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fatsin


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囝囝返左成個月N1,到依家都仲每朝喊住話唔返學,夜晚又成日話唔返學,近日發覺佢成日話「我喊,我要曳」,就算讚佢乖,佢都會即刻話「我要曳」,仲發脾氣,大叫,呢D係咪返叛呢?咁細個就反叛?我都唔知點同佢講好,見佢咁怕返學都好心痛,想退學,但老公話唔可以一唔開心就比佢逃避,咁我都諗,遲早K1都要返學,咁就繼續比佢返,但真係唔知點可以幫到佢?同埋點令佢唔好成日話要曳曳?佢近排每次喊親都發晒顛咁,完全係失控咁,會唔會因為返學唔開心影響到呢?請各位有經驗既媽咪教吓我,謝謝。
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發表於 08-10-6 21:48 |只看該作者
原文章由 fatsin 於 08-10-6 11:31 發表
囝囝返左成個月N1,到依家都仲每朝喊住話唔返學,夜晚又成日話唔返學,近日發覺佢成日話「我喊,我要曳」,就算讚佢乖,佢都會即刻話「我要曳」,仲發脾氣,大叫,呢D係咪返叛呢?咁細個就反叛?我都唔知點同佢講好,見佢咁怕返 ...

其實你老公講的, 都好有道理.

佢話佢要曳, 可能佢想: 如果曳, 媽咪會留意我, 或者陪我多d.....
仲有的是, 每次佢喊, 你都好心痛咁樣, 其實佢都知架~ 所以想令你心軟, 向佢投降的.

我朋友個女女, 返n1 足足喊左成大半年. 佢媽媽日日係學校外面d 窗邊度, 偷偷咁看佢. 呢個阿媽都話: 好明顯唔關學校事, 係佢個囡唔習慣的..

而家, 佢個女讀k1, 已沒有再喊了.
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發表於 08-10-14 01:30 |只看該作者
My son has similar situation. Always said he wants to be naughty, he wants mami to be unhappy. Though he doesn't cry at nursery, every time I asked him whether he likes to go to school, he said no. Strangely, if I asked him whether he is happy at school, he said yes!
A few days ago, I found out the reason. My son finally told me that he doesn't like to go to school because I am not with him. This explains everything - he is suffering from separation anxiety. That's why even though he has a happy school life, he still doesn't like to go to school.
I think you may try the followings:
1) every night, talk to him about the happy things that happened at school so as to reinforce his happy memories about school
2) tell him that you (or someone he loves and trusts) will wait for him right outside the school when he's playing inside. So no need to be afraid/worry
3) give him a lot of comfort and hugs and be patient when he is throwing temper (very likely his recent bad temper comes from the pressure of adapting to school life)
Hope that your son will enjoy his school life soon.
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發表於 08-10-14 12:40 |只看該作者
謝謝你的分享,我會試吓,佢近日表現已有所改善呢,我同老公都好開心,已幾日無講我要曳,講話唔想返學都少左好多,今朝姐姐仲話我知佢入學校時無喊添,我個囝都係話佢「lost姐姐」,但我地都有解釋比佢知,話佢知姐姐放學會接佢,可能佢適應時間比較長,希望佢以後會鍾意返學啦。

不過我都會試吓你講既方法,希望令佢更喜歡同享受學校生活。


原文章由 luplup 於 08-10-14 01:30 發表
My son has similar situation. Always said he wants to be naughty, he wants mami to be unhappy. Though he doesn't cry at nursery, every time I asked him whether he likes to go to school, he said no. ...

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