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發表於 04-12-1 12:16 |只看該作者

Re: Any positive case about Bun Bun ?

My bun is quite good in taking care of my babay (10 months). She can take care of him independently and have good sense on the needs of my baby (e.g. whether he is hungry, sleepy or wants to stool) and home safety. However, she is a bit picky on eating and does not respect my mother-in-law.

In general, she is fine and can fulfill our needs on taking good care of the baby. However, she is leaving us for a new contract abroad and I am waiting for a new bun to come.

Good luck to me!!

Time flies, my kids are 12 and 10 years old now

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發表於 04-12-1 12:52 |只看該作者

Re: Any positive case about Bun Bun ?

My maid is good! :wink: We treat her like a family member. She care of my baby & us.
1) My husband need to work on sunday and my maid always consider I am the only one who take care the baby, that's why most of the time she go out quite late (10:00 am - 1:00 pm) and sometime even prefer to go out with me on her holiday.
2) she is independent and mature.
3) Always give me advise for how to take care my baby as I do not have the experience.
4) When go supermarket & wet market she will choose the bargin items. E.g. I buy tissue, she will say "Madam, for the one we use (not for wipe the baby's face) choose this cheaper brand is OK La, no need to buy this one, it is quite expensive."

I told her a maid win the Mark Six in HK. She said" If for me, I will help you. I will give you 1million, so you can resign and take care the baby. Yes, if you never employ me I won't have the choice Ma."

My maid always said the thinking from her and her friends is they don't mind to have a lot of things to do but they hope the employer can treat them as a "human".

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發表於 04-12-1 13:06 |只看該作者

Re: Any positive case about Bun Bun ?

milka, your maid is so good!!!!!! better than winning the mark six la!! :mrgreen:

Time flies, my kids are 12 and 10 years old now

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發表於 04-12-1 13:44 |只看該作者

Re: Any positive case about Bun Bun ?

my maid is also good too. she is here only for a month. but i can tell she is a good person.. she've been working in hk for 5 yrs before. . anyway,, i will be going to work next week. she needs to take care of my BB ( 21 months) and the house.. Well. she is doing good . . she can cook very well.. and my in-laws loves her food too.. she manages the housework very professional ( i should said) coz.. i don't need to teach her anything. she knew already..
my baby also ok with her now.
the best thing of her is i don't need to tell her what to cook.. she can prepare a nice dinner or lunch for us ..and soup too..

my sweet one is now N1

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發表於 04-12-1 13:57 |只看該作者

Re: Any positive case about Bun Bun ?

ahgooma,
I feel myself also lucky but I really treat her good. Sometimes I think if the employer expecting their maids not to long face to them but they always shouted them and very eazy to get mad with them(before they ask why they did something wrong), how can the maid come to them with a smiling face? If the maid always smile to a employer who treat them bad, do you think that is quite horrible? (She might prepare the "

eriod/"M" soup for you!!! :mrgreen: )

I wish you can employ a good maid too!

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發表於 04-12-1 14:16 |只看該作者

Re: Any positive case about Bun Bun ?

milka,

Thanks for your sharing. I think I am a good mum. I never scold or shout at my maid. When she does something wrong, I explain to her and tell her my requirement. I also respect and treat her well.

I totally agree that a bad mum will not have a good maid and vice versa. So hope both of us will have good maid(s)!

Time flies, my kids are 12 and 10 years old now

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發表於 04-12-1 14:24 |只看該作者

Re: Any positive case about Bun Bun ?

nwmfs,
I remember the time when my maid just came. I saw her hide inside her room and cry for two times. It is quite usual to happen as they are far away from their families. I don't know how you are going to handle this?
1) ingore her (some people thinks talk to them will spoul the maid - they said " what if she cry and cry again later?)
2)comfort her?
For me I choose 2. I comfort her and encourage her by told her" she are a great mom, you choose the correct things to do for your kids and your family, you work hard for few years and you can improve a lot for your family's living standard and you can even send your kids to study in U and become a well educated people, next day they can have a nice job." Then she become Ok and stop cry.
My thinking is if I never care her feeling how can I expect she will care of my baby next day?
Sorry for write so many opinions here!

Hope you hire a good maid who will love your family and your baby! :wink:

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發表於 04-12-1 14:39 |只看該作者

Re: Any positive case about Bun Bun ?

ahgooma,
Sure you are a good madam :wink: ! I also hope our maids are good and work happily in our home.

Your Son is very cute! wa! He can do so many things as he is 10 mos. I hope my girl can be also so smart when she is 10 mos!

May God bless you, your family and your maid! :wink:

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