alice78, it must be a very hard time for you. I can't imagine if that was me. My baby was gone 3 weeks ago. I have never forgot the moment when the doctor told me that my baby has no heartbeat.
Just a few days ago, I went to the clinic to make sure everything is cleared from my body. I thought I am already quite ok, but once I stepped in the clinic, I can't stand and start to cry ...
Agree with WongMing that this forum has become one of the best place to share. I'll talk with my husband, but except him, I even don't want to say a word, esp in the family and office.
Now I tried to think of something more positive. Actually I have my baby just in the 2nd month we tried. I think it must be becasue I was happy and pressure-free at that time. Therefore, I must make myself happy and relax again in the coming months to welcome my next baby arriving.
點解會咁易無咗?
Actually I have flashed with the question of 'why me?' when I heard the news. But then I remember a story of about a handsome, young smart men who have car acciedent and lost his legs. He said one sentence which I can't forgot. 'Most people will only ask why me, but why not me?'
But after this event, I started to understand that having baby is not as easy as I expect.
所以曾經小產的sister..我仲慘過妳地...妳地已經好好,因為妳地吾會見到自己的兒女.......插滿喉....那種情景我永遠都記得....加油努力la... 
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