火星撞地球means性格不合啦! Then why do you all match before ? Think again, is anything changed that cause you/him change? Can it be re-directed to a constructive future?? Any couple will have such question, is it big deal to divorce? How about seek consultant together, or even separate like friend for a short time to see again. Only with all efforts done that you/he thinks must need divorce, ie, no LOVE ANYMORE, you can consider divorice.