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klinglee

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工人拍拖激死人

我印尼工人到明年三月便滿四年合約, 我囡囡出生時她剛到.一向都很好, 她與囡囡很好, 她亦很痛愛囡囡, 囡囡見她的時間比我更多. 我們出外旅行也放心他們自己在家中幾天. 什麼都沒問題. 每月只放假兩個星期日. 但暑假開始發現她拍拖...問題就開始了.
我囡囡玩學前班, 她有多次遲到. 做家務也沒有以前的好. 借意到樓取東西或給別人幫忙. 在家不停講電話, 我們在家中時也一樣, 在洗手間清潔也好, 廚房煮飯或清潔也好, 在房中摺熨也好, 她都用免提手電講電話. 有一次在晚上12:30還接到他男友電話, 在我指責他不應致電我家, 他仍一點歉意都沒有還說他只是打她手電, 我責罵他後便掛斷了. 早上再罵工人, 現在看見工人是怕我, 但她那印度藉男友似乎不理會我們, 還不停致電(我家及手電)給她.
我們出街的話, 他的電話追魂也不停. 工人有時還會接聽, 縱使不聽, 一餐飯的時間也可有十多個missed call.
請問大家會怎麼辦??

俯首甘為孺子牛 :roll:

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tweetybird

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發表於 04-9-13 18:17 |只看該作者

Re: 工人拍拖激死人

KLINGLEE

坦白講，我真的接受唔到她的改變...

拍拖無罪，不過影響到我個女及家庭就有問題了。

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淑筠媽咪

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發表於 04-9-13 21:14 |只看該作者

Re: 工人拍拖激死人

我以前個工人都係咁.最後炒左收場.一句講晒,戀愛大過天.冇得救.

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clma

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發表於 04-9-13 21:16 |只看該作者

Re: 工人拍拖激死人

I'll fry her if the situation still not improve.

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bb女

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發表於 04-9-13 22:22 |只看該作者

Re: 工人拍拖激死人

klinglee:

你的case 令我想起我的第一個工人，又係同你果個一樣，拍拖！不過佢仲攪野，係只靠電話傳情！

我個印又係湊開我個大女，因見囡囡很跟佢，而那時我又快生第二胎，便與她續約。怎料續約之後便越來越懶，家務開始馬虎。後來又同一個在印尼的男仔開始拍拖，晚晚靠煲電話粥到三更半夜。不過那時囡囡跟我訓，所以未有大問題出現。

細囝出世後，只見印印拍拖拍到神不守舍，同佢講野都不會即時應; 印印同囝囝一間房，半夜囝囝喊要食奶，佢訓到拍扁鼻，我係隔離房醒左佢都未醒！同囝囝換片，褲都未整理好 (露出兩隻脾脾，時值12月)，佢就走去掉包片！

煮飯比我個女食，肉都無！我問佢，黑起口面唔理我！我發火，問佢係咪想唔做，佢先同我道歉，但第二日就向我辭職....詳情不盡錄。佢終於返左印尼，好似結婚o卦.....

我個印印越洋談情都攪成咁，你呢個....如果你話佢唔聽，你好自為之。

bb女 = 恩祺媽 :-)

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funnymama

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發表於 04-9-13 22:42 |只看該作者

Re: 工人拍拖激死人

for the safty of your child, ask her to go home la.

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Smarties

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Re: 工人拍拖激死人

klinglee:
正如twins都唱"戀愛大過天", 既然還有半年約滿, 不如早早密識新工人,之後炒她, 自己都曾經戀愛過, 有時真的會失控, 何況你有2個寶貝在她手! 還有, 我提意你向電話公司申請個call-in 密碼, (即打電話後key in 密碼才接通) 好似只是$5 or $10 / month 服務費, 有時我印印的朋友打好多電話, 我便activate 咗, 雖然我們不在家她會打電話出去, 但至少她的friends 不能隨便和半夜打嚟. agent 話如果她家鄉有事急call, 可以經agent 公司聯絡她!　Good Luck
smarties

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東東媽咪

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發表於 04-9-14 08:34 |只看該作者

Re: 工人拍拖激死人

This is what the problem I'm now facing too, but I have no money to terminate my maid, too bad.

I warned already and hope she will improve her performance.

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kooku2004

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發表於 04-9-14 12:22 |只看該作者

Re: 工人拍拖激死人

佢咁多電話傾, 係你面前都係咁就即係唔俾面你唔尊重你仲駁你咀;

你俾佢好正式的口頭或書面警告, 如仍冇改善就換人啦, 可必忍佢.

KooKuKooKu :pint:

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klinglee

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Re: 工人拍拖激死人

多謝大家的意見, 似乎大家的做法都是讓她離開. 但我女與她感情很好, 好像我女今早發燒,她要姐姐抱她, 還要我返工, 姐姐對她亦很痛愛. 我工人有時比我還要緊張... 我又新姐姐沒有那麼錫她, 因我都很依賴工人照顧囡囡.
我工人給我罵完是有明顯改變, 當然不及之前. 電話少了, 最近無故要落樓下亦沒有. 我有問過她是否要跟她男友而不再工作, 她又說不會跟他. 其實他們很奇怪的, 她男友主要講英文, 我工人又不懂英文, 早期是說跟他學英文, 最終兩人是用廣東話遘通.
如要換了她, 我又考慮怎樣安排...到滿約才讓她走. 或是開始密識新工人盡快換了她...她那個男朋友是在香港的, 又知我們住那屋苑, 我女又好像與他很熟, 如要她回印尼, 又不知有什麼後遺症.

俯首甘為孺子牛 :roll:

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ahlui222

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Re: 工人拍拖激死人

In fact, if she has her love life is not a great problem unless it will infect her performance. The main point is if she gets pregnancy, that will be a big big big problem. in such case, I would suggest you better fire her and change to another one.

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funnymama

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發表於 04-9-14 16:50 |只看該作者

Re: 工人拍拖激死人

Maybe I'm wrong but I always think the worst case first, how I scare is:

- The Indian or Pakistan who stay at HK are very clever, do you know what will they do in your house after you go to work? Maybe nothing but if they kiss each other in front of your child, do you want them to see it? If you said your daughter seems know him, that's mean..............????

- Don't get me wrong, I have many Indian friends, I don't hate other countries people.

- I think "short pain better the long pain" ?-(

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發表於 04-9-14 17:58 |只看該作者

Re: 工人拍拖激死人

如果那個男人常來電，有可能你個女會同佢傾過電話 (希有你工人無試過帶埋你個女去見男友)，咁你個女同個男人好似好熟都唔出奇。

我個女都成日提住而家個印印d friends 個名，因為個印印有時同friends 傾電話，會比我個女一齊聽.....

你記住教你個女唔好將屋企d 野、父母o既資料、屋企幾時無人....etc 話比個男人聽....防人之心不可無！

bb女 = 恩祺媽 :-)

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auntie1234

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發表於 04-9-14 18:01 |只看該作者

Re: 工人拍拖激死人

睇怕攝錄屋企都唔少得

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lilyma

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發表於 04-9-14 22:27 |只看該作者

Re: 工人拍拖激死人

klinglee,

I think you should fire your maid. First, her job performance is affected. Secondly, it seems that your daughter is familiar with your maid's boyfriend. It may be because your daughter has talked to her on the phone or even your maid lets him come to your home after you go to work!!! I have no race discrimination but it is true that some of the pakistan or indian men try to find domestic maids as girlfriends just because those girls have money and they are lonely. You don't know whether these men are good or bad guys and whether there will be any potential danger to your family especially your girl and of course, you won't want to find out one day your maid has brought back some sexually transmitted disease. Be careful!!!

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funnymama

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發表於 04-9-15 01:22 |只看該作者

Re: 工人拍拖激死人

lilyma 寫道:
klinglee,

I think you should fire your maid. First, her job performance is affected. Secondly, it seems that your daughter is familiar with your maid's boyfriend. It may be because your daughter has talked to her on the phone or even your maid lets him come to your home after you go to work!!! I have no race discrimination but it is true that some of the pakistan or indian men try to find domestic maids as girlfriends just because those girls have money and they are lonely. You don't know whether these men are good or bad guys and whether there will be any potential danger to your family especially your girl and of course, you won't want to find out one day your maid has brought back some sexually transmitted disease. Be careful!!!

100% agree!