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大宅

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發表於 04-8-13 00:40 |只看該作者

冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

我已冇返工1年幾, 由有左到bb e+ 7個幾月. 最近經濟有問題, 要番返工, 舊公司請返我, 最遲10日後要返工,本來好開心, 但應承幫我湊bb的親戚 e+ 又話唔得閒,

其實我好嬲我阿媽, 我叫我阿媽幫我, 仲話請埋工人比佢. 但佢話自己身體唔好喎, 叫我搵工人在自己屋企湊佢得閒來睇幾個鐘. 我做女當然唔想佢辛苦, 但係佢實在係無x呻吟果隻,
得閒睇下中e & 做下義工. 如果佢咁怕個工人對個孫唔好所以得閒要來睇下, 咁始終有好多時間係bb 同工人獨處, 來都冇用啦. 唔要佢黎呀! p.s. 我同佢住好近. $20 taxi.

奶奶一早話明唔會湊, 我同佢住好遠, 來回2個鐘車程.

最慘e+搵唔到人湊. 明天試下打比幫我陪月個阿姐睇下得唔得啦. :cry: 果時個阿姐見我阿媽常上來都問點解佢唔幫我陪月, 我咪話佢話自己身體唔好law, 個陪月阿姐都話 "唔係wa??'


複式洋房

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發表於 04-8-13 02:40 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

Hi!
EQ,我想知你住邊區,睇o下幫唔幫到你。


男爵府

積分: 9443

畀面勳章


3#
發表於 04-8-13 03:49 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

EQ:
有D幼兒園係收1個月以上嘅BB0家,你住邊區呀,幫你收下風.
仲有時間,唔好唔開心啦.
:lol: :lol:


大宅

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發表於 04-8-13 06:25 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.



大宅

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5#
發表於 04-8-13 09:37 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

TO : EQ
你住邊......? 因為我mother 一向照顧小朋友, 最近因為個小朋友返小學, 所以我mother 先無幫人照顧小朋友.........
你睇下我mother 同你近唔近.......


男爵府

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育兒性格勳章


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發表於 04-8-13 10:31 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

EQ,

我估你媽咪唔想個工人住係佢到, 同埋你俾個bb佢湊, 雖然係請工人幫佢, 但你媽咪自由慣, 得閒睇下中醫、做下義工咁, 你叫佢湊其實對佢黎講係好困身, 所以佢寧願你搵工人湊, 佢得閒過黎幫你睇下囉.

唔知你住邊區or返工返邊區, 你可以搵日間育嬰院, 我個朋友以前又好似你咁, 佢大肚時奶奶拍晒心口話幫佢湊, 點知生左出黎又反口喎, 佢自己媽咪已經湊家姐個bb, 更加幫唔到佢手, 最後佢放個bb去育嬰院, 佢都同我講育嬰院照顧得好好, 又唔使請工人留宿咁唔方便, 又有得申請費用減免資助, 佢覺得最好就係有人定時佢bb做按摩, 大d又幫佢介埋片, 學到好多自理, 而時間又有規律, 好似返學上堂咁, 又多小朋友一齊成長, 社交能力都好d架.


大宅

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發表於 04-8-13 11:37 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

我都好似你咁, 我阿媽唔係到, 奶奶就成日去街, 又話學唱歌, 好多節目, 我都唔至依佢幫我湊, 所以一早請工人, 佢得閑就上黎睇下bb, 需然話俾工人湊唔放心, 但都冇辦法, 好多要番工既媽咪都係咁, 如果擔心, 就再裝個cam係屋企監視住羅, 冇辦法啦.


別墅

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發表於 04-8-13 11:46 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

EQ,
我知有d育嬰院可以湊咁細o既bb架, 不過可能唔會即時有位, 要排隊.
如果你要請工人, 真係有多個人睇住好d, 始終 EQ 仲細ma! 同埋真係要好小心咁搵一個識湊bb的工人先得 (我有個 friend 就係搵到個唔好的工人, 而家搞到好慘)
我都明白你的心情, 不過你可唔可以叫你阿媽o係你未搵到其他人湊之前幫你湊一排先?


珍珠宮

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發表於 04-8-13 11:56 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

EQ,

叫你媽媽幫住一排先, 你快些到agent搵一些現成工人或看
'論盡家傭' 有無好介紹.


vivianf,

可唔可以講你的朋友單case來聽?


翡翠宮

積分: 75500


10#
發表於 04-8-13 12:04 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

EQ,你住邊區呀,我有個朋友以前都有同人湊開BB 0家,仲好似湊埋夜晚添。


男爵府

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11#
發表於 04-8-13 12:34 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

JK 923,

I am a working mom hiring the maid, also afraid if the maid could suddenly run away, could you also provide the contact for me for reference, include the salary to [email protected]

For EQ, pls do not upset, I have a similar case like you, my mom, too far and is not willing to take care the grand son, mother-in-law, not care and is too old. Hire the maid but run away, so finally hire the part-time maid from 4 hours, not enough to 10 hours per day, 8am till 7pm. Now change to Indonesia maid, hardworking at lease. Try the local maid than hire the domestic helper.

Thanks!
C


大宅

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發表於 04-8-13 12:41 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

EQ, 唔好怪你媽媽, 你媽媽要湊你地都湊左咁耐, o係佢家下重行得走得, 想做番D自己想做既野好易理解, 況且佢都有權選擇SAY YES OR NOT, 你比人叫你做D唔想做既野, 你都唔鍾意LA。

請個賓啦, 初期麻煩你MAMA幫手跟下LAW


王國長老

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發表於 04-8-13 14:42 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

我都覺得如果經濟許可的話,請工人在家湊比較好。一來如ho_fish咁講,父母養大我地盡了責任,現在退休便應享受下人生,做佢地想做的事。好似我都是請工人的,我媽咪成日都去下教堂做service,去做義工,有時打下麻將仔。我Daddy日日都去Gym,係屋企睇下波、睇下馬仔,佢地開心我便開心。加上最大問題係兩代湊仔方法唔同,意見分歧在所難免,整下整下仲傷埋感情,唔值得呢!


大宅

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發表於 04-8-13 19:32 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

多謝各位, 我住藍田.

Jessica ,
你講得冇錯, 佢係怕困身, 佢同你個朋友個奶奶1樣, 我未有bb時成日叫我生, 話生左佢湊喎. 到我大肚時同佢商量佢湊bb我去搵工, 佢話唔湊, 仲叫我唔好搵野做, 吹脹!

其實我都係外婆湊大的. 我阿婆話會同佢傾下喎.


別墅

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發表於 04-8-13 20:08 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

I have the similar problem as EQ, however, my child is now about 2 years old and is going to attend N1 in the coming October. We like the school very much, however, it does not provide any full-day nursery class.

Therefore, I would like to ask are there any nursery that can provide (only) the afternoon session care to those 2-years old kids, so that I could bring her home after my office hours.

Or, are there any alternative ways that I can solve this problem? (The grandma of the BB does not like any maid who live in the house but she is not capable to take care of the BB on her own)

We live in HK side.

Any suggestions or comments?

Thank you very much!


翡翠宮

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發表於 04-8-14 22:37 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

chelsea:
請收PM。


大宅

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發表於 04-8-15 01:46 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

我有bb時叫我生, 話生左佢搵人湊喎. 到生左時仲未搵到人湊bb,我自己又要返工,我係搵得最少個個,所以我要放棄工作, 要湊bb,我又唔捨得份工,佢地話你咁細個湊一兩年,咪搵工做啦,我心想兩年後都唔知咩事啦,問老公$洗好
:cry: 不過now都湊左差不多7個啦,都好開心呀
now 都想搵野做呀


翡翠宮

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發表於 04-8-16 18:59 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

chelsea:
請收PM。


禁止訪問

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發表於 04-8-17 11:10 |只看該作者

Re: 冇人湊bb, 唔知點算.

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