I do the same thing too, I always asked my daughter to say thank you to the maid. But sometimes, she's rude to the maid like she likes to put her feet on the maid's legs (when eating), I asked her don't, my maid said it's ok, she feels comfortable ma
I also require my son to be polite to my maid and if he is rude to her, I will request him to say sorry ... and of course 'thank you' is a must lar
however, sometimes, when I was telling my son to say 'thank you' / sorry .. my maid will also keep saying 'yes la.. say thank you / sorry to X 姐 la.... " <-- non-stop.... which makes me a bit annoyance... and somehow makes me don't want to insist my son la........