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Do you let your maid take afternoon nap? [複製鏈接]

c-wong

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發表於 09-3-2 16:20 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

My maid takes 2 hrs afternoon nap almost everyday.

When my new born baby was before 3 mths old, BB had to drink night milk 1-2 times, so I allow her to take nap in the afternoon to ensure she has enough sleep. Now she still takes afternoon nap with baby even though bb does not drink night milk.

She spends the whole morning doing cleanup, washing clothes and ironing clothes. She actually finishes her work before 2pm so she has plenty of time to rest.

What can I do to stop her taking so much rest time?

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nap ok but not so long

Me 2, mine will take nap especially she needed to take care of my baby. Now, my baby became about 2. I know she also take nap with my baby but not so long about 1 hour. Just ask her to do more...prepare the dinner, needle work, ironing, clean toy etc...But it is easier for me as my daughter sleep v. less daytime. My maid has no choice to nap long....I also wonder how to better use my maid after my daughter go to nursery. Cos, she will have much more free time la????

原帖由 c-wong 於 09-3-2 16:20 發表
My maid takes 2 hrs afternoon nap almost everyday.

When my new born baby was before 3 mths old, BB had to drink night milk 1-2 times, so I allow her to take nap in the afternoon to ensure she has eno ...

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assign a regular cleaning schedule to her for cleaning different areas in order to keep her busy. Tell her that you will do spot check.

Tell them to go to bed earlier instead of staying on the phone for long time at night.

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c-wong

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發表於 09-3-4 00:17 |只看該作者

whenever i asked her to clean smthn, she wld reply 'clean jor la'.

she's currently washing the car only once 1-2 weeks. I will ask her to wash it 3-4 times a week and will get her to go the wet mkt to buy grocery but limit her to come back in 1.5 hrs. A few mths ago, she bot grocery for me but came back after 2-3 hours.

My maid never listens to my instructions. If I ask her to clean toys( which I think is very neccessary), she wld again reply me 'clean jor la'

If you are a full-time mum, maybe u shd consider hiring a part-time maid. i plan to hire a part-time maid to come 4-5 times a week for 4-5 hrs each just to do cleaning and cooking when my current maid leaves me.

My mum came to visit me this afternoon and saw her taking nap again (even BB was awake in her bed).

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原帖由 saiwanho 於 09-3-4 00:13 發表
assign a regular cleaning schedule to her for cleaning different areas in order to keep her busy. Tell her that you will do spot check.

Tell them to go to bed earlier instead of staying on the phone ...

she goes to bed early. after she finishes cleaning the dishes at around 8.30pm, she will take rest. I don't mind she takes rest, but not taking long hours nap. She just acts like a 'tai tai'. I'd rather her read a book beside BB when BB is sleeping.

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原帖由 c-wong 於 09-3-4 00:19 發表

she goes to bed early. after she finishes cleaning the dishes at around 8.30pm, she will take rest. I don't mind she takes rest, but not taking long hours nap. She just acts like a 'tai tai'. I'd ...

Just tell her directly that she got employed is for working, not for sleeping.

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咁鬼嘆,叫佢日日抺車啦,吾過份喎。BB醒左佢都照瞓,梗係吾得啦,照顧BB係佢既責任,你晚上已經比左足夠時間佢休息,日間你可以同佢講吾想佢NAP,得閒可以睇吓書但吾接受佢NAP。我個印都係,我2個仔返哂學,佢上午11點做完野就入房睇書,我都直接問佢,成日見到你睇書,間屋係吾係無乜野做,佢回答我:做哂啦。我話你咁得閒不如日日抺WINDOW,LAMP COVER,拖多幾次地啦。我吾知佢係吾係咁做,但我間屋真係幾乾淨,但我依然見佢成日睇書。

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原帖由 Connielai 於 09-3-4 14:03 發表
咁鬼嘆,叫佢日日抺車啦,吾過份喎。BB醒左佢都照瞓,梗係吾得啦,照顧BB係佢既責任,你晚上已經比左足夠時間佢休息,日間你可以同佢講吾想佢NAP,得閒可以睇吓書但吾接受佢NAP。我個印都係,我2個仔返哂學,佢上午11點做完野 ...

佢睇書好過傾電話啦~~

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原帖由 carmankm 於 09-3-4 15:19 發表

佢睇書好過傾電話啦~~

agreed. today i asked her to wet mkt, she came back after 2.5 hrs!! (only need 40mins to travel to +fro). i will buy grocery myself again next time.

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發表於 09-3-4 16:04 |只看該作者

睇書都ok. 瞓覺就真係唔接受, 重要你bb醒左重瞓??? 我會將佢瞓覺既時間係佢放假日扣返, 如佢一wk瞓左3hrs, 就要佢放假遲返3個鐘先出門口.

原帖由 c-wong 於 09-3-4 00:19 發表

she goes to bed early. after she finishes cleaning the dishes at around 8.30pm, she will take rest. I don't mind she takes rest, but not taking long hours nap. She just acts like a 'tai tai'. I'd ...

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其實一開始就唔駛比佢午睡, 就算半夜要餵奶, 你都唔駛開口話比佢午睡, 因為你唔叫, 佢地都會偷偷睡,總之一定有辦法搵到時間睡!! 但你比開, 宜家話唔比, 佢就會覺得你剝奪佢的權利!!!!

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原帖由 tuenmunbb 於 09-3-4 16:09 發表
其實一開始就唔駛比佢午睡, 就算半夜要餵奶, 你都唔駛開口話比佢午睡, 因為你唔叫, 佢地都會偷偷睡,總之一定有辦法搵到時間睡!! 但你比開, 宜家話唔比, 佢就會覺得你剝奪佢的權利!!!! ...

yes i agreed. so regret i asked her to take nap. because my full-time pue yuet took naps everyday too, she just followed too.

[ 本帖最後由 c-wong 於 09-3-4 16:59 編輯 ]

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原帖由 tuenmunbb 於 09-3-4 16:09 發表
其實一開始就唔駛比佢午睡, 就算半夜要餵奶, 你都唔駛開口話比佢午睡, 因為你唔叫, 佢地都會偷偷睡,總之一定有辦法搵到時間睡!! 但你比開, 宜家話唔比, 佢就會覺得你剝奪佢的權利!!!! ...

agree, though we don't ask them to have nap they will do it secretly. my present maid always escape from the camera as she said she needs to clean up our bedroom, clean the floor of the living room and prepare dinner when the baby is sleeping.

my boy will normally nap for 2 hrs, it normally takes her half an hour to clean my bedroom, may be another half an hour to clean the floor of the living room. for dinner she just need to clean the vegetable which from my observation it takes her less than 15 mins.

frankly for me i don't mind she sleeps (close her eyes) provided she sleeps next to my baby's bed. i just not happy sometimes esp when i noted from the camera that my boy kicked the quilt and the maid didn't aware of it as she disappeared.

so i will never offer her a nap, later in this aug when my boy is going to pn, she has more time to hide up, i don't mind and prepared for it as long as she takes good care of my boy when she is with him.

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c-wong

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原帖由 cowkingb 於 09-3-4 17:45 發表

frankly for me i don't mind she sleeps (close her eyes) provided she sleeps next to my baby's bed. i just not happy sometimes esp when i noted from the camera that my boy kicked the quilt and the maid didn't aware of it as she disappeared

same here! I am a full-time mum. when the maid was sleeping, i went to visit my BB who slept on the bed beside her. my BB was actually awake and kicked her blanket. this happened several times. poor little baby.

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冇錯... 所以我從來都冇同呀賓講佢可以瞓晏覺.. 屋企大巴野佢做.. 又要洗衫, 晾衫...

我哋返工都冇得瞓晏覺啦... :;pppp:

原帖由 tuenmunbb 於 09-3-4 16:09 發表
其實一開始就唔駛比佢午睡, 就算半夜要餵奶, 你都唔駛開口話比佢午睡, 因為你唔叫, 佢地都會偷偷睡,總之一定有辦法搵到時間睡!! 但你比開, 宜家話唔比, 佢就會覺得你剝奪佢的權利!!!! ...

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原帖由 LongRyan 於 09-3-4 16:04 發表
睇書都ok. 瞓覺就真係唔接受, 重要你bb醒左重瞓??? 我會將佢瞓覺既時間係佢放假日扣返, 如佢一wk瞓左3hrs, 就要佢放假遲返3個鐘先出門口.

NO, 一定吾可以比佢地看書/看報紙, 如果吾是你第時一定後悔

我之前果件垃圾bun 都係甘, 我心諗人地都要有rest time, 看一陣報紙/書都吾過份, 所以叫半默許, 最初佢係房看, 兩個小朋友係出邊打晒交, call 埋電話比我投訴, 我叫佢出返黎看住兩個小朋友, 係呀, 出返黎呀, 出返黎繼續看呀麻, 話之你兩個小朋友係甘嘈, 係甘call我, 我叫佢即刻stop 吾準再看書, 係, 無再看啦, 但企係樹一碌庶甘抗議你吾比佢看書law

之後依家我同新工人聲明, 你要看報紙/書, 吾該你做完野休息時間看, 如果比我見到你開工時間看書/報紙, 你以後就會好多時間慢慢看..........

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有呀, 因為佢夜晚同bb訓, bb半夜cry or 咳佢會起身湊下, 如佢有起身湊bb, 我會叫佢做晒d野可以 nap下. 但佢都冇nap, 只係病時試過訓覺.

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my maid has. If I didn't ask her to take a nap, she will but hiding. Recently baby always cried in night time, so I ask her to take a nap. Then she dosen't need to hide. But I hate that she's sleeping with my baby on hand.