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大宅

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發表於 05-1-4 18:04 |只看該作者

我個仔如果我地唔比佢做佢想做的事, 就發脾氣和哭?

越來越屝利, 鐘意去廚房,拿的危險東西, ,家人出外等,同佢好好咁講, 佢都不聴, 發完一陣脾氣才冇事, 有時我會令他轉移目標, 但不是次次得, 大家有什麼意見呢?thx


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發表於 05-1-4 19:04 |只看該作者

Re: 我個仔如果我地唔比佢做佢想做的事, 就發脾氣和哭?

I woud think it is normal that young kids love to explore and try new stuff. The problem is that they do not know what is safe or unsafe. However, I don't think stopping them to get reach of the unsafe stuff is a solution because we can never guarantee whether we can always keep a close eye on them.

I would prefer to explore the new matters with my son and tell him why I won't let him explore alone. Also, I would tell him if he wants to try anything, he should tell me first and I would arrange because it may hurt him or he cannot manage if he do it by himself.

For example, if he wants to have a look at the kitchen, I would accompany him and tell him where are the dangers and why. I would let him open the drawers to see what are inside. However, I would tell him the stove is dangerous because it may cause fire and he should not touch it.

I would repeatedly tell him crying and bad temper cannot get what he want. Speak out and I will listen. I also find that those EQ excercise books are quite useful and my son enjoys doing them with him. In fact, he treats those excercises as games.


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發表於 05-1-5 15:05 |只看該作者

Re: 我個仔如果我地唔比佢做佢想做的事, 就發脾氣和哭?

你個仔幾大呀? 如果仲細, 佢既行為(包括發脾氣和哭)好正常, 都唔明危險係點樣, 因為佢唔識用言語表達自已既心情及需要, 只好用行動law.

唔想甘樣?? 由細開始同佢講道理, 最重要係唔好期望一次或幾次就明白, 要有耐性及言行一致. 係安全既情況下, 俾佢體驗下危險係點樣............例如我囡囡一歲大時我教佢小心熱水壺同廚房爐灶, 就俾個熱水壺佢掂下(當然係熱得來唔辣手), bb掂到就好驚立即縮手, 自此之後, 再提醒bb熱熱要小心, 一講就明啦..........揍仔呢家野, 真係鬥智鬥力.....啊囡最近又俾新難題"考"我, 各位媽咪一起努力加油呀



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發表於 05-1-6 16:51 |只看該作者

Re: 我個仔如果我地唔比佢做佢想做的事, 就發脾氣和哭?

他十六個月


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發表於 05-1-7 13:53 |只看該作者

Re: 我個仔如果我地唔比佢做佢想做的事, 就發脾氣和哭?

十六個月仲細, 佢梗係咩都想摸, 想試, 一d都唔出奇, 如果我個仔要攪d危險嘢, 我都會用kikimon嘅方法, 佢試過一次就會記得唔玩得架啦!


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發表於 05-1-9 14:55 |只看該作者

Re: 我個仔如果我地唔比佢做佢想做的事, 就發脾氣和哭?

我個仔咪又係,激鬼死,每次發脾氣,就會自己講同即刻做,打人呀、食電呀、打玻璃等等......總知佢知你唔比做


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發表於 05-1-10 16:14 |只看該作者

Re: 我個仔如果我地唔比佢做佢想做的事, 就發脾氣和哭?

bbcat,

十六個月仲細, 而且好奇心係學習既動力, 保持呢份心態日後讀書學野都自動自覺d. 為此有鬼佬專家會教家長係廚房吉出個櫃, 放d安全既廚具俾bb自已去攪攪陣, 危險既廚具就收高d. 甘樣大人細路都開心, 又唔怕打擊bb天生既好奇學習動力. 我覺得呢一招都幾好架, 雖然唔可多用, 香港地寸金尺土.....



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發表於 05-1-15 16:44 |只看該作者

Re: 我個仔如果我地唔比佢做佢想做的事, 就發脾氣和哭?

唔該晒大家


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發表於 05-1-17 12:35 |只看該作者

Re: 我個仔如果我地唔比佢做佢想做的事, 就發脾氣和哭?

Hi,
我囝囝咪又係一樣,當佢想要某d東西而我地唔比佢時,佢就會扮哭(bit D 眼淚出嚟,放聲大喊),仲會發脾氣用手手拍打地下,依家有時仲打打&搣大人(好用力個隻),而我地就敎佢不可以打打同佢解釋點解唔可以touch,個陣佢都會知唔啱仲會用個頭仔"呵"番我地,真係比佢激水 我諗敎小朋友真係要有無比既耐性同愛心,同埋自己eq要高d....同佢鬥智鬥力...
大家努力
我中文名學勤,英文名係Howard,香港山頂嘉諾撒醫院面世。 27/7/2005-weight:12.9kg, height:86cm 17/9/2005 - weight:13.5kg, height:89cm 1/4/2006 - weight:14.3kg, height:93cm


大宅

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發表於 05-1-19 23:45 |只看該作者

Re: 我個仔如果我地唔比佢做佢想做的事, 就發脾氣和哭?

我個仔都係o甘,唔比佢摸佢想摸的東西,佢就大大滴眼淚,佢而家先至一歲多,真係有排攪!
HI ! 我叫MATTSON 仔,

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