My 99 is a traditional mother. She treat me as one of the relative not family member! Recently, my husband buy a bigger apartment and plan to move to there in this December.
On the date we went to pay the 1st deposit in the property agent, my 99 ask me in front of her husaband , son , daughter and my husband . Does it need to add my name on the new house?
How can I answer?? If I said yes, she will consider me I am very 貪心&緊張.Therefore, I said 是旦喇!我又無份俾錢. My 99 reply that 唔係咁計,萬事以大局為重,加咗你名怕montage and my husband's housing allownace will become more difficult.
I know every mother protect her child, but please remember the daughter in law is your good good son's wife. I don't want him get any lost. Actually, I have stable job with a very attractive salary . I don't understand how will the montage become difficult?
On the other hand, my beloved husband didn't said a word while her mother asking me this unreasonable and embrarassed question.
In this incident, my husband hurt me a lot. he alway trust his mother more than me. We got married for 3 years and have a daughter already. How come he treat me in this inhuman way? And my 99 didn't give $ how come she can order us to fellow her?
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My husband is a excellent guy good temper, honest, responsible ,professional career, stable and high income. He is nice to everyone.Therefore, my 99 always told me and my mom that her son is super excellent. And always said I have a 眼光, 好似高攀
Actually, the house is paid by my husband only. We ask the bank to offer the briding loan for us. However, my 99 said she can lend us 10% of the amount to paid the " big " depostie. And we give the $ back to her after our present house being sold.
My husband give me $ for daily living every month, therefore my salary is used by myself only. Because I need to paid my parents's living included their's house montage.
My husband never said a words for my expenses. He still support me for my degree study and paid my tax every year. Give me credit card, give me a car, allow me to buy things without reson or thinking.
I trust my hubby because he is a good and love me and our daughter. On the other hand, he also is a good son too. I don't want putting him in a difficult position. Hope that he can give me a resonable answer for this affair.
BTW, thanks all of your sharing.
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