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大宅

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發表於 09-8-22 02:56 |只看該作者
My maid was now on leave back to Indonesia, and booked flight to come back HK next Monday. This trip was her advanced holiday for this contract as my family just went for holiday too and so we asked her to go home as well. She'd been very good to me, my son and we liked her so much during the past 8 months, and she also know that she is important to our family and to a certain extent we have to rely on her in as I am working mom, while my family had limited backup.
This morning, I received her text message from Indonesia that she need to borrow money from me. She claimed that she had used up her saving to buy a land in Indonesia and now even don't have money to travel from her hometown to airport. She said she don't know what to do and I am the only person who can help her. She is asking for money to travel and some more said to give her parent to take care of her son. I had discussed with the agent and she said I should not lend her money, and she should be able to find some way to come back to HK. On the one hand, I worry so much that she don't come back if she said she don't have money to travel, as I really need her to take care of my son; on the other hand, I don't know what she would treat us if I don't lend her the money. Can anyone tell me what I should do? How can I have receipt of the money I send her via TT?
P.S. She had once asked me to advance payroll to her 2 months ago as her husband was in hospital, and I did give her salary earlier and deduct the month after.


男爵府

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發表於 09-8-22 05:54 |只看該作者
All the maid is like that, if you lend her money via TT, she will not come back also.
Ask her to come back on time, if she will not come back, ask her to give you resign letter. May be she will come back soon.
She is taking advantage of you, this type of maid is not good no matter what's her performance.


複式洋房

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發表於 09-8-22 07:06 |只看該作者
這種事聽過很多次了, 一定唔借得. 我個工人在我家做了4年, 大家一直相處很多開心, 我無當佢係工人, 亦再幫她續約, 打算付長期服務金. 但最近她在網上認識了一個澳洲男人, 就說要辭職去結婚. 唔理我請到另一個未. 這件事真的告訴我, 所有人都只會為自己想. 所以, 你一定不要先付薪金給她, 不是因為信佢唔過, 而是更重要是, 不應該先洗未來錢. 明知自己無錢, 都去買地. 這就是問題了. 不過, 更小心是, 如果她不回來, 你就更煩了, 又要再請人, 又唔見了一筆錢.
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男爵府

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發表於 09-8-22 09:51 |只看該作者
樓主, I think it's your first time to hire a maid? that's why she gets you in her traps once & once. She's just doing what all runaway maids will do.


民房

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發表於 09-8-22 17:25 |只看該作者
How much the maid wanted to borrow?


民房

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發表於 09-8-22 17:33 |只看該作者
How much the maid wanted to borrow?


侯爵府

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發表於 09-8-22 19:30 |只看該作者
你吾借, 都有機會返黎, 你借, 呵........佢都好大機會吾返


禁止訪問

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發表於 09-8-22 21:17 |只看該作者
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別墅

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發表於 09-8-22 23:10 |只看該作者
未走之前想借錢,走左又話無錢返嚟,仲成機要借多啲,已經係一個局.之前嘅表現係證明佢有皇牌係手,同搏你信任.send msn俾左,到時返唔到嚟就當斷約,就算返嚟都唔會做得長,搵定第二個啦,免得太遲.


大宅

積分: 2032


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發表於 09-8-23 01:33 |只看該作者
thanks everyone for the opinion.. i know what I should do..

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