我個女都唔識講嘢,我都好擔心,我都同佢報讀了8月N1,仲係讀全日,希望咁樣迫到佢快些講嘢。她主要只講 mama ,baba,打,好似有講姐姐,因个音唔正唔肯定。但佢就識聽指示,叫佢飲水水,佢就攞杯水飲,我話去街街,佢就企响大門口等我,我話着鞋鞋襪襪去街街,佢就攞對鞋比我想我同佢着,叫佢舉手,拍掌,和問頭髮,鼻鼻、耳耳、响邊佢指到,但嘴嘴成日指了在鼻上,眼眼都未識指。我說洗白白,佢就除衫除褲,沖涼時叫佢起身及坐底可以做到。識做拜拜及飛吻動作,叫佢 kiss mama都識 kiss ,識做叫佢比個波波媽媽。大約只是識咁多咋,但佢始終都唔肯去開口講,我好 down :cry: 。平時都係菲庸湊,大都同佢講英文,佢識聽姐姐講,但自己都係冇講,只係講bb太空話,脾氣好大,佢想要的東西攞了佢就成日講 "打",仲要做埋動作打地下或梳化,仲會打人。我好驚佢有自閉傾向,加上遲講話,不過自問對佢時間唔多,兩公婆要拉揾食,加上我仲有個大仔讀二年班,放工又要跟功課,又成日要默書,攪得嚟真係對佢唔多時間。哥哥都有同妹妹玩的。我個仔以前又係好遲先講嘢,歲半都未識叫 mama ,之後又係讀 n1全日,幾个月後先至有改善,又要去語言治療,不過現在勁多嘢講和發問,讀書成績都唔錯。細妹兩歲要番去見姑娘,睇嚟都要轉介做評估見治療師。之前健康院姑娘話想bb快講話就要快安排比佢讀書,所以我希望好似大仔讀後能有改善,可以刺激到佢說話方面,有多 d 小朋友同佢玩。自己家長好難睇到佢有冇問題,而老師見得好多小朋友能分別得出,我最驚佢有自閉,如有問題老師會在番學幾个月後睇得出。我最憎個女成日發脾氣在地上典來典去,個頭又亂咁鐘,佢又唔識用說話來表達,又唔係全部聽得明白我哋講咩,我都覺得好辛苦。:cry:
I think part of the reason may cause by the "美語系統工具" coz billingual kids start talking later ga (per my son's pediatrician). However, think about that they can understand both language, how great is it!