原帖由 mcdullyiu 於 09-7-9 09:05 發表
你選擇離婚不是你錯,
問題係你是否捨得?
你死心了嗎?
如果你未死心, 你又去攪離婚,
痛苦的會係你自己,
你會有好多問題問自己,
離婚, 係咪放左他們自由呢?
係咪比左機會他們名正言順呢?
I agree totally. Though we are separated, I won't agree to a divorce, at least not yet. Why should I let a woman who has broken my marriage unscrupulously by using her own kid, get her way? That's what she wanted all the while, use a child, get a Hong Konger to marry her so that she can live in Hong Kong and become a tai tai.
While she and her illegitimate child has a complete family, what would happen to my kids? Why should I make it easy for her?
So like you said, divorce can only be a release when you have worked through your own emotions, otherwise it will always plague you. All the whys and all the unfairness and hatred especially when there's a third party involved.
到時你仲名不正, 言不順, 想問 ...
原帖由 sin2ling 於 09-7-10 22:35 發表
但我沒做野好耐啦!聽人講拿公緩1個就1800+埋個女又1800就算夠生活費.都唔夠奶粉錢.聽人講女女仲唔可以讀全日.咁我點出去搵野做.又要供呀女保險400幾.學費全日應該1400元.....唸起呢喲種種....我想離開的決心又冇左啦 ...
原帖由 sin2ling 於 09-7-11 15:44 發表
各位頭先我打比佢我同佢講一起離婚一起同出面個女人一齊..佢叫我唔好亂唸野.我同同事飲野咋.咁我問佢番唔番屋企佢話飲得夜得濟唔返喎.(簡直.........).
我......心有少少軟化.... ...
原帖由 sin2ling 於 09-7-11 06:56 發表
元來呢個女人係舊愛.好似係第一個.係飛過我老公幾次.又傷過佢好深好深.
而家個女人被老公趕走.個女人就使她呀哥黎叫我老公去開解佢.
他呀哥明知我老公有家室都咁樣做.很明顯比機會我老公再情陷呢個女人到番唔到身.
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