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洋房

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發表於 04-8-12 12:16 |只看該作者

小朋友如果得不到佢想要的東西 (可能只係一張紙),佢便大哭起來,誓要你俾佢為止,叫我如何是好呢?

如題


大宅

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發表於 04-8-12 14:03 |只看該作者

Re: 小朋友如果得不到佢想要的東西 (可能只係一張紙),佢便大哭起來,誓要你俾佢為止,叫我

首先, 我想知你點解(只係一張紙)都唔比佢?
小朋友唔明白點解你唔比佢, 佢一定會喊

如果係危險或者不適合佢玩, 你就要解釋比佢聽點解
小bb可能唔明白, 就要講淺白一些, 例如: 危險呀/烏糟呀....

要介定邊d可以玩, 邊d唔可以玩, 你一定要堅持, 如果佢大喊, 你可以用其他野引開佢注意, 當然, 唔想bb玩最好就收埋佢啦, 我就會咩都比佢自由探索, 除o左危險野


子爵府

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發表於 04-8-12 14:16 |只看該作者

Re: 小朋友如果得不到佢想要的東西 (可能只係一張紙),佢便大哭起來,誓要你俾佢為止,叫我

如果件物件本身你係諗住俾得佢玩既,而佢係一開波就喊,你可以好認真咁叫佢:"講咗唔該先!"如果佢已經係學鹷兒童,你就要佢完完整整好好地咁去問你:"唔該媽咪俾張紙我吖!"佢講得出既又好好講既,先至俾張紙佢,否則,佢點喊你都唔好心軟俾佢!如果件物件係危險/唔係用嚟玩既,你就要好肯定咁拒絕,由得佢喊,等佢唔喊時你要話番俾佢知點解唔攞得俾佢玩.千祈唔好因為佢係小朋友佢喊而屈服呀! :wink:


男爵府

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發表於 04-8-13 12:39 |只看該作者

Re: 小朋友如果得不到佢想要的東西 (可能只係一張紙),佢便大哭起來,誓要你俾佢為止,叫我

how old is the kid ? this is not the problem of a piece of paper!
he/she is challenging your authority ! and testing your borderline.


洋房

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發表於 04-8-13 16:50 |只看該作者

Re: 小朋友如果得不到佢想要的東西 (可能只係一張紙),佢便大哭起來,誓要你俾佢為止,叫我

She is 16 months old


男爵府

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發表於 04-8-14 15:33 |只看該作者

Re: 小朋友如果得不到佢想要的東西 (可能只係一張紙),佢便大哭起來,誓要你俾佢為止,叫我

if you don't want to give him the thing he want, you need to give him reason. And also he need to know to be polite.
If he is impolite or he is don't listen to your reason, you must ignore him. Even in the street.
After serveral times, he will know cry is useless.

I treat my son like, it's work.

christyau 寫道:
She is 16 months old
:-D 我於七月四日在廣華醫院出世 :-D 4/7 = 3.27Kg 13/7 = 3.7Kg 4/8 = 4.2Kg 23/8 = 5Kg


大宅

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發表於 04-8-14 16:44 |只看該作者

Re: 小朋友如果得不到佢想要的東西 (可能只係一張紙),佢便大哭起來,誓要你俾佢為止,叫我

stop him/her and give him reasons, if he can't stop anymore, I'll left him and let him cry alone until he stop by himself.


男爵府

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發表於 04-8-14 18:23 |只看該作者

Re: 小朋友如果得不到佢想要的東西 (可能只係一張紙),佢便大哭起來,誓要你俾佢為止,叫我

be assertive. say no and don't step back !


琥珀宮

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發表於 04-8-14 18:45 |只看該作者

Re: 小朋友如果得不到佢想要的東西 (可能只係一張紙),佢便大哭起來,誓要你俾佢為止,叫我

如果一個小朋友係咁樣,即係話佢已經將喊成做咗佢嘅武器,相信湊佢嘅人時時都係say no跟住佢一喊,於是就yes,係大人教識小朋友理個道理,再唔強硬,就會培養一個忟憎人及令人厭煩嘅小朋友。

16個月嘅小朋友根本言語上解釋咁多佢都唔明,佢地靠大人話俾佢知或示意可得之範疇及危險線,就係咁小朋友先會學懂邊d事物係啱佢地嘅,一味放鬆,小朋友價值觀會模糊,完全幫唔到佢地。

係面對佢地發作時,態度要堅定,心要硬,千其咪俾佢地個可憐樣迷惑,要知道對佢地好就係要忍心,漸漸佢地知道大人嘅界線,亦明白只要大人一say no,佢地真係冇行,冇得商量。

備註: 理招對d未識性嘅小朋友先可發放,到佢識性約4、5歲又唔係咁教。

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