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dordormom

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發表於 04-12-2 19:37 |只看該作者

Any Master Degree mom struggling to go out work again

Hello all mom,

My BB was born on Aug 18 and now is 3 and a half months old. When the time I knew I was pregnat I was looking for job but surely no employer would hire me. So now I am very eager to work again but I am so love to my daughter. I have to take care of her alone. Since she is so young, I dare not to have maid to take care of her. I am so frustrated whenever I receive phone call to ask me having job interview.

Any mom has smiliar experience to me, let's share.

Thanks,
Hey Hey mom ?-(

:lalala: :mrgreen: :-| :wink:

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ACYW

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發表於 05-1-3 16:42 |只看該作者

Re: Any Master Degree mom struggling to go out work again

Dear dordormom,

As a working mum of 2 kids, I have the same problem as same as you. My little girl born on 1 Oct 04. Now, she is almost 3 months. Also, my lovely son is 2 years and 9 months only. On the last 3 months, I was struggling wheather I should quit my job or not. If I quit now, I think that it is hard to get another job on few years later. Also, I need my husband to bear a lot of pressure that he can't lose his job. But I'm really miss them when I starts to go back to work. Therefore, I join another company and working team who can allow me to work part-time or full-time in last year.

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anna_leung

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發表於 05-1-3 18:48 |只看該作者

Re: Any Master Degree mom struggling to go out work again

Dear Dordormom,

I have had the same experience since I gave birth to my boy. My boy is 5 and half years old. I quitted my job when he was half year old...why?...I missed him everyday and I was not satisfied with my maid.

However, I always think how can I spend my life after my son grows up...maybe when he is a secondary school boy...he will not no longer require my deep care. At that time, what should I do? I can't find job easily...since I will be near 40 at that time...This matter always fill up my mind.

I sure not feel regret the decision I made 5 years before...because I really enjoy the time to be a housewife....who can teach my kid by my own.

anna_leung

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ACYW

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發表於 05-1-14 17:51 |只看該作者

Re: Any Master Degree mom struggling to go out work again

anna_leung,

age 40 will not be a problem. Its depend on whether you willing to go out to get a job again or not. Becuase I meet a lot of this age 40 women recently. Their kids growth indentpently. Now, they are working together with me..... We all feeling very happy on that. During the gathering, we always got a lot of experience to share each other.... We have a very good developed working group..... I learn a lot on the experience sharing.... so, don't be too worry. You should be fine on that day.... I hope that I can be as happy as them when my kids growth independently......

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mother904

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發表於 05-1-14 18:28 |只看該作者

Re: Any Master Degree mom struggling to go out work again

dordormom,

i share the same experience with u. I quit my job when I knew I was pregnat. After giving birth to my baby, I never think of working again as my baby was so small, and I cannot count on any full time maid to take care of her fully. Now she is almost 2 years old, and I start to think about my career again. However, after lots of interviews, I cannot find a place in any company as they all told me that I quit my job for my baby, therefore they felt that I think my baby is more important than career. Of course, I have my own requirment when I find a new job. I cannot accept to start my career all over again like young person. So I know that it is quit difficult for me to find my ideal job at this stage.

However, I never regret for my decision, as my baby is the most important people in this world for me.

日日是好日

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dordormom

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發表於 05-1-14 19:39 |只看該作者

Re: Any Master Degree mom struggling to go out work again

Thanks mother 904 of your sharing. I know that baby with age 0-3 is the most important time of them since their brain develop very fast at this stage. Surely I wish my daughter to be more independent and learning in a good condition. Though I cannot promise I can teach my daughter in a very professional way, but I beleive all mother will take her best to teach her baby in a excellent way.

My daughter is now about 5 months. She looks cute and happy when the time I be with her. She is more attach to me than the people. I will try to find job after CNY and see will God call me to work again.

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:lalala: :mrgreen: :-| :wink:

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Natmama

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發表於 05-1-17 07:11 |只看該作者

Re: Any Master Degree mom struggling to go out work again

dordormom,

i just quit my job also to take care of my bb. i'm planning to return to work when she turns 3. i plan on keeping my resume up to date by doing some part time in between, then it may be easier to catch up when i can return to work full time.

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BoBMa

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發表於 05-1-29 23:07 |只看該作者

Re: Any Master Degree mom struggling to go out work again

Same feeling and same worries

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WYmom

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發表於 05-1-30 19:10 |只看該作者

Re: Any Master Degree mom struggling to go out work again

Hi,

I have worked for many years and have quited my job when my second girl was around 1.5 years old, and now she is almost 3. I found it necessary as my elder daughter needs my help in her early primary years and my younger daughter just starts to learn a lot. I feel that in these few years my kids will need me most, and I don't want to just rely on a maid to bring my kids up. So far I enjoy very much my time with the 2 girls, they are very happy to have me taking care of them directly, and I feel so happy to see them growing up in better shapes.

I do hope to find an interesting and meaningful job again when my second girl grows larger. But same as all of you, I worry that it will be difficult to join the workforce again.

Can DuncanMaMa tell me what is the job nature of your working group? I do hope to contribute and share with a group of Mamas with similar experiences. Many thanks.