I just want to know is your nana behaves like mine one? Because my nana always drive me crazy. For example:
1. keep asking us to use cotton nappies, never use the disapol one, because it will save more money. When my husband told her that we won't use the cotton nappies, then she showed a "black face" to us.
2. Always complain to my husband about how come we don't let her to hold the baby. (actually the reason for this is because we don't want to hold the baby too much, otherwise it will spoil him, and we did let her to hold the baby too)
3. Everytime when she comes to our house, she just like to complain everthing in our house.
4. Also she always give us too many suggestions of how to take care of the baby, and always want us to follow her suggestions/ rules.
In fact, we get along quite well before, but since after my baby born (he is nearly 7 weeks old now), I just don't like her, everytime I see her, I will lock myself in my room and seldom talk to her.
So I always asking myself "am I not a good daughter-in-law", and it always make me feel sad....
can anyone tell me what should I do now? :cry:
actually I am now living in New Zealand and luckily my mother and father live very near me, so my mum will come to my house very often. In fact, my mum will gives me some suggestions of how to take care of a baby too, but she will suggest it when its the right time. (my mum is a very modern mum)
And my NaNa & Lo Yeung live far away from us (about 30mins drive) and they can't drive, so we will only meet each other once a week.
As my mother's sister is a nurse in HK, so everytime my NaNa gives me some suggestions, I will say to her: "well...my auntie said its not good.......", just keep banned on her suggestion. I know she doesn't like me to say something like that (because I never follow what she says), but I don't mind at all.
So how many children have you got and how old are they? How old are you? :-P
Same as you. I got a 0411 baby son and now he is 7 weeks and 2 days old.
Yesterday, we went to my Nana's house for lunch, during our conversation we talked about the nappy, and suddenly she said "the people who likes to use disposal nappies are those people who like to spend money."
After she said that, everyone just kept silent and it seems like she didn't know she said something wrong. After awhile, she asked me and my husband stay for dinner, but I just said "NO, I need to go home"........
Am I too impoilt? Am I really bad? But I really can't stay more longer coz I don't want to hear her voice again............ :evil:
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