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cissie

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發表於 04-7-28 05:44 |只看該作者

watching t.v

how many hours do you let your child watch t.v in a day?my son loves to watch t.v and he starts watch from the minute he wakes up until the minute he goes to bed. tried to switch it off, but he just cry and screams.wonder if you limited your child's t.v time.

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JimVan

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發表於 04-7-28 19:49 |只看該作者

Re: watching t.v

how old is your child?? Watching too much too tv is not good for sure. First, not good to his eye sight, secondly, he just not bother to think and explore.

I let my children watch tv only for those kids program, and VCD / DVD that suitable for them. To keep them away from the tv, I will give them some other activities, such as, going out (shopping / for a walk / playground), story time (read them story books, song times (sing songs together), drawing time, or even play toys with them. There are lots of things that you can do with him other than watching TV. By the way, I must admit that TV does play a very important role when I'm cooking or doing something important !! :mrgreen:

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sell2japan

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發表於 04-7-28 23:19 |只看該作者

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要教好年幼bb唔睇電視就是自己唔睇,更加要恨心唔比佢睇,好習慣可以成自然, 壊習慣更加可以....但如果同其他屋企人一起住就好難改因為我發覺上一代唔睇都係開住電視由朝到晚(奇怪).....記住想仔女好就要恨心, 佢咸都唔理佢, 因為到佢大個一事無成就會怨你無教好佢成日比電視佢睇.....................

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JackMon

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發表於 04-7-30 22:17 |只看該作者

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無論是看電視或其他, 父母是小朋友的第一個老師, 在家以身作側, 你地唔看, 佢也沒得看, 不如一齊看書吧, 還有要言出所行.

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chickenwing

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發表於 04-7-31 16:59 |只看該作者

Re: watching t.v

I agree with JimVan. I don't let my child (she's now 17 month old) watch TV. Only play her VCD/DVD for not longer than half hour in a time. She doesn't mind we turn off the TV when it's time up, since she knows the time is up...

She enjoy to read, draw and play her toys.

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Sindy

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發表於 04-7-31 17:53 |只看該作者

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不嬲都無開電視比佢睇,久而久之,我開電視(晚上),佢都無乜興趣,湊佢果個人都唔睇電視,佢都會唔睇架,你甩左個電制,佢開唔到就話佢知壞左,咁過一兩日佢就會無左條引架啦

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zimba

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發表於 04-7-31 21:56 |只看該作者

Re: watching t.v

I only allow my son watch 1 VCD/video tape per day. I make this a rule, sometimes he ask for more, I just tell him that his quota is full that day.

But then, my hubby and I seldom watch TV, we only watch the documentaries once in a while, or my hubby will watch TV after my son sleeps.

Maybe your child is a visual and auditory learner, that is he learns by seeing and listening. If you have time, read books to him instead, or let him read books with tape. Or bring him out to the park or playground, there must be plenty of things for him to see.

My son will ask for TV if he is bored at home or sleepy.

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Happy_Boy_Mommy

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發表於 04-8-4 07:07 |只看該作者

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Since I am a working mom, on weeknights, I rather play with my 4 ½ months old baby. On weekends, sometimes I play Baby Einstein’s DVD’s. My son is very excited watching these and his favorite is Baby Neptune - talks about different forms of water, creatures found in ocean etc.

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twice

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發表於 04-8-4 23:06 |只看該作者

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我個BB現在一歲零一個月, 之前佢日日都好長時間睇電視,
所以之前佢唔係好啋人, 電視一做廣告, 佢就睇到定哂型, 邊個叫佢都唔啋, 仲唔係好肯學嘢, 又成日發脾氣. 直到佢到醫生度打一歲嘅針嘅時候, 我同醫生講佢嘅情形, 醫生即刻叫我唔好再俾電視佢睇, 就算俾佢睇都唔好超過1個鐘, 仲要係比BB睇個D節目或VCD, 因為睇得多電視, 佢就唔識同人相處, 唔識同人溝通, 會影響佢日後學習進度, 嘩! 講到幾嚴重呀. 返去謹係立即唔俾佢睇啦, 我就陪佢一齊唔睇, 成晚陪佢玩囉. 我已經差不多個幾星期無比電視佢睇, 最多每日唔超過1個鐘, 佢外婆嚟咗除外, 因為無辨法叫佢唔睇. 宜家佢嘅反應好咗好多, 又早咗瞓 (之前睇電視可以睇到成1點鐘), 親子關係又好咗, 久唔久又會走嚟o爹吓你, 真係醒目咗好多, 所以襯佢仲細, 拿拿聲好同佢介咗佢, 唔係遲D就好難介架啦.

我叫 Sherwin, 2003年7月6日出世, 係一個好可愛嘅男仔

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WaiYing

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發表於 04-8-6 15:31 |只看該作者

Re: watching t.v

BB現在7個月大, office hour 由奶奶照顧, but奶奶喺電視迷, 所以好驚BB也時常睇電視, 大家有咩方法可以解決.

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toffeeli

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發表於 04-8-6 22:57 |只看該作者

Re: watching t.v

Hi, Wai YIng,

Probably you don't want to affect the relation with your mother-in-law by asking her not to turn on the TV all the time.

I would suggest you should probably first devise a timetable of what you want your bb to do in the daytime so that you can discuss with your mother-in-law. If your baby has something to do, your bb would not concentrate on the TV and also if your mother-in-law has something to do with her grandchild, she probably enjoy it and would not need to switch on the TV all the time.

Regards,
toffeeli

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WaiYing

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發表於 04-8-7 10:50 |只看該作者

Re: watching t.v

Hi Toffeeli,

奶奶未必會follow你的timetable,因為她會覺得自己做D嘢冇問題,好似我叫她唔好抱BB太多, 比BB多玩玩具及唔好比BB企,因為BB重細, 但她都不埋, 而且她視大孫為命根, 也可以因睇電視而放棄大孫, 所以都唔知點箅好.

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toffeeli

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發表於 04-8-7 18:45 |只看該作者

Re: watching t.v

Hi Wai Ying,

It is really a headache! I can now appreciate your worries. In a long term, it may be a problem. So it is best to start off trying to set up a timetable anyway and start bargaining. Even if she would not follow totally to the timetable, you may try if she can at least follow a bit as a start and let her knows it it beneficial to the BB.

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toffeeli