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你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元? [複製鏈接]

cc_ma

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你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

自己父母 - 5000, 媽媽幫手睇 my daughter when I go to work but I hire a maid to help.

老爺奶奶 - 4000

自己哥哥也給 5000
老公哥哥姐姐不知給多少.

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shanpig04

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Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

我比自己父母就$3500, 我細妹比父母就$9000,
我老公比佢自己父母就 $8000, 而佢d兄弟只是比$2000-$3000

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燕尾蝶

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Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

你地2公婆加埋搵幾錢一個月呀.
????

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Ricka

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Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

mmm....

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Keithmama

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發表於 04-6-9 23:13 |只看該作者

Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

我比自己父母各$3000(分開比好似公平啲)，我外婆則每個月一、二千。我老公比佢阿爸阿媽共$8000，但其實佢父母同两個大女同住，應該亦有比家用。
都over我哋收入15%架，重要供車供樓供小朋友，過時過節大壽等等日子重.........

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connieqwah

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發表於 04-6-10 00:50 |只看該作者

Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

揾得少，比得少　around 20%

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cc_ma

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發表於 04-6-10 09:43 |只看該作者

Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

如果重要供車供樓供小朋友，大家覺得佔家庭收入20%吃力嗎?

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Honey

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發表於 04-6-10 11:28 |只看該作者

Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

Me and my hubby pay around 10% of our personal income to our own parents.

How much you pay depends on how much you earn.....and whether the parents still working and/or whether they rely on your payment only.

Earn more pay more, earn less pay less. :-P

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發表於 04-6-10 11:37 |只看該作者

Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

Keithmama 寫道:
我比自己父母各$3000(分開比好似公平啲)，我外婆則每個月一、二千。我老公比佢阿爸阿媽共$8000，但其實佢父母同两個大女同住，應該亦有比家用。
都over我哋收入15%架，重要供車供樓供小朋友，過時過節大壽等等日子重.........

wow.....
then your family income per month is.....
over $100,000

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bluedaisy

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Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

I agree the amount you pay depends on the sum you earn. But it is one of the elements, as for my case, other factors affect my decision are my expenses, got so many expenses per month, the most scary one is the sum for home mortgage, credit cards......

Another fatal factor is the relationship with the elderly, as the relationship with my mother and father-in-law is not good at all. Their beloved kid is another son, their attitude toward us is entirly different from their beloved son. My husband also feels the same. Based on our heavy burden, I and my husbad reach a compromise as to pay none to them as to show our grievance towards them.

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cc_ma

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發表於 04-6-10 14:49 |只看該作者

Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

是否揾多些，比多些? 升職加人工，會比多些嗎? 應否儲起，如果子女比的錢足夠他們應付日常開支.

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Fatbb

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發表於 04-6-10 21:15 |只看該作者

Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

I give $3000 to parents, my husband gives $6000, I feel very heavy and always want to give less and save more for my child. Is this thinking very bad?

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bluedaisy

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發表於 04-6-10 22:20 |只看該作者

Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

Not bad, it is reasonable. Total $9000 is very much heavy - a very attractive salary in this current market. I think you couple do earn a lot!!!

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Keithmama

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發表於 04-6-13 14:07 |只看該作者

Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

這個Amount其實結婚生BB前已經開始比，那時經濟好，唔覺有壓力。後來結婚生仔，市道又唔好，又減人工，但四個(其實五個)老人家都退休，所以又唔想減佢哋，所以現在都幾吃力架！

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Honey

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發表於 04-6-14 11:11 |只看該作者

Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

個人覺得一家人應該互相體諒, 如果你覺得經濟有壓力又唔同佢地講, 佢地係唔知的, 開通的老人家係會為子女着想的, 試吓啦。

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Trojan

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發表於 04-6-15 01:15 |只看該作者

Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

My husband gave $5000 to his parents n I gave $10000 to my father but after we got married I was unemployed so that we both stop paying them for almost 2 years. I feel so bad about it n hope I can find a job soon. God bless me.

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bluedaisy

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發表於 04-6-16 07:29 |只看該作者

Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

Wish u could find a job soon

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dummypimp

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發表於 04-6-16 12:06 |只看該作者

Re: 你們每月給自己父母和老爺奶奶多少元?

It's not the absolute or relative amount of money that can come to a conclusion of whether it is enough but the heart that count. Giving a hundred thousand per month without any care is simply nothing.

Sometimes, I am very sad and blame myself for not giving enough time for my parents although I can give them enough money to feed them. But this is what nowadays people's doing.