I slept in same room with baby with baby in her own cot in the beginning. Easier for bf at night. I dont feel that it is right to “abandon” a newborn by herself right away. Husband slept in the other room so he has energy to work in the am. After 2 or 2.5 months i put baby in her own room and husband moved back into our room.
Baby can fall asleep by herself now and goes to bed early at 7pm. Need to strike a balance between training and offering comfort
Depends on baby but between 2 to 3 months (the book what to expect in first year also recommends this). This is when their feeding stabilize a little (they may not sleep through the night yet but they probably don\'t feed every 2 hrs anymore!).
You need to learn to understand the different types of how your baby cries b4 training (protest cry vs emotional cry etc).