She is trouble and I hate her when she does something which I don't like.
She always calls us and asks whether we will go to her home to have a lunch/dinner. When we say "NO", she will ask "WHY?".
I don't want to go because her home is a little bit dirty and her cooking is very very very oily (not healthy). I also don't want my BB plays on her floor.
Every time she calls us, my wife will request me to go with her. However, I will always say "NO". In fact, I will only go to her home once a month except those special days (e.g. Lunar New Year, ...).
To Pa Pa,
I have same situation with you. I hate her very much. She is very trouble, noisy and alway ask us to go back to her home once a week either on Saturday or Sunday. If we are not free at that week, she will be very unhaappy and must so something to compensate. Also, we cannot go to her home late or otherwise she will boring you.
She is a non-stop talking people but just to repeat and repeat the topic. Same topic can be ask several times.
She is also a reporter, no matter want happened, she will phone to her daughter and son even though it is just a minor thing (like raining soon) and they are at working. She also need her son and daughter report back to her every minute. That's why her son and daughter (except my wife) still single because they lost freedom and fully controlled by their mother.
Her cooking skill is very poor and poor but she always claim the food she cooked is delicious. However, "I HAVE TO SAY GOOD AND EAT THEM ALL". How poor of me too.
I accept my mother-in-law for only one reason - she loves my son. I don't for the same reason with my father-in-law - he doesn't love my son.
The only thing I don't like about my mother-in-law is their way of communication. She talks yelling. Or what I call yell-talk. That has a bad effect on my son's emotional development when she comes to out place more than once a week.
I hate going to my in-law's place because of my wife's father. He's uneducated, shouts and most importantly, has a short fuse. He uses foul language freely in fornt of my son/baby. I have to admit I hate this man for being my son's grandfather.
If possible, I'd rather not go there at all. Unluckily, we have to meet on occasions like their birthdays, mother's and father's day, winter solstice, new yera's Eve, 2nd day of New Yera, Tuen Ng, my son's birthday (my wife insists), which means I have to see them almost once every month in average.