they never shout (according to my husband's info) my 老爺 very '就' my 奶奶, so she is very dominant (at home) 話晒事,
my 奶奶 use 粗口to shout my sister-in-law (another 新抱), very rude,(especially in front of my 4 yr old girl), but 老爺 did not stop her and still stand on her side, because he though that my sister-in-law should not had provoked my 奶奶!
佢全家個個(all men)都罵不還口 (they got used to her voice!) now, only my sister-in-law & myself are in trouble
therfore, even thou 老爺奶奶會不會經常吵架, only my 99 shout is more than enough
Whymea, could u not move out? I totally agree that the little kid suffer the most, they affect her so much that may not yet show now, but in the future. u shout she shouts, u love, she loves.
Parent are responsible to give a kid a warm family!