i think besides you wish you have a baby
with good health, your baby and hubby also
wish they have a pretty mom and wife,
you can also refrensh yourself , like
going to do facial, hair cut, body massage,
spa, exercise, so that everyone can say
" oh, a pretty breastfed mom"!
at the beginning first 2 months, i was also
unaware myself about the dressing, face,
only focused on breastfeeding, everytime i
went to do facial, i needed to rush to home
as he needed milk more frequency.
but since he had solid food, i was released
to do more private things for myself.
i think as a modern mom, we need to make ourself
as a good shape, both health and beauty.
though i lack of sleep, people still says "
you are smart than before ." my answer is
" it is because of my baby, he is my source,
my support !" .
我把平安留給你們,我將我的平安賜給你們;我所賜給你們的,不像世界所賜的一樣。你心裏不要煩亂,也不要膽怯。(若 14:27) Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God!!!
That's very true, and I admire you for your energy and the good care you take of yourself.
Surely every husband loves to see a pretty wife, but the trouble with me is, I just can't afford the time to go to the gym or whatever. For one thing, I don't even have enough time to sleep, and if I do have the time, I'd much rather spend it with my precious little one than going out!
I know I've really let myself go since my baby was born (and sadly that has taken its toll on my looks). Perhaps it's time I listened to your advice and paid more attention to my own needs!
but i never go out with my friends' dinner
gathering at week days, even they invite me,
i always rushed into home when i left office,
because i think i don't have much time spending
with Moses from Mon to Fri, so for most of the
gathering, i will bring him out, except
doing facial or hair cut.
so my friends also said i don't have any freedom
after having Moses, but actually i have maid taking
care of him, but i really don't want to share him with
others after my working hours, it seems that he is
awaitg my return, whatever i feel tired and have
very tired look, when i am seeing him, i will
have enough energy and become smarter.
i also didn't have enough sleep before, only 5-6 hours,
but after he slept with me when he was 4 months, i got
enough sleep, as i needed not wake up to bring him back
to the crib , and wasted so many times to make him sleep
again.
I have never had any facial treatment, but my skin is not bad. I think it's due to the food I eat. I don't eat too much, but I eat everything (sometimes even junk food). I eat plenty of fish and soup for dinner (little rice).
My boss taught me to take one tablespoon (no need to eat too much) of bird's nest every morning in order to maintain 抵抗力. If you do not have enough sleep, to take some bird's nest daily is very good. I usually put bird's nest in milk or anything I wish to drink (my favorite is 益力多)。
Go to Sheung Wan to buy 碎燕 is not expensive, it's about HKD2XX per 兩, good enough for one month usage. Cook bird's nest once a week, put in the fridge, very convinenient.
My sister-in-law told me to take Royal Jelly, but since it may cause allergy, I am not sure whether Rose is allergic to Royal Jelly, so I didn't take it. Royal Jelly is also good to maintain 抵抗力.
oldlephant,
My situation same as monkichi. My baby cries a lot last month due to teething. I then began sleeping with him and whenever he cries during midnight, I will try to comfort him...if in vain, I will give him mom mom milk by 躺著餵他. Both of us can have more rest.
By the way, I did not go out for facial but I will do it at home by myself.
我把平安留給你們,我將我的平安賜給你們;我所賜給你們的,不像世界所賜的一樣。你心裏不要煩亂,也不要膽怯。(若 14:27) Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God!!!
我把平安留給你們,我將我的平安賜給你們;我所賜給你們的,不像世界所賜的一樣。你心裏不要煩亂,也不要膽怯。(若 14:27) Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God!!!