thanks~ i thought I was just too picky! well, I know she would be tired since I have a 2-yr and a 9 months ......plus doing housework... however, I really can't accept her lying on the playmat and just watching my BB...
my 99 sent her maid over to help when both kids are awake... however, they were "locking" my 2 years in the playpen for nearly 2 hours.......... I guess she just "release" him just an hour or 45 mins before the time I return home (as I normally arrive home on a quite steady time ).......................
your maid only need to look after one baby and still 'lock' her on the high chair all the time..... really not acceptable ...
sigh... for my case.. if only my maid alone at home with two babies (2yr and 9 months).. I think I will understand and probably won't feel upset.... But this happened on when my 99's maid is coming over to help to watch the 2-yr old bor (and my maid will take care on the 10 months or do housework)....... i really can't explain to myself what is the point for my 99's maid to come nei.. I don't expect her to come to rest / chit-chat ........ (worst of all, she always come to have her 'afternoon tea')....
when I told my 99, she thinks it's not a problem lor........................... and she thinks it's good for the maids to chit-chat...............
And even when I told my husband that his son is being 'lock' in the playpen for nearly 2 hours .. he said 'as long as he is playing happily in the playpen by himself.. it's better to let him out and got accident"................. ?? I really have nothing to say to him anymore lu
"攤係張梳化床度 "?? totally unacceptable ar..... my current maid can't sit on the sofa...
I told my maid that I don't like her lying on the playmat the other night la.. I said she can sit to play with / watch my baby .. but please no lying down.... luckily.. she reacted ok and accept.