Re: 我的女兒只跟工人,點算
i understand it's so hard to be a working mama.
let try this... be a full-time mama during weekends & holidays; bring her along wherever u go, feed her, dress her and even bath her. if she shows that she just want the maid to do all that things for her; do it together w/ the maid or have the maid to stand aside to assist.
go visit some parks, i don't know how old your daughter is, as if she's an infant, simply play/sing/dance in front of her to let her know that u're an interesting mama. u may also switch on the tv, hold/hug her & watch the cartoons together; she may not understand what's showing, just let those funny cartoon characters attract her and u'd better laugh w/ her while watching!
as if your daughter is around 3-5+, she may love to play the adventure utilities inside the parks, do teach & play w/ her. kids always love to show-off their parents in front of other kids, let your daughter feel proud of herself that mama & papa are around her.
bring her to library, accompany her to choose her books & read together. the central library in causeway bay even has games & computer rooms. it'll be fun for her!
see if the above work & share w/ other mamas. i can tell it works on me!
tigerboy
tigerboy - born in october 1998 - i'm proud to be his mama!