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zxzx

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I hate 9962 and trouble-maker 叔仔老婆 so much, what can I do?

Need to live with them later (after 3 years).

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點解3年後要一齊住??

原帖由 zxzx 於 09-6-3 17:15 發表
I hate 9962 and trouble-maker 叔仔老婆 so much, what can I do?

Need to live with them later (after 3 years).

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就用呢三年時間諗辦法唔同佢地住囉,三年諗一個完美的辦法真的足夠時間了.

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3年後既事, 邊個知呢???
話唔定, 到時係佢地唔想同你住呢??
何必忌人憂天呢????

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間屋好大架? 住到咁多人? 咩理由要一齊住?

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做咩要3年後一齊住?

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三年？
咁耐？
到時變左咩世界都冇人知啦，咁快就咁擔心！

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原帖由 060905 於 09-6-4 00:34 發表
點解3年後要一齊住??

Because 9962 will retire after 3 yrs. After 'their family meeting' (without me), they want 2 sons to live with them together. They're now living with the family of c6's brother.

Before our marriage, 9962 didn't ask for living together. So c6 and his brother each bought house. After marriage, c6's brother couldn't support his flat, so he sold his flat (earning $1m) and lived with 9962 with his wife.

But 9962 thought brother's wife was good, as she was willing to live with them wor

. From then on, 9962 hated me a lot, whatever I do/say, it's wrong.

I don't mind to live with 9962 if they treat me nice, but the reality is ...

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原帖由 Cat1218 於 09-6-4 06:50 發表
就用呢三年時間諗辦法唔同佢地住囉,三年諗一個完美的辦法真的足夠時間了.

9962 is forcing us to move overseas with them (live with them) or live with them in HK when they retire. They are control freeks.

So I need to 諗辦法 not to migrant and not to live with them. What is 完美的辦法? The 'queen and king' already made the order.:;pppp:

[ 本帖最後由 zxzx 於 09-6-4 10:52 編輯 ]

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原帖由 KiuShaBB 於 09-6-4 09:55 發表
間屋好大架? 住到咁多人? 咩理由要一齊住?

62 will buy a bigger house in the remote village (NT), but actually c6 and me just occupy one bedroom law.

理由: 9962 want to live with all sons together when they retire.

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原帖由 123!@# 於 09-6-4 09:34 發表
話唔定, 到時係佢地唔想同你住呢??

9962 mention it every time when we see them

. I feel pressure. They say this is their only wish wor.

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原帖由 irene_the_pooh 於 09-6-4 10:06 發表
三年？
咁耐？
到時變左咩世界都冇人知啦，咁快就咁擔心！

I'm so worried, because 1) 9962 treat me badly all these years, 2) I lived with them for few months after marriage (our own house was renovating). I saw and felt how bad they were to me, at that time I was glad I only lived with them temporarily

.

Every time I saw 9962, they mentioned 'living together' and said 'must plan now'.

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奇怪,佢話要移民,我就要申請嗎? 我唔可以唔申請架,我係唔簽你咬我食呀?

去到外國,你估唔洗做呀? 搵工咁易架?
唔通過去洗大餅呀?

隻62怪獸買村屋for一家人,"唔好意思,我係香港個邊返工架,交通又唔方便,治安又唔好,我係咪半夜四五點起身抄醒所有人陪我返工呀?"

理得佢哋鍾唔鍾意你者,我需要理佢哋點諗我咩? 最緊要自己鍾意就得喇~

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如果係咁, 根本唔需要理會佢囉.
你大把理由拒絕啦. 同埋, 當你同c6住埋3年以上, 基本上你c6都已經習慣1家1住.
其實講咁耐, 你c6有咩表示????

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原帖由 chowky 於 09-6-4 11:01 發表
奇怪,佢話要移民,我就要申請嗎? 我唔可以唔申請架,我係唔簽你咬我食呀?

We all came from overseas, c6 & I went to study overseas and then migrate there ourselves. 99 forced c6 to come back to hk when they returned to hk. At these years, I was separate from c6

. So I came back to HK to marry him later.

原帖由 chowky 於 09-6-4 11:01 發表
去到外國,你估唔洗做呀? 搵工咁易架? 唔通過去洗大餅呀?

That's why I don't want to go overseas, c6 will not find a job there (only I can). I don't mind to work and give c6 $$$, but a man without a job / bad jobs in long-term will create many family issues. 9962 just think about themselves after they retire, they don't think about c6's career path, they're always selfish.

原帖由 chowky 於 09-6-4 11:01 發表
隻62怪獸買村屋for一家人,"唔好意思,我係香港個邊返工架,交通又唔方便,治安又唔好, ...

No, they are control freeks, they don't care about others.

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原帖由 123!@# 於 09-6-4 11:08 發表
如果係咁, 根本唔需要理會佢囉.
你大把理由拒絕啦. 同埋, 當你同c6住埋3年以上, 基本上你c6都已經習慣1家1住.
其實講咁耐, 你c6有咩表示????

We married for 6 years already. We lived in our own house now.

C6 not knowing what to do, because 9962 and his younger brother use pressure to force him. c6 just doesn't want to live with brother's wife if possible.

Younger brother said c6 should share the family responsibility to look after 9962 (he means physically) when they retire.

We pay maintenance $$$ to 9962 now. Brother doesn't.

I think: brother just doesn't want to spend his money, so he lives with 9962 now (9962 pay for his family's expenses), it's 9962 look after his family physically and financially. It should be him and his wife to look after 9962 physically later.