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發表於 04-9-2 15:57 |只看該作者

各位鎖好你既財物 ...

各位鎖好既財物, 我擒晚發現條金鏈同埋金介指唔見左,
當時價值一萬, 而家唔止勒!!
最慘係我好鍾意條鏈 ..my favourite!!

難以至信, 真係咁猖狂 ..

佢變臉之前, 好好架..

What should i do now?!! I will fire her tonite. Should I still pay her?

好煩好煩呀 ... 咁唔自愛既?

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kingawa

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發表於 04-9-2 16:11 |只看該作者

Re: 各位鎖好你既財物 ...

你有搜她嗎?她是否拿出去賣了?假如有証明的話好像是可即抄不用賠錢的. 上次我二嫂以為在街外掉了粒鑽石,但當晚我的印印告訴我她在洗地時拾到一粒好像是鑽石的東西,二嫂他們都說我好lucky,找到個老實的工人.

我是4歲的澤銘,我最愛跑來跑去,破壞看得到的一切東西,和最愛車車

ようこそ！ご覧で下さい !

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8-) my store: 書.奶泵.手推車.畫版.bb衫.掛床音樂旋轉.防電磁波腰封;-)recent favourite: 香港人民廣播電台 radio 45

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發表於 04-9-2 16:22 |只看該作者

Re: 各位鎖好你既財物 ...

you are right .. .she is real lucky!!

I am not optimistic .. I will search with the agent tonite and talk with the maid then.

Most likely they are gone~
I am really really upset ...

not only the gold stuff
but my favourites

not only my favourites
but she herself ..

it's so shameful to be a thief ...
and the cruelest thing of all is that she abuses my trust to her ..

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kooku2004

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發表於 04-9-2 16:30 |只看該作者

Re: 各位鎖好你既財物 ...

你是否有足夠証據係個工人偷,你要有心理準備佢唔認, 同用不同籍口抵賴, 而佢唔可能再在你家打工, 手飾唔見係好慘, 有無其他銀行文件唔見呢? 若她離職後要記得將大門的門鎖更換. 安全至上.

KooKuKooKu :pint:

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發表於 04-9-2 16:36 |只看該作者

Re: 各位鎖好你既財物 ...

最難受的是知道一個你一直都相信的人居然做埋一些你根本想不到她會做的野。這種感覺很難受。究竟以後仲信唔信她呢？個小朋友交給她照顧有無問題呢？她會不會再呃我呢？出街會不會唔理我個小朋友呢？

我都試過這個情形。不過我的工人無偷我野，只不過一直講了很多的大話。她的大話唔會帶到任何影響來我家，不過我就很失望，因為誠信的基礎已經打翻了。

你應該清楚話俾她知你的失望及唔開心，要讓她知道發生了什麼的事情，當然她可能會唔認，但你就要講得清楚一些今次唔見了野，你唔知究竟件野去了邊，你亦唔會去一口咬定是她取了，因為你無親眼見到，不過你日後會更加小心所有的野，如果她無做過的當然唔需要擔心，但有做過的話她就唔好再有下一次俾我人贓俱獲，我一定會拉你去坐監的，而你是無錢賠。

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發表於 04-9-2 17:51 |只看該作者

Re: 各位鎖好你既財物 ...

tweetybird,
"最難受的是知道一個你一直都相信的人居然做埋一些你根本想不到她會做的野。" exactly .. i am very very upset today .. headache .. my friends laughed at me saying that i should expect so .. i thought we should have no discrimination to them. You know my helper has previous working experience, in Taiwan & UWE. I thought she was mature enough & capable enough to work. People around me say that most Filippinos are deteriorated & ill-hearted. I didn't believe especially for my current helper who acted so sincerely in front of me all the time!

I really think they put shame on their fellows .. onto their home country.

One day when my bb grow up and she ask about the helper's photo in the album. It will be a shameful story of her. I feel extremely upset seeing a person corrupted her reputation & life like that.

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發表於 04-9-2 18:04 |只看該作者

Re: 各位鎖好你既財物 ...

gigeebee

我們對人根本不應存有任何的惡意，不過一些的事實已經證明了防人之心不可無，小心駛得萬年船的預言。

不論是任何時候，我都本著我對人好些，人家又會對我好些的宗旨做人，不過就慢慢就開始懂得去保護自己，特別是對著一個住在你家的陌生人，在任何時候都要小心，不要過份去信任一個人，不是要去做驚弓之鳥，只不過小心為上。

經過多年的交手，我在某程度上我都是相信我的工人，因為我將我個女交付了她去照顧，頭家亦給了她，所以我需要相信她在這方面的能力，否則我不能有安定的心去工作。但在其他方面，我會表現得很小心，如在自己的房間上了鎖，不會再有一些interactive的問答時間等，盡量表現她是我的僱員，而我係她的僱主。當然我會當她是一個人，大家互相尊重但又不失威嚴。好的大家去笑下，唔好的就要叫她做好些。獎罰分明。

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發表於 04-9-3 10:02 |只看該作者

Re: 各位鎖好你既財物 ...

agree!!

I should have locked my room's door or at least put anything precious in safe box. No chance yet also no temptation!

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123

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發表於 04-9-3 11:10 |只看該作者

Re: 各位鎖好你既財物 ...

i am sorry to hear that, take it easy lah.
i was told by a taxi driver that some 'dong po' in central do not require ppl to show their id. every sunday the queue is queued up by dh.
shocked me.

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發表於 04-9-3 11:20 |只看該作者

Re: 各位鎖好你既財物 ...

After reading this topic, suddenly an idea come to my mind, besides to lock up all the valuable items, should we need to take a picture of them.

If we took the maid to the police after she hasd stolen "the thing", but how to prove "the thing" belongs to the employer?! (For sure, people will know "the thing" must belongs to the employer but still have to give proof). Will it help if we got the picture on hand cos employer won't take picture of the maid's properties???!!! Any suggestion??

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8-) my store: 書.奶泵.手推車.畫版.bb衫.掛床音樂旋轉.防電磁波腰封;-)recent favourite: 香港人民廣播電台 radio 45

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發表於 04-9-3 11:29 |只看該作者

Re: 各位鎖好你既財物 ...

Dear 123 & linchan
Thanks for your sharing!

Last nite, as the gold necklace & ring could not be found in her luggage or room, she was still innocent. (Remember to do it under police's witness) Police & CIDs came but not much they could do.

I asked them to jot down contact numbers on her mobile phones, in case other families happened to have problems. This can be the clue to follow up. But they refused as it might violate privacy.

In short, if it's not 人臟並獲, we can do nothing!
Police's advice, lock your property. I think that in fact I should lock my room. Open only when i am there.

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發表於 04-9-3 11:46 |只看該作者

Re: 各位鎖好你既財物 ...

我有將貴重而又放在家的物品影相的，因為起碼都叫做有番樣證據呀。

Gigeebee，你會不會炒了你個工人？

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發表於 04-9-3 11:57 |只看該作者

Re: 各位鎖好你既財物 ...

Yep!! Take photos of the maid, her passport & HKID. In case, you may need these documents for arranging things, e.g. Airplane ticket. So often that we want to dismiss a maid immediately, you need get her a ticket, they will ask you for her passport copy. If you got one on hand, you need not ask for it from your maid and make the whole preparation transparent to her.

linchan 寫道:
After reading this topic, suddenly an idea come to my mind, besides to lock up all the valuable items, should we need to take a picture of them.

If we took the maid to the police after she hasd stolen "the thing", but how to prove "the thing" belongs to the employer?! (For sure, people will know "the thing" must belongs to the employer but still have to give proof). Will it help if we got the picture on hand cos employer won't take picture of the maid's properties???!!! Any suggestion??

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