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發表於 08-9-11 10:12 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

Anyone give birth to twins at QMH (public line) lately? Which doctor? Did they make you try natural birth? or did they let you choose? How many week were you when they started discussing with you?

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發表於 08-9-11 11:09 |只看該作者

I am now 31 weeks. On this Tuesday, doctor in QMH told me that I need more frequent follow ups(ultrasound) in Tsan Yuk. Previously my follow-up was scheduled every 3-4 weeks, and now will be around every 2 weeks. Then they will look at the baby's head position. If both twin heads are downward, then I can try normal delivery. However, there is still 2% chance that the second twin head will change after the first twin deliver, hence Caserian section may be needed to deliver the 2nd twin!! I showed a scarry look to the doctor after hearing this 2% chance, and she reassured me that it's not common and indeed they have some methods to move the baby's head back to downward position. Of course, if head position is not good in the coming FU scans, they must proceed for Caserian section directly.

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發表於 08-9-11 14:21 |只看該作者

thanks Homewood for answering. I'm also 30 wks + and original ultrasounds show placenta previa, so Tsan Yuk's consultant doctor Li (do you have her?) said not to worry as can c-section. She said for twins, c-section is safer anyway. But latest ultra sound does not show placenta previa anymore, so I'm scared they'll make me deliver natually. I'm 39 y.o. and am really scared to deliver naturally. Even if I can deliver one, I doubt will have strength to deliver the 2nd.
Which doctor do you normally see at QM?

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發表於 08-9-11 17:40 |只看該作者

I see Dr. CP Lee usually. She is kind to take up my case because I was told to be mono-amniotic twin initially. Luckily later found to be di-amniotic. I will attend TYH again on next Thursday. I also wish to have Caserian section as this is safer for the 2nd twin. I remembered in one follow-up, a very kind nurse told me you could 'insist' Caserian section and Dr. Lee would let you have it.

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發表於 08-9-12 01:12 |只看該作者

HI...你地好!
我既孖寶今年2月在QMH出世! 希望可以同你地分享一下!
陀緊BB既時候, 曾經遇見一個大肚媽媽, 係佢8比我知, 佢話QMH既婦產科分3 team人, 其中1 team係負責high risk, 即係包括陀twins 既大肚媽媽. 呢組最大in-charge個醫生係叫 prof. 勞, 中後期每次覆診都係佢負責幫我檢查架. 佢非常非常好人. 到生BB時都係佢幫我操刀既. 諗返起應該大約8個月左右, prof. 勞就問我想自己生or c-section囉. 我完全無考慮過自己生, 因為我睇開既私家醫生同我講, 通常twins佢地(私家醫生)一定會suggest開刀架, 佢講個例子比我聽, 如果第1個孖b出左來, 而第2個孖b有機會在肚入面位置會轉左, 到時如果第2孖b打橫左, 就要開刀取出. 嘩, 我都想像唔到, 下面流緊血, 上面又要開刀既情景, 所以我都係唔take呢個risk囉!
但QMH既醫生係唔會咁快同你講可以比你選擇開刀架, 因為我當時問過好多次, 佢地次次都話要遲D睇bbs既位置先決定. 而且到後期佢地比我揀, 都要問多我幾次點解唔自己試下生. 佢地都prefer我地自己生囉.
但係你地要有定心理準備, 生完之後...傷口超痛!

之前我又聽過人講, 政府醫院生孖b大多數都係professor負責的.

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發表於 08-9-12 09:31 |只看該作者

謝謝你嘅分享，希望到時俾我選擇開刀。我都預咗開刀後傷口好痛，又唔可以咁快補身，不過真係唔想2nd twin 有事。Dr. Lee 都只睇特別case only. 另外聽朋友講，仲有一個外國人嘅professor 係睇三胞胎嘅。

原文章由 marbomama 於 08-9-12 01:12 發表
HI...你地好!
我既孖寶今年2月在QMH出世! 希望可以同你地分享一下!
陀緊BB既時候, 曾經遇見一個大肚媽媽, 係佢8比我知, 佢話QMH既婦產科分3 team人, 其中1 team係負責high risk, 即係包括陀twins 既大肚媽媽. 呢組 ...

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發表於 08-9-13 01:14 |只看該作者

我相信係政府醫院生, 所以開刀先咁痛(大多數case都係囉), 係手勢既問題. 因為我家姐在私家開刀生, 一d都唔痛.

仲有唔知係咪太多人生bb, 唔夠床位, 我開刀只住了4日3夜(包括埋早一日入院), 我覺得太快了! 不過當你傷口痛到入心時, d姑娘又要比返孖b你照顧, 真係想快d返屋企, 起碼有人幫手先囉.

原文章由 HomeWood 於 08-9-12 09:31 發表
謝謝你嘅分享，希望到時俾我選擇開刀。我都預咗開刀後傷口好痛，又唔可以咁快補身，不過真係唔想2nd twin 有事。Dr. Lee 都只睇特別case only. 另外聽朋友講，仲有一個外國人嘅professor 係睇三胞胎嘅。

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發表於 08-9-13 15:13 |只看該作者

HI 各位孖B媽咪, 我而家23W, 都會係QMH生孖B, 而家暫時決定開刀, 因為都係唔想TAKE RISK, 所以情願自己個傷口痛D. 上次20W左右做產檢時, 醫生都同我講咗, 話馱孖B既準媽咪係可以選擇開刀的, 不過就要遲D先決定日子, 我而家已經騐緊咩日子生好, 希望孖B足月D出世, 唔冼住氧氣箱就好啦!!!
唔知有經驗開過刀既孖B媽咪, 你地個傷口大唔大呀, 又要幾耐先可以復原呢? 會唔會影響你地湊孖B既工作呀? 我有D擔心, 希望幫我開刀既DR. 手藝好D, 唔好攪到我好痛同好大條疤痕就好啦!

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發表於 08-9-17 10:45 |只看該作者

Thank you all for replies.
Homewood - I too will be going to TYH tomorrow (Thursday) for ultrasound at 10:30. Will I be seeing you? I hope I get Dr CP Lee as she's nice, the others are not. Sigh, I'm so tired, can hardly walk.
Yes, even if c section, you only stay 2 or 3 nights, which is definitely not enough! But then, the discomfort of gov't hospitals, probably can't rest anyway.
I have not seen any professors so far and I'm already 31 wks +. I've only seen consultant (CPLee - really good) or asst professor (bad) or residents. I thought if a professor does the c section, won't hurt but now I see 傷口超痛?!! Now I'm really scared! WHY!!! If private doctors, the most it hurts is one day. Most don't feel any pain at all. Yet gov't hospitals - hurt 1 month is the norm, I heard some hurt for over 3 months!!! AHHHH!!!

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發表於 08-9-17 17:45 |只看該作者

Hi Meejh,

My appointment is 11:30am tomorrow (3/F). Hope to meet you too. I will wear a white/black strip shirt with black tight pant.
Yesterday my husband told me that his collegue was still having C-section wound pain after delivering her baby in St. Teresa Hospital 10 days ago. Indeed her operation was performed by a very famous private doctor (Dr. Tay). Therefore I guess wound pain is caused by many factors (doctor technique, wound location, patient's own pain perception, etc). We can't just blame the doctors working in the governement hospital.

原文章由 meejh 於 08-9-17 10:45 發表
Thank you all for replies.
Homewood - I too will be going to TYH tomorrow (Thursday) for ultrasound at 10:30. Will I be seeing you? I hope I get Dr CP Lee as she's nice, the others are not. Sigh, I ...

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發表於 08-9-18 01:17 |只看該作者

HI 老闆娘,

我上星期PM回覆左你(一篇長長既email), 唔知你收唔收到, 因為我send完之後, 又delete左, 所以唔sure你收唔收到!

開刀既日子唔係你自己揀架, 係最後醫生視乎bbs既情況話比你知邊一日開刀架.

上次我傷口很痛, 都要成2weeks先無咁辛苦, 如果講完全復原差不多要1個月. 疤痕大約5-6吋左右囉.

homewood講得無錯, 傷口痛係有很多因素. 不過我個case, 係d姑娘同醫生既問題, 呢樣我係sure架. 因為我生完bbs後要返去洗傷口. 唔係我自己既問題.

但你地都唔洗太驚架, 返而要考慮係bbs既生產過程安全問題, 所以我選擇開刀囉.

原文章由 老闆娘 於 08-9-13 15:13 發表
HI 各位孖B媽咪, 我而家23W, 都會係QMH生孖B, 而家暫時決定開刀, 因為都係唔想TAKE RISK, 所以情願自己個傷口痛D. 上次20W左右做產檢時, 醫生都同我講咗, 話馱孖B既準媽咪係可以選擇開刀的, 不過就要遲D先決定日子, ...

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發表於 08-9-21 14:23 |只看該作者

我已經收到你個e-mail 啦, 好多謝你回答咗我咁多問題, 仲好詳細添呀! many thx!!!

原文章由 marbomama 於 08-9-18 01:17 發表
HI 老闆娘,

我上星期PM回覆左你(一篇長長既email), 唔知你收唔收到, 因為我send完之後, 又delete左, 所以唔sure你收唔收到!

開刀既日子唔係你自己揀架, 係最後醫生視乎bbs既情況話比你知邊一日開刀架.

上次我傷口 ...

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發表於 08-9-22 09:56 |只看該作者

thankyou all for sharing
HomeWood - yes I saw you last Thursday, I sat right next to you on yr left - do you remember? U were talking to this lady in Putonghua. Sorry I didn't see yr message until now so didn't know it was you. I remember U from QM K5 8 mos ago, U were really slim & petite then, heehee.
To all - Anyone of you working? I'm taking 4/6 maternity leave, but am feeling so bad now that I really want sick leave. Has anyone been able to get sick leave at around 32 wks? Sigh, the QM doctors won't even grant 1 day on my appointment day, when I can hardly walk and feel really sick. She just said "is normal, take your own leave" which I think is totally crazy, and dangerous. I heard if we don't get enough rest, can induce early labour.
Can anyone share?

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發表於 08-9-22 11:30 |只看該作者

Hi Meejh,

It's wonderful that you just sat next to me! I remembered you were tall and slim! I also knew that friend who spoke Putonghua from K5 months ago too. She told me one of her twin got serious problem which may require surgery immediately after birth. It's good that we deliver babies in QMH where many expert doctors are ready to manage difficult illness in newborn babies.
I have applied 3 months 'no-pay' leave since 24 weeks gestation because my job is very busy and requiring night duties. With addition to 10 weeks maternity leave, I am 'disappeared' in my company for almost half year. I am lucky as my boss wished me to stay in the company and thus granting me this long 'no pay' leave. I told him that if you don't grant me 'no pay' leave, then I would resign!

It's really important to take enough rest especially when carrying twin babies. Some of my collegues got early labour or growth retardation baby because of work stress even though they just carry one baby! It's not practical to ask government doctors to give you prolong sick leave if there's no special complications (like bleeding, high blood pressure). Or you may ask some private doctors to give you sick leave. I remembered Dr. Lam Yung Hang said he would give sick leave to me from 28 weeks onwards. However I guess the leave won't be long and you may need to attend him frequently to extend the sick leave.His clinic charge is very expensive and the clinic waiting time is long.

原文章由 meejh 於 08-9-22 09:56 發表
thankyou all for sharing
HomeWood - yes I saw you last Thursday, I sat right next to you on yr left - do you remember? U were talking to this lady in Putonghua. Sorry I didn't see yr message until no ...

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發表於 08-9-26 13:58 |只看該作者

SORRY marbomama, 我想問多次, 上次睇完你篇e-mail之後又唔見咗, 真係唔知點解? so 我想問清楚有關床墊係咪一定要係瑪麗醫院買呢? 記唔記得叫咩牌子名呀? 如果我係出面買XL SIZE既床墊又得唔得呢? THX你既回答!!!

原文章由 marbomama 於 08-9-18 01:17 發表
HI 老闆娘,

我上星期PM回覆左你(一篇長長既email), 唔知你收唔收到, 因為我send完之後, 又delete左, 所以唔sure你收唔收到!

開刀既日子唔係你自己揀架, 係最後醫生視乎bbs既情況話比你知邊一日開刀架.

上次我傷口 ...

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發表於 08-9-27 01:23 |只看該作者

meejh,
QM既醫生係唔會亂開SICK LEAVE架, 我之前都好期望佢地開比我, 可以早D o係屋企休息囉. 佢地最後開比我係因為我血壓高要入院, 佢地先開架咋. 我都覺得你問下私家醫生仲好, 起碼都有d機會會比.
唔一定要係瑪麗醫院買. 但費時買錯, 姑娘都係要你再落過去買, 就浪費金錢啦. 唔記得叫咩牌子名啦. 但, 係得一隻黃色packing架咋, 你下次去開覆診走去k座望下啦. 姑娘最主要係話我買果d唔夠厚同埋唔夠大, 雖然你話係XL, 但可能佢話都唔夠厚囉, 所以你去望下先, 再出去比較下好D.

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