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I don't like my c6's family (they also don't like me), so now I decide not to have dinner with them, except for those important Chinese festivals (just two I think: Autumn festival, Chinese new year).

No more important Chinese festivals, right?

For father's/mother's day, easter, X'mas, 5/5, I plan to stay with my parents.

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做冬＆團年

古人說：冬大過年．

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冬至算唔算呀, 其實唔同鄉下都唔同架喎, 好似我自己屋企, 端午節, 元宵都係大節日嚟架, 要全家返嚟食飯架.

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仲有..剩係農曆新年都分分鐘有幾餐要食喎..團年, 年初一拜年..初二開年咁..真係講'重要' 既話..人人都有唔同喎.

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做冬, 團年, 年初一拜年 --- from end of Dec to mid-Feb

Autumn festival --- Sep

Very good

, I only need to see them once every 6 mths

yeah !

In the past, for every festival, just for C6's family, I need to have 3 dinners - one for 99's own family, one for 62's own family, one for 9962's family. So I didn't really have time/chance to have dinner with my parents. Now, no more la, just one for 9962/99/62.

Now, even 99 keeps on calling, I keep on not going except for these important festivals. C6 can go by himself to his family.

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原文章由 zxzx 於 08-9-3 17:05 發表
I don't like my c6's family (they also don't like me), so now I decide not to have dinner with them, except for those important Chinese festivals (just two I think: Autumn festival, Chinese new year). ...

你99駛唔駛清明拜山呀? 如要, 你同你99講: 有咩留返拜山至講啦.

仲有, 你6299的生日呢? 你都可以唔去食飯咁叻? 你c6會唔會嘈呀?

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原文章由 KiuShaBB 於 08-9-4 15:59 發表

你99駛唔駛清明拜山呀? 如要, 你同你99講: 有咩留返拜山至講啦.

仲有, 你6299的生日呢? 你都可以唔去食飯咁叻? 你c6會唔會嘈呀?

有咩留返拜山至講 --- I want to say this to her

but no chance, because strangely 9962 no need to 拜山 (even c6's aunts & uncles no 拜山), but c6's grandma is still alive, that's why I will go to have dinner with them in these important festivals as grandma will be there.

9962's birthdays --- depends whether I'm 'busy' or not (in fact I can have many excuses - sick, m comes, exam, ot, was already booked, need to visit my parents

), because 9962 only make a day which c6's brother-in-law (9962's beloved son-in-law) is free & they plan the day but never tell me until very last minute. Also 9962's birthdays are very close to 5/5 & mother's day, sometimes they would celebrate these together, but I need to have dinner with my mum.

Sometimes, c6會嘈 but no use, he can't force me. Also in his heart, he knows 9962 treat me badly.

But I'm not stupid, so sometimes I go, sometimes I don't, just act very unpredictable !

[ 本文章最後由 zxzx 於 08-9-4 16:51 編輯 ]

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我都多數做足、交足人費事俾人話無家教，我就會去食團年飯、年初一全日（多數c6都成11-12點至起身先返去）、父母親節、6299生日、中秋同冬至。

我都知道開年飯即年初二要同6299食，但我無理，因為我都有我自己屋企人，我多數去同我亞公亞婆食之後返自己亞媽度，夜晚就去同亞爺亞嫲食。初一已經俾99左點右點去他們D親戚度，我自己都有親戚o家嘛。