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每換一次外傭, 我就將我既要求降低一格!!!!

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原文章由 bb@rabbit 於 08-11-21 11:37 發表
係這5年間除了第一個印印係可以完約(想續佢, 佢唔想做), 之後4個都無一個可以到尾.
第二個(22歲), 成日俾我99鬧. 當時要同99住. 99投訢佢, 做野拿西求其. 最離譜係將我個女d燕窩倒晒. 因為我女成日嘔成日病, 所以整 ...

I feel sorry for you after reading your post. You are not alon, 'cus many employers out there are suffering the same thing like the way you are. Poor employers (sigh..)!

But we are only a small portion in this society, and most ppl, as I can see, still see us who are suffering as rich ppl, and challenge us "what more can you complain, having much money to hire a maid?!" That's why we never get the compassion from anybody in this society, no matter the Chief Executive, most of the legco member, citizens in general. When others see that we complian at your maid for her wrongdoings, they will only view us as are harsh employers, who must be the ones to be over-demanding, ill-treating the maids, teasing the maids, etc.

PPl around me who don't have maids, or having a nice maid, are always saying words like "we are human, and so are the maids". That sounds beautiful and perfect. But I want to ask: Given that maids are human, but aren't we, the employers, human beings too?

Thanks to our Gov't for bringing us such unfair rules and ordinances, being so generous to the maids and agents that are inethical...

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發表於 08-11-21 12:57 |只看該作者

原文章由 bb@rabbit 於 08-11-21 11:37 發表
係這5年間除了第一個印印係可以完約(想續佢, 佢唔想做), 之後4個都無一個可以到尾.
第二個(22歲), 成日俾我99鬧. 當時要同99住. 99投訢佢, 做野拿西求其. 最離譜係將我個女d燕窩倒晒. 因為我女成日嘔成日病, 所以整 ...

無厘頭四點煮晒晚飯

o的工人個腦真係唔知諗咩

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小李子

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發表於 08-11-21 13:25 |只看該作者

所以咪話請一個好 ge 工人, 難過中六合彩 lor!

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講左百幾次, 煲湯前先準備材料. 5點滾魚湯3點將d洋蔥蕃茄cut 定放係度, 等度5點先煲.
我咁多個月都係食蒜蓉炒菜, 無6菜無其他煮法. 教左佢都係咁. 每晚咩菜都係蒜蓉炒. 最慘係煮得唔好食. 而家, 我叫佢留反俾我煮.
放完假果日仲慘, 例必唔記得iron校服, 第朝唔知醒. 試過連續2天.
大廈無水, 我睇唔到notice佢睇到. 但無水. 佢話知道. 到另一次, 無半夜洗水江. 佢留到全屋都係水.
佢初來時好正常, 需然做野慢但好乾淨及有條理. 當時仲同人講, 終於有反個正常的. 點知, 幾個月後會變到咁.
佢話佢以前份工, 做完家務. 仲要出去老闆的麵包店, 幫手做包. 做到好夜. 我完全唔明白, 佢以前的老闆點頂4年.
我d朋友話, 我家太小野俾佢做.

原文章由 smypig 於 08-11-21 12:57 發表

無厘頭四點煮晒晚飯

o的工人個腦真係唔知諗咩

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發表於 08-11-21 14:18 |只看該作者

原文章由 bb@rabbit 於 08-11-21 11:37 發表
係這5年間除了第一個印印係可以完約(想續佢, 佢唔想做), 之後4個都無一個可以到尾.
第二個(22歲), 成日俾我99鬧. 當時要同99住. 99投訢佢, 做野拿西求其. 最離譜係將我個女d燕窩倒晒. 因為我女成日嘔成日病, 所以整 ...

I am sorry for hearing your bad experience too. Me too, with similar bad experiences as you.

My current maid is an Indo, she intended not to take her regular day off as she said she wants to earn more $$ for her family.

It was our intention too as we don't want her to be 'polluted', however her performance was unbelivable bad... forget this & that though we have reminded her over thousands of times, lazy... etc, which made us angry.

My husband has to be on duty on Sat from Dec onwards, I then need to face up with her alone with my baby. I hope not so I bear the risk to release her on Sat as her regular day off.

I have prepared for the worst that she will be 'polluted', however I can do nothing.

All HK employers are poor, we can't argue or complain, even we did, nothing the Govn't can help...POOR US!

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發表於 08-11-21 15:05 |只看該作者

原文章由 pollyw 於 08-11-21 12:16 發表

I feel sorry for you after reading your post. You are not alon, 'cus many employers out there are suffering the same thing like the way you are. Poor employers (sigh..)!

But we are only a small ...

Pollyw, 唔好意思都想講句, 我睇親你d post都見到你果兩位公主副尊容真係好想反胃..... 你可唔可以剷左佢呀?

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發表於 08-11-21 15:09 |只看該作者

pollyw,

睇到你嘅post, 簡直係講晒我心聲, 我係2年幾裡面, 用左4個工人, 第一個黎幫我照顧初生, 佢已經係兩個小朋友嘅媽媽, 但都唔識照顧BB, OK我教佢, 嘔左好多血, 過左大半, 先叫上左手, 到左一年零二兩月, 佢申請到去加拿大, 要走, 當時我心想人望高處, 好難怪佢, 佢走時仲話: "Mum, thank you for teaching me so much", 佢走時我買左禮物比佢d仔女, 我媽媽比佢大利是, 但後來先知佢原來一心黎香港做踏腳石, 目的係去加拿大!!!!!!

自己挨左兩個月, 等到第二個到, 佢冇經驗, 咩都唔識做, 教到我喊左好多次, 日日要煮埋比佢食, 仲要樣樣都話好好食, 叫佢煮, 佢話唔識, 仲要係傻傻哋, 又唔多識英文, 一個月後補錢炒左。

又挨左兩個多月, 等到第三個黎, 佢好好, 唔係好使教, 算係自動波, 但開心左一年, 又去加拿大

到左第四個

, 我簡直身心疲累, 咩都唔識, 浪床單摺四摺浪, 比晒timetable佢做嘢, 佢啋你都傻, 叫佢mark底點做, 佢扮mark其實冇mark, 最簡單清潔都唔識, 已經做左兩星期, 有日7點半放工返到屋企佢都可以未洗菜, 問佢點解佢話要熨衫

(我個timetable已經講晒每日嘅工作), 做嘢又超級慢, 最後又係賠錢佢走。

到而家, 唔想再博, 唯有要媽媽辛苦d幫手照顧BB, 都唔想再請工人, 再賠錢

, 你真係講得好啱, 好彩請到好工人幫手嘅朋友, 真係以為你唔知點折磨工人, 所以人哋先走, 冇工人的朋友, 更加唔使講啦

, 所以樓主, 好多人陪你唔開心!

原文章由 pollyw 於 08-11-21 12:16 發表

I feel sorry for you after reading your post. You are not alon, 'cus many employers out there are suffering the same thing like the way you are. Poor employers (sigh..)!

But we are only a small ...

[ 本文章最後由睿睿豬於 08-11-21 15:13 編輯 ]

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原文章由 123BB 於 08-11-21 11:49 發表
每換一次外傭, 我就將我既要求降低一格!!!!

還要將自己的EQ提高, 否則, 好容易變為"short"人, 得到神經病.

始終言語是不同, 通常我罵她的第一. 二句, 她是聽到/收到, 跟住第三句開始, 她已關了耳朵不聽, 任得我發癲. 所以, 我對住極品只會一句起兩句止, 說完就踢她入廚房做野, 免自己越來越激氣, 亦不會給她機會駁咀或黑面.

[ 本文章最後由 jadechant 於 08-11-21 16:57 編輯 ]

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發表於 08-11-21 16:48 |只看該作者

ha ha....

原文章由 ChuChu0808 於 08-11-21 15:05 發表

Pollyw, 唔好意思都想講句, 我睇親你d post都見到你果兩位公主副尊容真係好想反胃..... 你可唔可以剷左佢呀?

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發表於 08-11-21 17:04 |只看該作者

原文章由 ChuChu0808 於 08-11-21 15:05 發表

Pollyw, 唔好意思都想講句, 我睇親你d post都見到你果兩位公主副尊容真係好想反胃..... 你可唔可以剷左佢呀?

係ロ羊!　我都唔好意思!
咁你宜家見点呀?

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ChuChu0808

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發表於 08-11-21 17:28 |只看該作者

原文章由 pollyw 於 08-11-21 17:04 發表

係ロ羊!　我都唔好意思!
咁你宜家見点呀?

呢個moment, 我唔止見想嘔, 仲見暈添呀!

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發表於 08-11-21 18:21 |只看該作者

原文章由 ChuChu0808 於 08-11-21 17:28 發表

呢個moment, 我唔止見想嘔, 仲見暈添呀!

咁得末呀!小姐!

我唔会産架!最多係咁!

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發表於 08-11-21 18:29 |只看該作者

Same to me. I've changed 4 maids in the past 2 years. Frankly I am never a harsh person and always be polite to the maids. However a maid disappeared after borrowing money from financial agency, another got home sick and requested to leave after 1 week. The attitude of next one was terrible. She never replied me and gave me black face all day. Seem like I killed all her family members.

My friends just don't understand and wonder if I requested too much or not. One of my maid stayed overnight outside without permission. To me, it's a really big mistake and I gave her warning letter. However my friend just said I was too stringent. She said that staying outside overnight was no big deal. She said that I over-reacted. Am I???? I really don't think so. If she got pregnant, I'm the one to suffer. However the friends just don't understand.

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發表於 08-11-22 00:58 |只看該作者

樓主如果我係你我就會同個d講衰你d工人僱主溝通下 la 我工人餵bb食飯餵到出門口同隔離工人吹水我知道後我都同個僱主講有咁ga 情況怕佢地作反最好以後都唔好la 費是大家ga 工人講得太多野仲有1次我工人湊bb返學又係有d印印自行比d衫我個工人我個日馬上一齊同工人接bb放學仲比返袋衫個個印印咁q 個個印印個僱主老爺又同個印印一齊接佢個孫放學佢唔很認袋衫係佢之後我就問老師攞左我個仔個同學仔個媽咪電話打比佢話佢知佢個工人成日周圍吹水又攞衫比我個工人 d衫仲有d似佢太太架之後個工人都係唔認依家個個印印見到我個工人都唔敢同我工人講野我仲同老師佢地講左要留意d工人有咩野就打比我我會用盡辦法去監管我工人ga行為

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