辱

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