Don't worry.
The government will make sure you and your baby have all the medical care need, food need.
Find some social worker in China Town. They will teach you how to apply all the welfare applications if your family income is below certain line.
You may still try to find some physically lite job to do. But look for good benefit one.
Do not need to go to china town to find the social worker.
If you choose to keep this pregnancy and you are not able to manage the insurance, you GYN/OB office will manage it for you, you just need to tell your OB doctor about your finanical problem. They will have the people to help you.
If you choose to give up this pregnancy after a good discussion with your husband and OB, OB will help you to get thru the process.
To remember, after this .. no matter to keep the pregnancy or not, the first thing that you and your husband, must have a good chat of Contraception. OK?
If you need more information. feel free to ask. we are here to help.
原帖由 fengbb 於 09-2-16 02:33 AM 發表
我來左美國一個月，突然發現自己又有左，加上呢排我先生D收入吾穩定，我已經有個仔就來5歲，我原本計劃去穩工，點知又有左，搞到我好頭痛。
where do u live? if you're in the bay area CA, you can call "211" (if i remember the number correctly) for assistance.
forthe private ob/gyn doctors in the silicon valley, most of themdon'teven take HMO so i don't think they can give you any infoaboutfinancial assistance, etc.
if you live in S.F., there's achinese clinic/hospital called "North East" in china town. theirservice is almost free if your income level is qualified. don't knowif i have the updated info though.
also, i heard that someasian/hispanic parents actually would like to have more kids onpurpose, becoz they can get more "subsidized" money from the government(of course, if their income level is qualified).
don't worry too much ... i think your son might appreciate to have a sibling as he grows up.
congrads...
it is a good news, I can understand that to have 2 kids, are really difficult if you don't have family/relatives around.
Like us.. even we have 99 and whole family of my husband side, none of them helps even change a diaper for my kids once.. so I pretended I had no body here.
As your husband wants this baby, have a good chat first! also, muimui 313 can give you some support, she is my soul mate.. right muimui313?
原帖由 fengbb 於 09-3-6 03:39 AM 發表
sorry 呀muimui313我收吾到你個pm，呢排我同我先生傾過，是我自己未有心理準備追第二個，他就好想要，我想我們真繫要好好d傾下。
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