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Fishlo


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而家好怕同亞女出街食飯, 因為佢只肯坐一陣, 走要去呢到去個到, 吾比就喊, 唉, 咁樣啲人又眼望望, 自己都吾好意思! 就算比其他野引誘佢, 都係3分鐘熱度, 跟住又發作, 最後都敵吾過佢嘅眼淚同叫聲, 帯佢出去!
長此落去, 我地真係吾想同佢出街!
我諗住如果下次再係咁, 抱佢去洗手間教訓佢一餐, 跟住出番餐廳, 如果佢再嘈, 再入洗手間多一次, 直至成功為止.
因為我寧願犧牲我嘅食野時間, 但都吾想屈服於佢嘅喊功., 等佢為所欲為.
各位靚媽, 你地有冇其他好嘅方法指教下, 謝謝!
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如果平時有用SUPERNANNY教O既方法控制脾氣, 同埋建立關係, 應該出街都會好聽話

O岩O岩先睇完NOW TV 英國版, 一個兩歲小朋友出街食飯出現好大問題...在家學習控制脾氣後, 家庭變得開心好多...一年半後再追訪, 父母積極用SUPERNANNY教O既方法後, 同小朋友出街食飯完全沒問題

[ 本帖最後由 pyjess 於 09-9-2 10:08 編輯 ]
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原帖由 pyjess 於 09-8-31 23:56 發表
如果平時有用SUPERNANNY教O既方法控制脾氣, 同埋建立關係, 應該出街都會好聽話

O岩O岩先睇完NOW TV 英國版, 一個兩歲小朋友出街食飯出現好大問題...在家學習控制脾氣後, 家庭變得開心好多...一年半後再追訪, 父母益 ...


請問有無邊度可以睇番呀???
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O岩O岩今個星期播, 你有無NOW TV?


原帖由 COE1205 於 09-9-1 00:27 發表


請問有無邊度可以睇番呀???

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咁平時佢係屋企食飯係點架?
如果係屋企食飯係識得坐定定既...出街應該唔會咁..
我仔由細到大都有教坐定定食飯..so佢出街一直都好乖..直到佢d堂弟出現...歲幾就周圍行..父母唔理..我仔見到又要跟住去 好彩平日我地自己出街食飯佢唔會話要落地...只有同爺爺食飯,見到d堂弟先會咁...

我覺得抱佢入廁所..訓話都ok..試多幾次佢可能就識得乖
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原帖由 pyjess 於 09-9-1 00:34 發表
O岩O岩今個星期播, 你有無NOW TV?


My son is now 14 mths. He also has the same problem when we go out for lunch. He always scream for food when we enjoy the meal even he is already full. I find that he just want us to pay attention to him by feeding him. Since I am not living in HK, I don't have "Now TV". Do u think that I can watch it at internet? Or would u mind describle the solution for us. Many thx!
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when you eat, don't just let him sit there, give him something to play with or prepare some finger food to nipple on (yes, even if he's full) .... then once in a while give him somthing from your plate, then he will be very happy.




原帖由 MicMicMandy 於 09-9-1 19:23 發表


My son is now 14 mths. He also has the same problem when we go out for lunch. He always scream for food when we enjoy the meal even he is already full. I find that he just want us to pay attention t ...
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"Family routine" for setting timetable for the family to prevent losing temper
http://www.supernanny.co.uk/Advice/-/Parenting-Skills/-/Routine-and-Teamwork/Family-Routine.aspx

"Household rules" to set rules that the whole family should follow
http://www.supernanny.co.uk/Advice/-/Parenting-Skills/-/Discipline-and-Reward/House-Rules.aspx

"The involvement techiques" to give responsibilities to her that make him/her to be your "helper"
http://www.supernanny.co.uk/Advice/-/Parenting-Skills/-/Routine-and-Teamwork/The-Involvement-Technique.aspx

"One to one bonding"
http://www.supernanny.co.uk/Advice/-/Parenting-Skills/-/Routine-and-Teamwork/One-to-One-Bonding.aspx

For child aged 2 or below, remember to praise him/her with high tone, exaggerate facial expression and body language cos child is too younger to understand your "words". You can always find chances to praise him/her, eg. he/she keep silent and play on his/her own.

Naughty mat
http://www.supernanny.co.uk/Advice/-/Parenting-Skills/-/Discipline-and-Reward/The-Naughty-Mat.aspx
This skill is not suitable for child aged under 18 months unless your child can communicate effectively. However, i think it is quite good to learn how to warn your child and how to get your child involved when you are shopping or dinning outside.

Some of the above skills are demonstrated here
http://www.supernanny.co.uk/TV-Show.aspx
or you may buy her book "Supernanny" and "Ask supernanny"

If you can control temper of your child at home, you will find he/she is easily under control when you are shopping or having dinner with him/her.

Even if you do not have "Now TV", if any TV programe provider offer you the channel of "BBC - lifestyle", you can watch it. The same episode is repeated for serve times during a week.

If you (or your friend) don't have BBC - lifestyle now, i think you'd better NOT to instal for only watching the episode I recommended. But if you want to reinforce your understanding of techiques, you may.

Don't just keep your BB there when he/she finished his/her meal cos his/her can pay attention for only 1~2 minutes. Talk to him/her or let him/her to play.
原帖由 MicMicMandy 於 09-9-1 19:23 發表


My son is now 14 mths. He also has the same problem when we go out for lunch. He always scream for food when we enjoy the meal even he is already full. I find that he just want us to pay attention t ...

[ 本帖最後由 pyjess 於 09-9-2 10:06 編輯 ]
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咁你就衰咗la. how old is your daughter? 如佢 is old enough to understand, 你可以同佢講, 唔坐好/再喊就返屋企, 到佢喊時咁你真係要返屋企先得喎. 試得幾次就得gar la.

我諗抱佢去toilet 唔係幾好, 你抱佢行嚟行去咁其實佢要離座嘅目的己達到la.

之不過你去边到食嘢先? 我早一, 二年帶住ah 仔就只去過可以速戰速決嘅快歺店& 茶歺廳食野.



原帖由 Fishlo 於 09-8-31 17:59 發表
而家好怕同亞女出街食飯, 因為佢只肯坐一陣, 走要去呢到去個到, 吾比就喊, 唉, 咁樣啲人又眼望望, 自己都吾好意思! 就算比其他野引誘佢, 都係3分鐘熱度, 跟住又發作, 最後都敵吾過佢嘅眼淚同叫聲, 帯佢出去!
長此落 ...
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原帖由 pyjess 於 09-9-2 09:56 發表
"Family routine" for setting timetable for the family to prevent losing temper
http://www.supernanny.co.uk/Advice/-/Parenting-Skills/-/Routine-and-Teamwork/Family-Routine.aspx

"Household rules" to se ...


Many many thx for your your good sharing
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原帖由 chan328 於 09-9-2 09:42 發表
when you eat, don't just let him sit there, give him something to play with or prepare some finger food to nipple on (yes, even if he's full) .... then once in a while give him somthing from your plat ...


I have tried these methods during our mealtime. But he can be occupied by the toys we prepared for only 5 mins. Then he will asked for other new stuffs to play then. If no stuffs/ person can occupy him, he will shout/scream for food all the time. Both my hubby & I will be very very busy in feeding food / snack to him instead of having our meal. Once we take a break, he will shout loudly again.
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when my son did the same thing, I could only have fast food jar!!!!

By the way, did you try different restaurants? My son doesn't like noisy & crowned places.



原帖由 MicMicMandy 於 09-9-2 20:29 發表


I have tried these methods during our mealtime. But he can be occupied by the toys we prepared for only 5 mins. Then he will asked for other new stuffs to play then. If no stuffs/ person can occupy ...
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試過攞其他野 (食物, 玩具)比佢, 只係ok一陣又要其他野.

係呀, 佢都吾like逼及嘈嘅地方.

其實佢係屋企食粥可以坐係high-chair到架, 不過有時要用書及其他野吸引佢囉.

真係好煩呀!
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發表於 09-9-3 14:19 |只看該作者
由BB開始就訓練食飯唔可以落地,出街食飯亦一樣.只要一次都吾比,佢就吾會要求落地,就算見到其他細路落地玩,亦表明呢種行為不對,堅持吾比落地,久而久之佢會習慣。
全世界都在看你家的笑話，騙不過天地，沒不了良心。即管繼續下去，總有一天自己受！
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我個女一模一樣, 佢依家 14個月大, 係屋企食飯, 一開始食已經頭擰擰, 所以姐姐就比玩具, 比書, 黎氹佢, 久而久之, 亞女慣o左, 一坐係張hair chair 食飯, 就已經手指指, 要呢樣, 要果樣, 但係佢又麻煩. 玩厭呢樣又要第二樣. 一扭計就唔食. 好鬼 c 煩. 出街食更煩. 我通常會煲定粥仔出街, 佢就坐係bb櫈度, 佢一坐底, 我就會將貼近佢o既碗, 筷, spoon 等搬走, 佢好手快, 一見到就攞. 食食下仲要成個企係度.

唉!! 好煩. 係一秒都坐唔定. 輪到佢食完, 到我食o既時侯, 佢就扭計, 唔肯自己坐係度玩.

唔知有乜計.
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