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大宅

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發表於 04-9-8 12:52 |只看該作者

是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

依家用緊的印印巳做咗快2年, 仔仔由出世到依家20個月都係由佢照顧. 我仔仔十分跟佢, 而佢照顧BB方面可算有80分; 可惜........

- 佢十分喜歡煲電話粥; 最跨張果次講咗一個鐘, 我罵完佢之後仲改了家的電話, 並清楚表明不可再把電話給他的朋友. 但後來發現仍有電話打來屋企 (但我無再話佢)
- 做錯事後問佢點解; 第一句一定講"唔係丫....."
- 因為佢八卦, 同BB到平台玩時成日同佢D同鄉雞X唔斷
- 不懂自動自覺把屋企清潔得乾淨. 每次話完佢就會好一頭半個月; 之後又打回原形; 又要再話....

我自問對佢好好;可惜佢不珍惜. 佢係我倒都唔會好辛苦. 我哋一家三口;最主要工作係照顧BB / 煑飯or粥比BB及做家務. 佢唔洗去買餸又唔洗煑飯(一個月只煲湯幾次及煑三幾餐飯); 平時我哋出街食飯, 我哋食乜佢食乜, 我真係當佢係屋企人.. 但佢好似一D都唔珍惜...

如果依家換工人; BB會否好難適應?? 請給意見!!


大宅

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發表於 04-9-8 12:58 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

我只是覺得勉強沒有幸福
如果他不珍惜
遲早你一定把他換掉的
既然還剩下幾個月
能忍就忍吧!要不然就換
孩子適應能力是很強的

不用擔心


大宅

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發表於 04-9-8 13:07 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

係時候換啦.
看來她已沒有心了, 好像我們打工一樣, 通常做了一段長時間就會冇動力冇心機, 日日返工等放工, 月頭等月尾.


大宅

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發表於 04-9-8 13:16 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

但他巳向我表示想renew contract 喎, 如果唔再用佢; 佢好似好慘, 但再用佢就要多忍佢2年. 因佢十月到期啦.
如通知咗唔再用佢, 怕唔怕佢於剩下的個多月對BB唔好呢??



大宅

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發表於 04-9-8 13:46 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

若她想renew contract 便應該表現好啲,
如成日煲電話粥或做了兩年仍不懂自動自覺幫手打理家務, 我是不能接受的.


男爵府

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發表於 04-9-8 13:47 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

你要和她review下她的情況,清楚表明因為是她的工作態度有問題,所以你會唔同她續約。當然如果她想做的,一定喊晒口同你講叫你唔好唔renew她張contract,那你就要想一想你是不是真的會improve呢?如果好得一陣間,轉頭又來過,你又會點呢?

因為當你renew了她張contract要唔用她時要either俾notice或錢的。所以你要清楚。小朋友需要時間去適應一個新的工人是一定的事實,我們唔見了一樣野都會心思思一段時間啦,何況是一個你個bb對住了almost 兩年的人呢。

新的是不是一定好過舊呢?五五波,無一定的。無論如何都是一場運氣的gamble。 good luck。


大宅

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發表於 04-9-8 13:49 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

我覺得最緊要係你最著緊d乜?

BB - 咁如果佢照顧得BB好, 起碼吾駛擔心佢會打BB, 咁其他時你都吾好強求. 要知道工人吾會做足100分, 我地去返工交個BB比工人照顧, 能夠令你放心已經萬幸.

清潔 - 咁你可以係星期六或每晚放工後由你照顧番BB, 監督佢做家務同清潔, 有D工人係要督住先會做得好.

吾認錯 - 10個工人9個都係咁, 你請過新既又吾擔保做錯事會認. 我個印印做錯野最叻搵藉口.

煲電話粥 - 索性申請將電話加密碼.






子爵府

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發表於 04-9-8 14:10 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

Hi, Carson_mum,

It's very difficult to give you opinion. If I were you, I will not renew the contract. As you may know me, I changed the maid 5 times within 2 years. I cannot say that my new maid now is very good, but it's ok so far. She started to work at my home on Aug 15, 2004. I feel that my son cannot adapt this new maid at the beginning, but now my son like her very much. I understood your concern.

Sandy


大宅

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發表於 04-9-8 14:17 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

講真呀! 最重要當然係BB啦, 只不過怕佢教到BB都變大話精, 雖然佢照顧初生BB好叻, 但好像不大懂教我仔仔..
如果換工人的話我會轉bunbun, 起碼BB有多D機會接觸英文..
呀! 都唔知點算, 仲係心大心細!! :-(


子爵府

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發表於 04-9-8 14:34 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

Hi, Carson_mum,

Let me tell you my experience!
1st time -- I employed Indonesia maid.
2nd time -- I employed Filipino maid.
3rd time -- I employed Filipino maid.
4th time -- I employed Indonesia maid.
5th time -- I employed Filipino maid.

As my son just can understand English, I choose Filipino maid finally. Moreover, my husband doesn't like Indonesia maid.


子爵府

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發表於 04-9-8 14:39 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

One more thing ~
Some agencies will suggest you to employ Indonesia maid and they will say that some of Indonesia can speak English very well. But, based on my experience, the Indonesia maid that I employed before didn't know how to teach my son letter A, B, C...etc. and counting, even she worked in Singapore two years ago.


大宅

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發表於 04-9-8 15:19 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

Sandy,
Thanks so much for your info.


民房

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發表於 04-9-8 18:11 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

Hi Sandy,

Can u share more experience why Indonesia maid no good? Cos I employ Philippino 1st time then fire and now the 2nd is Indo but I found is even worst. But my 1st Philippino maid she stolen and hit my baby. We had bad experience.

Now the Indo one is very lazy, but she won't hit BB and seldom talk on the phone.

Sandy,

I do u comment a Phillippine maid and Indo maid ??


男爵府

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發表於 04-9-8 23:01 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

Carson_mum 寫道:
但他巳向我表示想renew contract 喎, 如果唔再用佢; 佢好似好慘, 但再用佢就要多忍佢2年. 因佢十月到期啦.
如通知咗唔再用佢, 怕唔怕佢於剩下的個多月對BB唔好呢??


我覺得如果你同佢續約,係你慘,唔係佢慘,有冇理由會覺得唔再用佢,佢會好似好慘(如果好的話就例外)!你係要諗自己呀!其實我唔多認同請菲庸可以學好D英文,因為D菲庸講嘅英文真係唔係好正,好多時重學壞音添,幼兒專家都係咁講,我英文都唔好,所以都唔想仔仔學壞音。


大宅

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發表於 04-9-9 08:38 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

雖然這年多以來佢做過D令我失望及不快的事; 但我依然心大心細想再用佢的原因係:-
1) 如佢想renew contract, 但我不答案, 我怕餘下的個多月他會對BB唔好.
2) 事實上他亦幫了我不少忙; 尢其BB剛出世時, 我完全不懂怎take care BB, 全部他可一手包辦.. 會唔會"無功都有勞"啦?

我媽咪話我太心軟; 但.... 係人都有感情啦. (雖然我唔知個印印會唔會同我講感情 ?-( ?-( )


男爵府

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發表於 04-9-9 08:48 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

carson mum

我很體諒你的心情,因為當初我都想炒我個工人但又念在她含辛茹苦的湊大我個女,她現在2歲了。

所以我留她,不過我同她講得很清楚我對她的工作表現的不滿,及我的要求,亦有講出我想炒她不過唔炒她的原因。如果她想做的,她要show到俾我睇她是想做,如果唔係今個合約完就大家各行各路。

她現在都算循規蹈矩,當然小問題一定有的,不過唔好在俾我見到就算了。她的私生活我亦唔理,但一定唔不可以有麻煩俾到我屋企的。

我有一個sentence成日都用的,就是:她對手唔係我對手,俾個機會人家,亦都是俾個機會自己,試過後唔得的,就應該無話可說了。 :)


大宅

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發表於 04-9-9 09:11 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

我自己就曾經很勉強的和我前任工人續約
結果是不歡而散
所以我
告訴自己
不再委屈自己
工人不合适就換
平時上班已經很辛苦
回家還要更辛苦?????

結果
我的新工人
果然比前任工人好很多很多

都是
運氣

但是勉強下來
只有自己受苦

但是也對!
我和她已經到了那個階段
機會也給了
我確實是無怨無悔‘


子爵府

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發表於 04-9-9 10:14 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

羊羊ma,

Honestly, different family will have their own choice.
Anyway, I will tell you my stories about my maids.

1st time -- I employed Indonesia maid who was good for cleaning. She didn't know how to take care of newborn baby and her month had a unacceptable bad smell, even I asked her to drink more water. Moreover, one day I discovered that she held my son's head very hard, when she took a bath for him. So, I terminated her. She worked at my home for one month only.

2nd time -- I employed Filipino maid. She worked in Hong Kong for 4 years before I employed her. She knows how to take care of my newborn son and she is good for cooking. She loves my son very much and she taught my son something, such as 'where is your beautiful eye', 'clap hand'....etc.
However, she resigned after she worked at my home around one year. She said that her son was very sick and she had to come back. As I heard from my sister-in-law's helper, she went to Canada to work after resigned. I will not forget her crying, when she was leaving.

3rd time -- I employed Filipino maid. She didn't know how to cook and take care of my son. At the beginning the agency told me that she knows how to cook and tutor the children. But, it's totally wrong. One day my husband asked her to cook marcoroni, but she cooked rice as well. Do you know that I finished the rice at least 3 days? Even so, my son is very scared her, coz she stared at my son strongly. So, I terminated her. She worked at my home not more than 1 week. I really hate this agency very very much! I remember that the sales lady's name is 'ANNIE LEE'.

4th time -- I employed Indonesia maid. Actually at the beginning I and my husband want to employ Filipino, but the agency is very hard sales. They suggest me to employ Indonesia maid and they said that their quality of Indonesia maid is very well and know how to speak English. So, I and my husband believed them and chosed one of them. However, she didn't have common knowledge about cleaning, cooking and taking care of children, moreover, her month also had unacceptable bad smell as well.
I taught her and scolded her always. Furthermore, one day she held a knife to suicided suddenly. So, I terminated her. She worked at my home one and half months only.

5th time -- I employed Filipino maid who just arrived at my home. I cannot say that she is good. But, it's ok so far.


Good Luck!
Sandy


大宅

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發表於 04-9-9 11:47 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

sandy,

你的故事可以寫成一本書了

你的運氣還真是不太好

我呢?

只能希望

這次是好的


大宅

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發表於 04-9-9 15:44 |只看該作者

Re: 是否應該換工人???? 請給意見!!

Carson_mum,

要換一個新的工人係好煩, 但如果你同佢續約即係代表你接受(縱容) 佢煲電話粥, 你相信或祈望佢會改善嗎? 請勿一廂情願; 同佢續約你就無機會請一個好的; 佢點會慘, 我諗你續約後俾佢激到仲慘.

唔駛擔心, 小朋友係好易適應環境.

KooKuKooKu :pint:

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