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發表於 04-7-27 16:14 |只看該作者

Don't want to live with mother-in-law, but feel guilty

We,the whole family, are christian and in the same church. We have lived together for 9 years. I really want to seperate but I feel guilty to let her (71 year-old) live alone or with a maid.

I never complain about her to my friends as they all know her. She has a good reputation in the church. But she's really difficult to get along with. My husband always comfort me : she is old, it is difficult for her to change. I agree. So I tolerate but I am very very upset.

I pray to the Lord.



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發表於 04-7-28 12:33 |只看該作者

Re: Don't want to live with mother-in-law, but feel guilty

如果可以,同佢一齊住喇,她已71歲,好大年紀了,還可一起住多久?我老爺舊年過身,當時他只得63歲,父親走了,我老公好regret,想再相見亦沒機會….
我奶奶都從加拿大回港,而家住係我屋企。當然大家生活習慣上唔同,有分歧在所難免…但我會盡力同佢好好相處,我相信我做的,會令我老公開心而天父亦會喜悅的,天主要我們孝順父母,所以我亦要孝順老公的父母。加上如果可與家中長者和洽共處,不失為孩子作出良好身教,簷前水滴嘛….


民房

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發表於 04-7-30 12:52 |只看該作者

Re: Don't want to live with mother-in-law, but feel guilty

Thank you for your sharing.

I think I just need someone to talk to and support. Although my husband is a good listener, it is not good to complain his mother too much.

It is fact that we need to live together and I am afraid some day my two sons ask me : why we don't live with grandma?

Thank you. I will try.



複式洋房

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發表於 04-8-1 18:32 |只看該作者

Re: Don't want to live with mother-in-law, but feel guilty

Yes, she is old and may be no longer to live with you. It is so lonely for her to live alone. One day if she has any accident, nobody will know.
I think what we do , our God will give us double or more.
God told us to love everybody. What we serve to the poor or little brother, it is the same to do with him. Forgive her just like the God forgive you.
God bless you.

看我同你們天天在一起,直到今世的終結。


子爵府

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發表於 04-8-17 18:43 |只看該作者

Re: Don't want to live with mother-in-law, but feel guilty

Tell our Lord, he will direct you to the way you need to go.

God loves you and so do your friends and family members.

Maisy
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