I have a 5-month-old son and have the same problem as yours as well. But please be patient and don't think all matters too bad.. actually, the new member joined may bring many troubles and spend lots of time to your family. Sometimes, i also feel unhappy when i have to go home immediately after work and no leisure time any more. But please give more time to your husband and yourself, your BB is so cutie and lovely, I ensure that you will feel happy to have a child in very soon time....
Anyway, please find more time to talk with your husband, i think he may also have the same hard feeling as yours, don't ignore him.. ..you must always remember that he loves you and your Baby..
好多謝各位嘅分享和鼓勵呀! 原來不只得我有依個問題, 但我對我老公真係有d失望! 我哋都同意近日大家係欠缺溝通... 佢話佢一忙就理唔到咁多野, 叫我forgive him, he not means to hurt me. 但已經唔係第一次.... 點解連基本對我嘅關心都可以無嘅?! 我真係好懷疑我係佢心裡面有幾重要?!?!?! 好心淡!!
In this forum, I found most of us 'Daddy' are bad guy, but where are the good Daddy? I can't say I'm a good one, but if your husband is a good one, please say somthing to him..
If it is bad, blah blah blah, flows like a river.
If it is good, smile, doesn't need to say a word (doesn't need to sit in front of the computer and type and type... :-P ).
Just like I said in 心聲留言: in 心聲留言, all are bad 99s, in 夫婦情感, all are bad husbands.
我係生完亞仔3-4個月之後，比人laid off了，做了大約9個月全職媽媽。回想當時，同老公之間亦都發生了不少問題。一個女人呆在家，對住一個未識講野的BB，老公回家巴不得將全日發生過的事話晒比佢知，但換來的可能是一張沒什麼興趣/表情的面口。自覺好辛苦，一日忙到晚，勞心勞力揍BB，老公回家又唔幫手，只係識得同BB玩，有起事又只係入我數，覺得好不公平，不斷作出投訴，覺得他不夠關心…
後來發現一直只覺自己的苦處，從沒站過老公的立場想過。老公變成家庭唯一支柱，有壓力又不想我擔心，由早做到晚，回家卻發現老婆只是一味投訴，但自己不勤力點，保不住份工，大既唔食細既都要食喇！工作上有唔開心咪自己吞左落肚，男人總不會跟你說而作出解釋的，你嘈咩，佢咪唔出聲等你鬧完便算，點知佢越唔出聲，老婆越是更加嬲，覺得佢唔理自己！當時我閒在家看了一本書，書名”Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”，開始覺得男人想法及反應真的可能同我地唔同，之後便多點在老公立場而想，我地鐘意老公關懷、疼惜、愛護…其實老公何嘗不是希望老婆亦係咁對自己。
亞仔週歲時我找到了新工作，自己都忙都無咁計較，反而老公仲成日打比我，我仲笑住話佢煩！兩公婆感情變番越來越好，我同我老公結婚8年了，近呢幾年好少好少嘈交。我自己覺得，女人係需要工作的，呆在家越耐，成日只對住小朋友，人會不自覺地變得越長氣(慣左話住D仔女嘛)，耐下耐下老公會覺得自己越來越似佢亞媽。
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