BB已经有7个月大,但我老公成家人(老爷,奶奶,他的弟妹,包括老公在内)无一个人送过礼物给BB(老公只会我签卡他给卡数)我奶奶只是在BB满月时给2封$50利是,她说等她大D先买野给她.(大到几时先叫大呢?)
我不是想他们送什么名贵东西,只是觉得奇怪及不高兴,因为我个边D relatives and friends and his friends都会送礼物啦. 我和他的家人没有心病,见面也有倾讲.真不明白他们的心态?
My sister-in-law told me whenever her friends have babies, she would wait for a while until the baby is older (maybe one year old) to send the baby gift. It's because she doesn't want to send the baby something that is luxury and not practical (such as pretty clothes). She assume that a lot people send these kind of gifts to the baby. She would rather send the baby something like electronic thermometer, hand-knit a sweater, etc.
As a mother, I do appreciate these kind of gifts, as they are practical and the baby could use it for a long time.