My daugter is taken care by my 99, actually my 99 is really 仲 my daughter. Everytime when it meets my limit , i will talk to my 99 in the hope that she will change. It works..so actually our relationship is not that bad. But the thing is, my 99 is really hard working , since my daughter goes to Kindergarten from 0900-1200 HRS, my 99 finds a part time job , working from 1100-1300 HRS for cleaning . During the summer holiday , as my daughter no need to go to school, so my 99 took her to her workplace, but there were kids (primary school), they taught my daughter study A-Z (sounds was good) but the thing is , they hit my daughter if she couldn't remember , 2 girls held a long ruler , pretending to hit her (that was told by 99) , but my daughter said they actually hit her and not allowed her to leave the room (my 99 was outside the classroom) p.s my daughter was K1 only, now K2!!so i was so 心痛 when i knew that .. actually my girl has a good memory , so i hardly hit her when she couldn't remember...
so yesterday when we had dinner together , we discussed this situation... my 99 was telling me the 2 kids were pretending to hit my daugheter that day .. & i was saying that since your salary was not high (earn from parttime) so i can pay u instead as i don't want my 99 so 辛苦 as well as my daughter was beated by other kids ... (c6+ I pay her around $7K per month already) then she suddenly was "black face' telling me not to say so many things in front of my daughter - (actually i don't understand what she said) , and she left my home (she is not living w us luckily) ...and didn't say goodbye to us....
I was shocked as actually i don't understand why she black face on me .. i was asking myself as well as my c6- did i say something wrong ?
& this morning i saw her - she is still black face.. i talked to her but the answer was only a "single word' ...