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別墅

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發表於 05-2-22 15:37 |只看該作者

越來越殘......

指的當然是我個樣...
自五個多月前開始餵母乳以來,沒有一晚是睡得安穩的。
常常都是斷斷續續地睡了四五個小時(近來更只有三小時左右),就要打起精神爬起來上班,工作時呵欠連連像‘吊白粉癮’一樣。
昨天拿起鏡子一照,驚見自己面目浮腫,眼下有不知多少條深深淺淺的紋,嘩,真的覺得自己老了好多年。
雖然如此,我從不後悔餵母乳的決定:只要BB健康快樂,做媽媽的作點犧牲也是在所不惜了!

所謂:衣帶漸寬終不悔,為B消得人憔悴啊!


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發表於 05-2-22 16:07 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

Old elephant,

i think besides you wish you have a baby
with good health, your baby and hubby also
wish they have a pretty mom and wife,
you can also refrensh yourself , like
going to do facial, hair cut, body massage,
spa, exercise, so that everyone can say
" oh, a pretty breastfed mom"!

at the beginning first 2 months, i was also
unaware myself about the dressing, face,
only focused on breastfeeding, everytime i
went to do facial, i needed to rush to home
as he needed milk more frequency.
but since he had solid food, i was released
to do more private things for myself.
i think as a modern mom, we need to make ourself
as a good shape, both health and beauty.

though i lack of sleep, people still says "
you are smart than before ." my answer is
" it is because of my baby, he is my source,
my support !" .


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發表於 05-2-22 17:01 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

oldelephant,加油!加油!
樣殘,肥,黑眼圈,暗瘡,縐紋,白咀唇 - 我全部都有,好似道友咁
我把平安留給你們,我將我的平安賜給你們;我所賜給你們的,不像世界所賜的一樣。你心裏不要煩亂,也不要膽怯。(若 14:27)
Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God!!!


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發表於 05-2-22 17:20 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

monmantong,

That's very true, and I admire you for your energy and the good care you take of yourself.

Surely every husband loves to see a pretty wife, but the trouble with me is, I just can't afford the time to go to the gym or whatever. For one thing, I don't even have enough time to sleep, and if I do have the time, I'd much rather spend it with my precious little one than going out!

I know I've really let myself go since my baby was born (and sadly that has taken its toll on my looks). Perhaps it's time I listened to your advice and paid more attention to my own needs!

Thanks a lot!



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發表於 05-2-22 17:31 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

Old elephant,

but i never go out with my friends' dinner
gathering at week days, even they invite me,
i always rushed into home when i left office,
because i think i don't have much time spending
with Moses from Mon to Fri, so for most of the
gathering, i will bring him out, except
doing facial or hair cut.

so my friends also said i don't have any freedom
after having Moses, but actually i have maid taking
care of him, but i really don't want to share him with
others after my working hours, it seems that he is
awaitg my return, whatever i feel tired and have
very tired look, when i am seeing him, i will
have enough energy and become smarter.

i also didn't have enough sleep before, only 5-6 hours,
but after he slept with me when he was 4 months, i got
enough sleep, as i needed not wake up to bring him back
to the crib , and wasted so many times to make him sleep
again.




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發表於 05-2-22 21:16 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

I have never had any facial treatment, but my skin is not bad. I think it's due to the food I eat. I don't eat too much, but I eat everything (sometimes even junk food). I eat plenty of fish and soup for dinner (little rice).

My boss taught me to take one tablespoon (no need to eat too much) of bird's nest every morning in order to maintain 抵抗力. If you do not have enough sleep, to take some bird's nest daily is very good. I usually put bird's nest in milk or anything I wish to drink (my favorite is 益力多)。

Go to Sheung Wan to buy 碎燕 is not expensive, it's about HKD2XX per 兩, good enough for one month usage. Cook bird's nest once a week, put in the fridge, very convinenient.

My sister-in-law told me to take Royal Jelly, but since it may cause allergy, I am not sure whether Rose is allergic to Royal Jelly, so I didn't take it. Royal Jelly is also good to maintain 抵抗力.


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發表於 05-2-23 09:57 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

webjen,

非常謝謝!看到妳寫的‘加油!加油’和那兩個公仔,我真的忍不住笑呀!You're so sweet!

妳描述的種種癥狀,我也全部都有!我們真是同病相憐呀,哈哈!

我想,做在職媽媽也有好處,因為至少會‘被迫’留意一下自己的外表,以免嚇壞人。如果我不用上班,我真想像不到自己會蓬頭垢面到什麽程度呢! :mrgreen:


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發表於 05-2-23 10:36 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

monmantong,

我以前在這裡說過我睡房的床兩邊都不靠牆,所以沒法跟BB一起睡;但他近來半夜哭鬧得實在太厲害了,所以這兩晚就勉強試試讓他跟我一起睡。
但很失望啊,他還是一樣的哭鬧,就是摟著他睡也不行,結果始終要像平時坐著餵奶般抱他哄他,再不行就餵他。等他睡著了,放他在床上,他又馬上哭鬧抗議起來,於是又要抱起他,......如是者不經不覺天就亮了,要起床上班了,唉!!!
有時累得實在火了,想發脾氣罵他,但一看到他天真的小臉,就什麽都忍住了...誰叫自己是他媽媽呢?


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發表於 05-2-23 10:51 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

oldelephant,
早陣子我也提過我囝囝晚上醒 2 - 3 次, 前天終於証實他是因為出牙. 自從他的牙長出來之後, 他晚上睡得好多了.

你有試過躺餵嗎? 那時我囝囝晚上(第一次)醒來哭鬧, 我老公會把他抱上我們的大床(在我們中間), 我會躺著餵他, 很快他便再入睡了. 他就繼續睡在我們中間. 之後他再醒, 我可以很方便再餵他. 有時他不是因為肚餓, 但出動媽媽奶是最快安撫他的方法, 所以我也懶得花時間/心思去哄他, 他一哭, 我就揭起衣服餵他.


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發表於 05-2-23 10:53 |只看該作者

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yuenwa,

我也同意妳的皮膚不差呀!但會不會是妳得天獨厚呢?

我BB有濕疹,聽説燕窩可能會有不好的影響,所以我不敢試。我以前有一個相熟的中醫,他告訴我燕窩屬異類蛋白,體質比較敏感的人不宜隨便吃。他說想BB/小孩皮膚好,有一種食物是可以常吃的,那就是百合。他幾個女兒都是自少吃百合吃大的,她們現在的皮膚都滑溜得很呢(我見過她們,真是一點不錯)!


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發表於 05-2-23 11:00 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

oldlephant,
My situation same as monkichi. My baby cries a lot last month due to teething. I then began sleeping with him and whenever he cries during midnight, I will try to comfort him...if in vain, I will give him mom mom milk by 躺著餵他. Both of us can have more rest.

By the way, I did not go out for facial but I will do it at home by myself.


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發表於 05-2-23 14:24 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

monkichi & mamay,

我曾試過兩次躺著餵BB,但我們都很不習慣,BB兩次都吐奶了,弄得床單都濕了一大片,狼狽得很。
還有,請問你們會戴著胸圍睡覺嗎?我那兩次照樣有戴,覺得躺著餵奶時又要除扣子又有東西礙手礙腳,很麻煩啊。 ?-(


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發表於 05-2-23 14:28 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

oldelephant,
加油!加油! 讓你再笑一笑!!
好彩!!我不是一個貪靚的人,我也不介意別人怎樣看我.不過有時都有苦自己知,好似唇膏都唔敢用,d褲/裙又著唔落
你的清況就好像我坐月時一樣,有時只可以睡2-3hrs,雖然日頭不用番工,但是我都訓唔到,15mins就起身睇阿女有無事.通常日頭都只可以訓到2次 15mins,夜晚抱著阿b企係到都訓著
試下徜餵看看是否好d,不過我知你不想老公做廳長


我把平安留給你們,我將我的平安賜給你們;我所賜給你們的,不像世界所賜的一樣。你心裏不要煩亂,也不要膽怯。(若 14:27)
Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God!!!


珍珠宮

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發表於 05-2-23 14:35 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

oldelephant ,胃的"出口"是在右邊的,你試試用你左邊胸餵阿b看看是否好點 & 阿b每天都在進步中,或者佢又會不吐奶呢
請問你們會戴著胸圍睡覺嗎?會,要用pad
我把平安留給你們,我將我的平安賜給你們;我所賜給你們的,不像世界所賜的一樣。你心裏不要煩亂,也不要膽怯。(若 14:27)
Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God!!!


男爵府

積分: 5934

2011至尊種植勳章


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發表於 05-2-23 14:57 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

oldelephant,
我有戴著胸圍睡覺, 因為有用乳墊.
剛巧我囝囝是睡在我左邊, 我是用左邊乳房餵他的. 我也同意 webjen 的說法, bb 每天也在進步. 我囝囝以前常常嘔奶, 我們叫他做 "嘔奶王" 但他長大了, 現在已很少嘔奶了. 還有, 我們以前會在大床上先舖一張墊, 才放 bb 上來, 就算他嘔奶, 也不會弄髒床舖.


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發表於 05-2-23 16:07 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

oldelephant 寫道:
指的當然是我個樣...
自五個多月前開始餵母乳以來,沒有一晚是睡得安穩的。
常常都是斷斷續續地睡了四五個小時(近來更只有三小時左右),就要打起精神爬起來上班,工作時呵欠連連像‘吊白粉癮’一樣。
昨天拿起鏡子一照,驚見自己面目浮腫,眼下有不知多少條深深淺淺的紋,嘩,真的覺得自己老了好多年。
雖然如此,我從不後悔餵母乳的決定:只要BB健康快樂,做媽媽的作點犧牲也是在所不惜了!

所謂:衣帶漸寬終不悔,為B消得人憔悴啊!

o申下好la~別放棄!你比我還好,我仔頭1個月夜晚3~4hr醒1次,而家呢個半月,夜晚/半夜每1~2hr就醒,你話我唔殘都幾難,我有時辛苦到想放棄,但自己唔捨得


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發表於 05-2-23 21:51 |只看該作者

Re: 越來越殘......

oldelephant,

你可以試下背心型胸圍或運動圍, 揭開便可以餵, 不用扣。

oldelephant 寫道:
monkichi & mamay,

我曾試過兩次躺著餵BB,但我們都很不習慣,BB兩次都吐奶了,弄得床單都濕了一大片,狼狽得很。
還有,請問你們會戴著胸圍睡覺嗎?我那兩次照樣有戴,覺得躺著餵奶時又要除扣子又有東西礙手礙腳,很麻煩啊。 ?-(

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