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洋房

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發表於 04-12-12 01:53 |只看該作者

都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

我請這個印印已經有八個月(第一個),我覺得印印冇問題,問題在我是與我媽媽一齊住,而我媽咪係一位好小事都攪都好大件事的老人家,其實請工人係因為我生左BB,希望工人可以幫輕佢,而我平日又要反工,所以就搵左個印印打掃家庭及睇BB,初頭幾個月佢地相處得幾好同對BB都好好及BB又跟印印,但後來因為一D小問題而攪都我同媽咪不和,但我又問過其他人及家人都應為印印冇錯指是我媽咪針對印印,攪到我唔知應否抄印印好?
請問有冇人發生過這個問題呢!請比下意見我! ? ?-( ?-(


別墅

積分: 703


2#
發表於 04-12-13 23:01 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

我可能就係你媽咪的角色。我覺得炒會好o的,之前我個印印做o左兩個半月,我發覺佢好多野好唔掂,我同老公講:佢成日講電話講到好夜(我老公話我專制),我同我媽講:佢做唔切o的o野又湊唔掂亞B(我亞媽話我:比著你,你都可能攪唔掂,做人唔好要求到錦盡)。我好唔開心,好多好多次因為o的小事比老公同媽咪話我太針對佢,但有o的o野係我先知,係佢o地無細心留意到。
後來我炒o左佢,再請o左個新o既,新工人好掂,又湊得BB好有聽話兼好勤力,對比起舊工人好好多,錦樣我老公同我媽先知其實我o的投訴係o岩。況且無謂要一個外人而令屋企人唔開心,不過都要同你媽咪講清楚再請下一個就改變一下。


洋房

積分: 35


3#
發表於 04-12-14 00:38 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

其實個工人做野OK及湊BB又湊得好,所以攪到我好煩惱,最重要係我媽咪D皮氣,就算再換個工人,我怕會差過現時一個。


別墅

積分: 703


4#
發表於 04-12-14 00:52 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

如果唔想炒,米叫工人做咩都同你單聲,到時亞媽話佢,就話係太太叫錦做。比你媽咪知道工人係好乖聽你講去做,有咩米叫媽咪同你講,唔好同工人拗,我媽就係錦,就算見到有做發不對都由我去講,免得工人都唔知聽邊個話好。

我之前個工人就好鬼古惑,知我媽好人,就成日賣口乖,仲同佢鑿話自己身世好可憐等我媽可憐佢,等我媽成日話我! :evil: 後來先知佢係大話精!!!

你同工人做下心理溝通咯,同佢講再激親婆婆就要被迫炒佢,等佢自己o念下計仔同婆婆好o的。。。


洋房

積分: 35


5#
發表於 04-12-16 01:30 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

其實最大問題係我媽咪對任何事都好執著又放唔底,又要樣樣理攪到好唔開心又要收埋唔講,到最後就炮轟,令我地後生更加煩腦,佢又唔念下我請個工人返離到係唔想佢辛苦,佢地後生時辛苦過,到老我都係想生活得開心,其他事就由我地後生做,但我媽咪好攪笑,之前又話做唔到幾多又要我請工人,而家又叫我炒左個工人由佢離睇番BB,唔好再請工人,佢又有冇念過我地屋企打掃及每晚餐飯有冇人攪,而我就唔想要我媽咪好似工人錦


別墅

積分: 981


6#
發表於 04-12-16 13:35 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

我都係有同樣的煩腦,
工人錯下錯下, 做下做下都有一年多, 我都唔知佢好唔好, 大家比些意見我啦 !! 續唔續約好 ?
1) 佢做野慢,
2) 有時會博咀, 但佢話唔知甘講原來係博咀, 佢好無記性, 轉頭就唔記得
3) 有時佢好關心我地
4) 佢都好緊張BB, 但自已總係常常不少心
例如 : 有一次佢可能取錯水給BB開奶, 我估是用左洗奶樽的水, 好彩BB 都無咪野, 真比佢激死,

有時佢激到我和我老公好嬲, 想即刻炒佢, 佢叫我幫佢, 比機會佢, 因佢有3 個子女, 我BB都鍾意佢, 跟佢, 所以怕BB (16個月大) 唔鍾意新工人, 我要傱新甘教過新工人.

大家比些意見我啦 !!




別墅

積分: 703


7#
發表於 04-12-16 15:40 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

唔好都對o左成年,證明佢無咩好大過錯比機會你炒佢,但又未有心去改,做好些,不如等個機會出封信警告下佢,話佢知再唔改就會炒佢,但都想佢會做好o的,做落去,等佢驚下,改正下。


複式洋房

積分: 397


8#
發表於 04-12-16 19:46 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

Don't fire if the Bun is ok or acceptable.

I have a similar experience. Some of my-in-laws do not like my maid (however, we ranked her ok and she loves my son very much). So, when contract expired, we got a new one. The new one was so terrible, misused and broken a lot of things, more important was that she hurt my son (a four years old boy and finally went into the hospital). At last, we were not able to tolerate, we terminated her and asked the old one to come back to work for us (we decided to ignore all-in-laws). With these changes, not only that there were physically damaged to my belongings, my son, we also used up all our vacations and have to pay an extra $10,000 if we have not changed our maid...

So, think, think and think very carefully. A new one may not be good. A new new one may even worse. How many maids can you afford to change in order to get a good one ? If you have luck, time and money, you may try. I will never do that from my experiance.

If you problem to convince your second half, PM me and let me talk to him


洋房

積分: 35


9#
發表於 04-12-19 01:01 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

我BB終於返返屋企啦!之前比我媽咪帶走左攪到我同老公每日朝早走去見BB,好在係同住一區如唔同區,可能要等放假先見到BB一次。初初BB返到屋企時見到工人有D唔鍾意,但過多一會BB又開始同以前一樣,反而我覺得比婆婆揍BB皮氣差D(動不動就哭),可能我媽咪太就佢。
其實我宜家都好放心比工人揍,因為我裝左個CAM可以起公司電腦用IP見到工人及BB,這樣就唔怕工人對BB唔好。


洋房

積分: 192


10#
發表於 04-12-20 00:00 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

If you trust your helper, why don't you let her stay in your home with baby and ask your mom to visit your baby sometimes. Does it work?


洋房

積分: 35


11#
發表於 04-12-20 01:46 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

我覺得而家星期日帶BB去見婆婆及公公比佢地揍一日,反而佢地冇今多野投訴,可能見唔到工人啦,其實最大原因係我媽咪唔想我請工人,而由佢離揍BB,但係我又接受唔到佢地老一背的揍仔方式(成日講以前)攪到我到唔知點同佢地講好,又怕令佢地唔開心,但到了現時教導細路已經唔同啦,佢地成日用舊時點......所以我發覺佢地睇唔到我地什對BB方式反而係好家,但如果有D老人家樣樣睇開D就唔會好似我而家錦 :-| :-|


洋房

積分: 192


12#
發表於 04-12-21 00:10 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

講起老人家揍細路,我有日見到個3歲左右BB女起宜家玩波波池,BB女唔小心撞咗個頭落個滑梯,佢左額即刻蹱咗個留,跟住個婆婆立即除咗只涼鞋,用個鞋底個踭係咁初個B女個留,一路初一路望住我同另外一個媽咪講,咁樣初,個留好快好番,仲好快會唔痛,睇到我同另外一個媽咪眼都定埋


大宅

積分: 1150


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發表於 04-12-21 00:30 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

我都有遇到印印唔聽話成日駁我媽媽咀,做錯嘢唔認錯又講大話,將D工作拖慢幾十拍黎做,後來我裝部針機裝佢,佢居然係我唔係屋企時用掃把掃阿囡張BB食飯枱,又經常開密路電視睇我哋幾時返...估估惑惑D衰嘢多到數唔晒...每日放工或打電話返屋企阿媽實有投訴...我阿囡唔跟佢話佢對佢唔好,我一早就知因印印冇心機帶細路仔又成日借D意整鬼阿囡...我都好唔想用佢,但呢個係第三個工人而且就到新年多一個人多一對手,佢黎左得五個月教極都左耳入右耳出,當我講嘢係唱歌,對住佢都好激氣..但阿媽重激氣過我,所以有又煩冇又煩,如果你係我炒唔炒佢好呢???
:-P


複式洋房

積分: 380


14#
發表於 04-12-21 10:09 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

Hi,

I also have the exactly same problem with yours. My maid is a Philipino. I used her for more than 1.2 year. The main problem is that she has trouble to get along with my mother who is a very strict and fussy person. At the beginning, we tolerate the maid because she can take care of my child and do the household. Her advantage is cleaver and fast and make sense. Disadvantage is that she is NOT SELF-DISCIPLINE, lazy, not respect to us/my mother and make lot of phone calls. My mother hate her very very much and keep complianing during the year. She always asked me to fire the maid eventhough I warned thousand of times the risk of getting a new maid. However, she still not understand.

Now I decided to change my maid as her performance is worse than before and exceed my bottom line. My point is , this is my first maid which I don't know how to set rules and I want to settle my mother (as she made me headache every conversation). So now, I'm not in rush , but I will keep looking for a good maid . I think it depends whether you have time to look for a new one. Of course there is a risk, but if you choose carefully, it can reduce the risk. I interview carefully with the new maid who is finished contract and have good recommendation from previous employer. It's not easy, I met over 15 maid who still cannot meet my requirement. There is almost one candidate who is ok but she is immediately hired by another employer. But doesn't matter, if we have patient and time, I wil keep looking for a good one. At the end, it still depends on your LUCK.


複式洋房

積分: 332


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發表於 04-12-21 11:09 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

e_jj,
我覺得你應該即刻炒咗你個工人. 離晒譜, 用掃把掃阿囡張BB食飯枱. 呢樣野我絶對唔可以容忍.


大宅

積分: 1150


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發表於 04-12-21 13:46 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

本來即刻炒佢架,同Agent講agent叫我一個月通知係果一個月內當Warning佢唔會搞搞震,係印印面前就叫佢比心機做,如果我地唔用佢幫佢過新僱主,但係果一刻我嬲到上勞工處連一個月都唔比佢留係香港,可惜勞工處幫佢地幫到出面,話佢地可以話係印尼係咁掃地都可以做借口,重有印印可以告反我侵犯私人,agent又嚇我(因我一個月放兩日假)印印會告我,後來我先生比啲時間佢....呢件事係兩個月前發生,而家佢又開始唔係好聽話啦...等過完年先再睇下點.....
:-P


洋房

積分: 192


17#
發表於 04-12-22 23:28 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

e_jj

Ask your helper to sign two letters 1) warning letter 2) one month notice; and tell her if her performance could not meet your standard then she would be fired.

Secondly, does she need to sign for her leave day? If not, prepare a leave day sheet and marked down the date that you had given her the day off and asked her to sign (remember to write down 1 day for a week) You better ask someone to translate the english works into indonesia charactors. So, she could not make an excuse for "I don't understand". After you prepare everything, if your agent do not help you, you still has a better chance to win (I mean if your helper makes a complaint to labour dept.).


大宅

積分: 1150


18#
發表於 04-12-22 23:48 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

piyanmum

thank you so much
:-P


別墅

積分: 981


19#
發表於 05-1-6 13:33 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

6417
I want to know which cam you installed ar ?
Pls tell me more information la.
I'm very worry about my maid stay in home with my baby only.
[email protected]


複式洋房

積分: 336


20#
發表於 05-1-6 14:27 |只看該作者

Re: 都唔知抄唔抄印印好?

其實你可以帶你mammy去揀工人, 叫佢自己揀,
話曬你mammy对佢多d, 而且佢自己揀既,有乜唔妥佢自己都會處理, 其它做野方式都跟你mammy做好d,
咁你mammy先覺得個工人係比佢用.......
以上意見, 是聽了很多在職朋友都有此問題,
因為要返工又唔太放心只交bb比工人, 就會返工時將工人同bb帶去mammy屋企, 所以有時做事方法有所不同,,,,
其實真係同d工人相處得長時間真係好(蚊), 眼見到火都來,
眼見不到就為好,,,,,唉!

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